2007-12-08 00:26:15 · 21 answers · asked by jan 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You can't make someone feel what they don't feel. Go on with your life learn something new. Take some college courses and expand your horizons. Go out with friends and heal yourself. Yes it will take time but life will go on. You have no choice right now but to go on. If you hang onto an empty dream you will never realize the possibilities of a full and loving dream. It's his loss that he fell out of love with you. Make him see it everytime he bumps into you. Go on with your life and he will see someday what he is missing. Good luck. Maeve.
2007-12-08 00:32:07 · answer #1 · answered by queenmaeve172000 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Once a person claims they dont love you anymore, you can bet this relationship has run it,s course, you must just learn to accept this & move on, as you cant change how a person feels about you, but 9 times out of 10 most men who make these claims have a alternate motive, so Im guessing their may be someone with whom he either likes or is seeing, men dont just wake up one morning & say, I dont love my wife anymore, this must be something that has been brewing for a while? And I really hate it when I see men or women who claim they fall out of love, love is forever, not temporary, so Im guessing he never loved you to begin with? He may have cared & lusted & had reasons for marrying you but it was never love. Can you imagine falling out of love with your parents or one of your children? Love is forever! Lust is temporary!
2007-12-08 08:46:23 · answer #2 · answered by penelope 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he fell out of love he's not gonna come back. Why would you want someone who doesn't want you? Find someone that deserves and appreciates you. MOVE ON!!
2007-12-08 14:37:34 · answer #3 · answered by christina30 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
And? If he said he fell out of love why do you need him back! Heck he did you a favor!!!!!!!!!! He left the door open for you to meet a wonderful fun loving man that will replace him!!!!!
2007-12-08 08:34:38 · answer #4 · answered by rita_hiemy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can not make someone love you, and if he did come back out of guilt or something he wouldn't be there long. You need to find some peace within yourself and move on.
2007-12-08 08:35:26 · answer #5 · answered by Moe 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ask him what happened and make him tell you the truth. Learn from this experience and then move on with your life b/c you deserve someone who loves YOU and won't fall out of love with you. Good luck.
2007-12-08 08:33:09 · answer #6 · answered by asldfkjdfj 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you covenant spouses? If so, then you need to learn to stand for your husband and your marriage. If you are not covenant spouses, then your marriage is not valid in God's eyes. If you are covenant spouses, then please check out Bob and Charlyne Steinkamp. They have a restored marriage after being divorced for about two years. They have a website and send devotionals everyday encouraging men and women to stand for their marriage and their spouse's salvation. Check out their archives.
https://rejoiceministries.org/devotion.php
I highly recommend that you sign up for Doreen's Devotionals called Doreen's Daily Delights.. These are awesome. http://marriagerestorationministries.org/
Here's another website for people standing for their marriages. There is chat every Friday night. http://www.faithandmarriage.com/
Check out Jimmy and Karen Evans. They have a weekly tv show that discusses marriage. Their shows are on the internet that you can watch. Jimmy is excellent. Jimmy gives very practical guides on how to have a successful marriage. http://www.marriagetoday.org/
Also check out this link concerning divorce and remarriage. I think you will be surprised. Many churches are blinded to the truth and even encourage people to divorce. Satan is tearing the church and marriages apart.
http://www.biblicalresearchreports.com/divorceandremarriage.php#hatedivorce
2007-12-08 10:39:23 · answer #7 · answered by janetrmi 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
if he fell out of love there nothing there 2 fix
2007-12-08 08:30:10 · answer #8 · answered by broboon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you can't make someone who no longer loves you come back to you. And I know if it were me, and i was still in love with him, but knew in my heart he no longer loved me, I wouldn't want him back, that wouldn't be fair to me & it wouldn't be fair to you either. If he no longer loves you, try and move on, because there is someone out there that will love you.
2007-12-08 08:42:13 · answer #9 · answered by Blu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't like to say this but i don't think you can change his mind. it's pretty much over when someone tells you that. i feel bad for you. things look pretty bleak right now, i've been through the same thing, just remember things eventually will get better.
2007-12-08 08:32:22 · answer #10 · answered by Debbie L 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋