my friend is coming over tomorrow and I have it all planned out, i always plan it out to the last detail and we always have so much fun but it is really stressing me out. And don't say they will be happy just to see you cause I mean I want something to do but how do I make it less stressing? =]]
2007-12-08 09:06:56 · 2 answers · asked by xxprincessniaxx 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
ok look Robert I'm not but I am scared we might not have fun and be bored cause it has happened at my friends houses ALOT so know I am scared we will be bored at my house =[
2007-12-08 09:16:27 · update #1
thx cocostar =]
2007-12-08 09:17:39 · update #2
If it's a good friend of yours, you shouldn't need to do so much planning. Usually when someone comes over to hang out, all that they are expecting is some food and some conversation. So make sure you have good snacks to last you through the night, and get some good light hearted movies, so that you can watch them but still talk. If your friend does get bored, you guys can just brainstorm something to do together.
If you keep on getting stressed when friends come over, you're eventually just going to stop inviting people over. You need to realize that it's not up to you to plan everything out. Just be spontaneous, and you and your friend will have a good time! Hope that helps!
2007-12-08 09:16:28 · answer #1 · answered by Maple 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Obviously you are just insecure about this.
Relax, make some snacks to share, & something you enjoy.
Spend more time getting to know what they like too.
2007-12-08 17:12:37 · answer #2 · answered by Robert S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋