Something happend that was very inappropriate?
Is this wrong?
Would it be wrong for a 37 YO man to seduce a 23 YO girl whom?
was completely intoxicated, and he was completely sober?
She later on spoke to him and said she is not normallly that type of girl, which is true. Does he feel bad or weird maybe.
She did not really know what she was doing, but she did like the man. Why would he allow that to happen if she was drunk, and he was sober and then act like he had no part. He is divorced and more concerned with that.
2007-12-08 09:06:34 · 5 answers · asked by Dani 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
People on here can be really judgemental. Thanks to all of you who answered without having to insult me.
2007-12-11 04:17:10 · update #1
Why are you blaming him for her behavior? You state he took advantage of her, but she went along with it. She even put herself into that situation and it's her fault. No one forced her to drink so much that she would act out of character. No one forced her to go out in the first place.
Perhaps next time she should show better self-control and be responsible for herself, instead of expecting those around her to be responsible for her.
And no, they're both of age, nothing wrong with it at all. He didn't seduce her. She set herself up for it.
2007-12-08 09:11:19 · answer #1 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To answer your question, YES, it is wrong! However, a 23 YO woman is old enough that she should know how to handle herself. Getting completely intoxicated around people you don't COMPLETELY trust can only lead to trouble. There are a lot of women who allow this kind of thing to happen and are OK with it. How is a man to know how she really feels about the situation as it is happening if she is too drunk to say? If she is flirting more than she normally would if she were sober, she may have led him to believe that it was OK. I believe that his actions were wrong because he should have taken her intoxicated state into consideration and realize that she may be acting differently than she would normally, but I don't think that the whole blame should be placed on him (unless, of course, he got her drunk in the first place). She is an adult and should take responsibility for her own actions as well.
2007-12-08 17:27:01 · answer #2 · answered by Juliuliwuli 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yuck- player. Been there, done that. No, he doesn't feel bad and is just THRILLED that he can still get young hot 23 yr old chics. If she was drunk but still agreed to go along with it, then it's just a live and learn experience. In the future, tell your friend to stay away from 'trenchcoats' (old men that specifically try to pick up younger girls).
2007-12-08 17:11:31 · answer #3 · answered by jt_eradicator 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A 37 year old man should know better than to take advantage of a drunk 23 year old girl. It sounds to me that he completely took advantage of her and now doesn't want anything to do with her. My advise to her would be to watch how much she drinks in future and steer away from dirty old men.
2007-12-08 17:21:29 · answer #4 · answered by shona.cameron 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Shes legal so that wasnt a law that was broken. if she said no then its rape. doesnt sound like rape though. so then it just something that happened but probably shouldnt have. the guy knew what he was doing. its her choice if she wants to be involved with a guy like that.
2007-12-08 17:11:37 · answer #5 · answered by Cass 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋