my boyfriend invited his ex girlfriend to his hockey game and then he f***ed her what should i do? should i be mad? i don't want to lose him. but what i like was that he was completely honest with me about it then he asked me if i was mad i said no because i really dont want to lose him then today he told me when he asked me if i was mad and i said no he learned the truth he didn't want his ex girlfriend he wanted me. WHAT SHOULD I DO?
2007-12-08 07:15:01 · 24 answers · asked by KK B 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I am not mental and i did tell him i was mad at him and if he did it again i was going to have to leave him because i have been hurt to many times because of guys cheating and i dont want to be hurt again. He told me at the time he wasn't thinking he really wanted his ex and his ex wanted him. he is only a goalie in hockey and he isn't very hott at all but he knows i am mad at him for his cheating whore. i told him if he really wanted me i would have to trust him. and if he wanted me to stay with him he would have to figure out a big way to make it up to me.
2007-12-08 07:40:48 · update #1
Well later tonight I found out he didn't **** his ex girlfriend he was tryin to lose me but he realized how much I love him and he loves me that he decided he loves me to much.
2007-12-08 17:20:22 · update #2
Stop being a doormat.
2007-12-08 07:17:46 · answer #1 · answered by Muzzy 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Hun, by accepting what he did and not wanting to leave him, your enabling him to do it again in the future. Your best bet is to just leave. He might have learned his lesson, but that will only happen with the next person he is with (or he might do it again then). The last thing you need to be is a doormate. Find someone that will treat you well and respect your feelings. He has no regard for your feelings by F**king his ex. The sun will still come up the next day and you will find the one that will treat you great. Just give it time. But for now, its time to go your own way...
2007-12-08 07:28:53 · answer #2 · answered by bran1210 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He is totally screwing with your mind- oh I'm sorry I will never do it again- yeah right. He is a desperate individual trying to cover his tracks for something that he's most likely wanted to do all along. If you want to make the relationship work then you should make sure you forgive him completely and trust him thoroughly- otherwise you will always have problems. Do what you need to trust him again, and if he doesn't want to cooperate than he's not worth it to you. I would have gotten rid of him no questions asked- you don't know where she's been and what he could give you.
2007-12-08 07:26:17 · answer #3 · answered by Brittny M 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you have every right to be upset about this and you should be! honestly now, the guy had SEX with his EX! that's even worse than having sex with a total stranger, because perhaps he's still attracted to her or not over her... do you really want to have this hanging over your head?
i forgave a cheating boyfriend once and we are still together. but i think he would have cheated again if i had just "let this one slip" like you did. if you're not upset about it, then you're not really in love, but in that case you wouldn't bother to ask this question. so i think that you are feeling about crappy and you are 100% right to let him know about this! if you don't, chances are he'll think "wow, is it that easy to get away with it?" and it could very well happen again. you are not his doormat! and if he just chose you because you weren't mad at him for having sex with his ex, then that just shows that he likes the fact you will let him get away with anything.
for your own sake... i'm not even telling you to break up with him here! i'm just asking you to do the right thing for yourself and tell him that you are upset about this. if he dumps you for that, then he is an a-s-s because HE is the one who cheated.
good luck, hope you do the right thing.
by the way, if he cheats again, please be sure to dump him then! there's better out there
2007-12-08 07:27:42 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to break up with him! He cheated on you practically! Why would you go out with someone who has "sex" with his ex girl friend? That's just wrong. There are other people in the world. If he really loves you he wouldn't have done that.
2007-12-08 07:22:52 · answer #5 · answered by Mimi 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Oh boy...u need to get rid of him...he only says he wanted u because he knows u said u wasnt mad so he can just do it anytime and get away with it because u really wanna be with him...forget him...break up with him n find someone else...Hes not worth it..thats effed up, if he cared about u he wouldnt have cheated like that...yeah he told u but ohwell...he knows he can get away with it...DUMP HIM!!!
2007-12-08 07:20:07 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave him a guy like that isnt worth your time because hes just a horny bastard and if he ***** his ex then he will probably continue to cheat and you probably wont be able to trust him.I dated a guy who cheated on but i didnt want to lose him either so he just thought it was ok if he cheated and he continued to do it so just let him go theres better guys out there
2007-12-08 07:22:12 · answer #7 · answered by broken</3 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
its ok to invite her to the game but after wards f her no honey u really need to leave him i know u don't want to but if u to continue with the situation u in now go head and stay cuz really it sounds like he don't want u cuz all he want is the monkey not u cuz if he wanted u he would've neva cheated he should've realized it was u he wanted when he broke up with his ex and came to u.
2007-12-08 07:33:02 · answer #8 · answered by Tinkerbell21 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You probably dont want to loose him, because every girl wants him, he's hot, he's good at sports BLAH BLAH BLAH. KICK HIM TO THE CURB. Dont let him get away with that! He'll keep doing it and other people behind your back if you do! You shouldnt have to put up with that sh*t!
DUMP HIM.
2007-12-08 07:25:57 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Are you sure your rotten b/f slept with the town ho? These kinds of things get out control easily. Without some proof you are going to make yourself crazy.
Merry Christmas!
2007-12-08 07:32:09 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
are you kidding? he slept with his ex and isn't sure if you're mad?
leave him. you might think you love him, but you deserve a guy who respects you. he's just going to keep doing it if you stay with him because he'll know you allow it.
2007-12-08 07:31:38 · answer #11 · answered by pbJ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋