My ex split up with me in September because of distance. I still talk to her periodically and would do anything to get her back because I do love her. Her phone has been turned off because she did not pay the bill and now it looks like her internet service is gone as well. I sent her this because I thought I might have some remote chance of us getting back together. What do you guys think?
2007-12-08 06:26:37 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I personally would not have sent her the money because you really can't buy love. You just need to get over her and move on. You sound like such a sweet guy. I am sure there is alot of girls lined up that would love to be with you. I am sure if I had ever dated you I would have appreciated you. You sound so sweet and caring! Do not let this get you down! You go get a great girl who will love you like you love her and then the two of you can have some happy times together!!
2007-12-08 10:20:06 · answer #1 · answered by I love screwdrivers! 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Trying to buy her back...real classy.
Look, you need to work on the issues that broke up the relationship, not just throw money at her. Had it ever occured to you that she changed her number and you don't see her online because she's avoiding you? I don't know why you broke up exactly, but it sounds to me like you are having a hard time moving on. Maybe you're freaking her out and she's trying to get some space without actually telling you to get lost.
Send her a letter, tell her how you feel. But don't pester her to come back, don't make threats or offer bribes. At most ask her to send you a note just to let you know she got the letter. Then leave her the hell alone. If she's interested in starting a dialogue she'll contact you. And don't hold your breat waiting. If you don't hear back from her within a month, time to move on.
2007-12-08 06:35:09 · answer #2 · answered by rohak1212 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm afraid that even if you did get back together, the chances are it wouldn't work still. It would happen only because you tried to buy her heart. But I do understand how much you love a person that you do rash things like sending $500 in hopes you get contact with her again. But, I think it's wasted :(
2007-12-08 06:31:24 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have been given an envelope from my secret Y!A admirer immediately. It had shamrocks and a questionable makeshift foil envelope interior... i became relieved to discover it finished of green St. Patty's Day beads. i visit furnish my 2 a million/2-3 hundred and sixty 5 days-old mini dreads with them, mon.
2016-11-14 22:03:09 · answer #4 · answered by wendland 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are on the one way train to "userville". First, if she had feelings for you at all...you'll be getting that envelope back with the money inside. If she keeps it...it by no way means she still wants you...it just means she's hard up for money. Next time...send just a card and a smile. She'll appreciate it and it won't put her in an akward situation.
2007-12-08 06:35:39 · answer #5 · answered by HatingF8 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What? You don't know how many ways this was a bad idea?
But then, maybe you have money to throw away.
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Next time just drop the cash in the poor box at your church or temple or send it to your favorite charity
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1st off you NEVER send cash through the mail...never. You have no proof you ever sent it if if doesn't arrive or she claims it didn't.
Always ALWAYS send a check or money order.
2nd of all, you can't buy love, Buddy, just sex... and you don't want a relationship with someone who deals that way..
Need I go on?
2007-12-08 06:35:28 · answer #6 · answered by Kaye 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Getting her back by giving her some money? If you're willing to be a piggy bank for her, er, umm...
She didn't pay her bills.
You're sending her money.
= Her getting back together to get more money.
Did that ever come to mind?
2007-12-08 06:31:24 · answer #7 · answered by Jessca Hershlag 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you sure she has not changed her number and blocked you on her site. Move on and get over it...by the way never advisable to send cash by mail is why we have cheques and money orders.
2007-12-08 06:37:20 · answer #8 · answered by wrathofkahn03 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. $20 bills are a lot easier to deal with.
2007-12-08 06:33:31 · answer #9 · answered by rdk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is not going to help but you are sure a sweet guy...I can't imagine if you are this nice to another girl you will have trouble finding someone new...
2007-12-08 06:30:21 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋