He wnts sex everyday but releases within seconds of entry.Im not satisfied .Should i allow him to continue?

Question

He does not even talk about his failure in sex..After sex he simply snores to sleep to enact the same the next night

Answer 1

Look communication is important if you want your sex life to be great...He needs to see someone about the premature ejaculation, or he needs to get you off before actual penetration starts....I cannot stress how important it is to communicate....It sounds to me like you have allowed this to go on for quite awhile.....So therefore this is his routine now...Problem is that men hate to admit that they have a sexual problem....In my experience situations like this (Love without good sex) only lead to cheating in a sexual way...
A person can cheat sexually, or emotionally.....You need to sit down with him and explain your problem to him., remember its him that is causing your problem....There is nothing wrong with you.....Everyone wants there sex to be great, especially when its with the one you love.....I also had a friend who was the same as him....His wife got the point across by masturbating just as soon as he got done....well needless to say she got the point across....maybe you need to take control, and take him back to sex 101......Good luck

Answer 2

If your man releases within seconds
then why do you continue to have sex
with him? I think you're making things up
talking about he snores after sex.
Come on now how many guys snore
after seconds of sex? THAT'S STUPID!
Not many unless he is over 45
or something. You make it seem like
you're giving him the best seconds
of sex. If your man is giving you seconds
what are you giving in return to make
him fall a sleep? NOTHING!
There's other ways he can please you
and you should help him
instead of coming on here talking
behind his back and disrespecting
him.

PS: I don't think it's your sex
that's making him snore.
It might be his Job Site that's
doing that.

Answer 3

Oh dear, I have a friend who has almost the same problem as yours. Her husband is very agressive but never last long. In just a few seconds, he would blow even only on the foreplay like kissing the lips & other parts of the body. My girl friend is not satisfied with that and years had passed already, they don't have sex, or in short, sexless couple but they live together still.

Answer 4

Both of you ( not just him alone) need to know the importance of foreplay. Foreplay makes it "long lasting" and gives you more control on when and where one can release or climax.
It is easy for me to say this - but inorder for people to put that into practice one should understand the chemistry between them and the partner when they perform the act. Its not just a physical act as they show on television/movies. For some people the chemistry comes automatically, and for some - it comes with practice. Do not worry , try it slowly with patience. its just a matter of time. Do not just blame or treat him incompetent at this stage ..there is part that you need to play too...Good luck. If it still doesn't work out after trying, you might want to see a doctor.

Answer 5

I don't think he cares. I think he's just using you. This is a very important part of life. You deserve a lot more, a lot more than you are getting and I can say this without knowing a thing about you. There are a lot of men in the world. The issue is, why do you continue to put up with it?

If you truly love the man, you should be able to discuss this with him. Most men would consider this a serious and, frankly, extremely embarrassing problem. I know I would. It doesn't seem he wants to do anything about it. A lack of shame about the problem combined with a denial of it and continued pattern of behavior leads me to believe he just doesn't care.

Answer 6

If you really love him honestly give him some more time to realise the fact.Talk to him very openly about your feelings and shower him confidence. Be more affectionate .That will make chemistry in him . If the proplem still persists consult a good urologist and yoga guru. Things will definitley improve. Be patient and optimistic and you will enjoy the life for which it was created. Best of luck.

Answer 7

This is a toughy primarily because we don't know whether he is your husband or BF. If he is your husband don't you think you should discuss this matter? Maybe he needs your help, ask him. Guide him. Tell him you have needs too. But be patient. If he is your BF, either he doesn't know what he's doing and is a complete nerd or he just doesnt care about your feelings. If you love him talk to him about it. If you no longer do, then what are you waiting for?

Answer 8

Jeez! Well if you're not telling him what he's doing wrong then he might not realise that he's doing it wrong...you see?!
Have a chat with himand tell him that you think that he's being a little selfish in the bedroom, that you need more than a role-on-role-off lover. If he refuses to try to compramise then stick a sex ban on him...if that doesn't work then there's no point in being in a relationship that doesn't satisfy you.

Answer 9

First of all I hope you don't talk to him about this and refer to it as his "failure in sex"; that would not make him want to have a conversation about it. You need him to participate in foreplay to satisfy you. As for it being overwith quickly I'm sot sure there is anything you can do about that.

Answer 10

Start playing with his body after he goes to sleep. He'll think it's some angel of his dreams and will give you a great time.Do not get hurt however if he calls out some other name.