me and my man have had a lot of problems the past 6 months. and we love each other so much and have tried so many things to make us work. we recently kinda discovered that we think our relationship is just based on sex. that seems to be the only time we make each other happy here lately. we thought about taking it away and trying to work on us but we are terrified that if we take out the only thing that makes us happy right now then we will just give up. i think its because we are both so stressed out its tearing us apart and so sex is the only thing we know how to destress ourselves together. is there any way we can learn how to base our relationship on trust or love or sumthing while still having sex... or what? i need help . . .its tearing us apart...and fast.
2007-12-08 09:53:06 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You both need to calm down and maybe try to shorten your sex time. That might make it less needed, like one day 1 hour of whatever, then the next day 50 mins, day after 40 mins.......... so on
but you cant depend on sex to solve every problem you have.
2007-12-08 09:59:05 · answer #1 · answered by CupCake 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your right it's sex the animal in you.If that's all you have then when it get old it's over>
2007-12-08 17:57:08 · answer #2 · answered by 45 auto 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋