what do i do about fallouts with friends?

Question

i have had 2 fallouts with a freind!
one was cause i found out she likes talkin crap about me
and the other one was cause me and her brother really hate each other and will fight in sight

should i keep talkin to this person
it seems like one fallout will cause another
so really this person is becoming troublesome

bigger problem is that she is friends with most of my friends
so its sort of like a "Cold War" atmosphere going on!
she is dividing up all my friends up and stuff
if we ever "go at it" it will be
like a self-destruct sequence!

i really hate drama, i dont make it, it follows me


but i see this person everyday what should i do?
keep my hatred toward her a secret (which i dont like)?

Answer 1

Been their, be honest MAD (mutual assured destrution) works great at making for a eye-2-eye conversation. Let her know hey buddy I know you talk crap, I know I don't like your brother, but were dangerous, we could really hurt each other if not kill each other, if anything we should be friends, not enemies. Of course in highschool its hard to get people to act maturly, which forces you to hope the truth saves you. See she's a sh!t-talker, sh!t-talkers show themselves for what they really are and people see that. So when the choice is made who do you think they'll pick you or the sh!t-talker. So you might be best waiting it out, and letting her make her grave..... besides her brothers also a idiot apparently so no help from him, with them both tag-teaming their rep, its only a matter of time.....