Met a guy and we went out 4 times. On the last date he showed me where he lived and we watched movies and talked and got along great. I always enjoy the dates with him and he said he felt the same about going out with me too. After the last date I haven't heard from him for 2 weeks now. I called him once before this and he acted like he didn't want to talk so I ended the call and never called him back, I just leave him alone. I can't figure out what I said or did wrong. What would you think and what would you do?
2007-12-08 00:23:48 · 16 answers · asked by robin 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
It really doesn't matter why he isn't calling,don't waste your time trying to figure it out.This guy went out with you four times and he doesn't have the decency to call you and let you know what is going on.This man does not deserve any more considerations.You are lucky to find out what kind of a person he is before it was too late. Forget about this guy,he sounds like a looser.Good luck.
2007-12-08 00:50:48 · answer #1 · answered by Julius C 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Honey, I am sorry to tell you this, but I am speaking from experience here and this has happened to me many of times.
You meet a wonderful guy, they bring you to their apartment, you have a wonderful date, you make plans to see eachother again, and he says he will call, and he does not.
Honey, has he just ended a previous relationship, if so, then maby the ex, got back with him, and he is avoiding you because he got back with his ex.
That is what they do, they can't face you to tell you the truth, they want to avoid you, they think that is the best, like they do not have the ba**s to tell you face to face.
Just let it go, and I am sorry to say that is what happened.
I always thought it was funny, you know, how they date you and then they make you think that you are the one, and then they say they will come over and see you and they never do, and then the next morning you call them, and they are crying on the phone telling you that they got back with their ex, and that they never ment to hurt you, blah, blah, blah, that happened to me, and I was crushed!!!!!
I just thought to myself, get over it, and I am free of him, and I just kept a positive attitude and stayed happy and pretty soon I met more wonderful guys!!!!!!!
I suggest you do the same.
He was "the man" dating you, but now, he can crawl under a rock because he does not have the ba**s to tell you what is really going on.
Find someone else, he is not worth your dime!!!!!!!!
You deserve better, you do not deserve a bag full of lies!!!!!
2007-12-08 08:58:47 · answer #2 · answered by carriegreen13 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would act exactly the way you did. Don't ever chase after anyone. If they want you in their life they will be there. Never ever be desperate enough to keep calling, texting whatever! And when they finally realize that they are a dumb *** and messed up on you, you will be with someone sooooo much better, and that wants to be with you. Not someone you had to force to be with. Don't ever lower yourself for anyone. People will always realize what was good in their life, and who they should truly be with when they are gone. When this happens, you simply express yourself, or if single still, give em a try..but the first time he plays games, leave and move on.
2007-12-08 08:36:01 · answer #3 · answered by lily80231 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You may not have done or said anything wrong at all, so no reason to accept or assign blame.
Maybe after 4 dates he realized that you are not what he's looking for, although he likes you well enough. Maybe his ex is back in the picture. Maybe he met someone he likes better. Maybe he decided he really is gay. Whatever the reason is, it's valid for him and none of your business.
All reasons for you to just move on without any hard feelings.
2007-12-08 08:28:07 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It was only 4 dates, so just lay low & see what happens. He may be confused as to whether or not he even wants a relationship right now with you or anyone for that matter. Don't try and contact him, as that may seem pushy to him, He knows your number, if he wants to see you, he'll call. But don't sit back & wait for him. Get out, have fun !
2007-12-08 08:37:56 · answer #5 · answered by Blu 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he got back together with an ex. Or he wanted sex by date # 4 and when he didn't get it he gave up? Who knows? Obviously he isn't worth the effort ittakes to worry. A real man would just tell you he didn't wanna see you anymore.
2007-12-08 14:46:51 · answer #6 · answered by christina30 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he has a girlfriend and you were just a good time.
2007-12-08 10:51:14 · answer #7 · answered by seahorse 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He just isnt interested. Time to move on
2007-12-08 08:33:28 · answer #8 · answered by Bob D 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I wouldnt call him no more. He knows your number if hes interested, but apparently he isnt.
2007-12-08 08:27:48 · answer #9 · answered by Ang 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
leave it alone......sounds like hes just prowling around dating women.......u werent coming off the panties and someone else did...dont pick your brain over it.....its his loss
2007-12-08 08:28:59 · answer #10 · answered by Nick20 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋