Family & Relationships - 8 December 2007

im sure this happens, it's been in movies.
so im curious....
you sleep with a woman, and months, years later....
here is a child, you never knew was yours.
how would you feel about the woman? the child?
in your life now. weather you are married, single, have other children.. how would it affect you now?

2007-12-08 18:41:18 · 8 answers · asked by Porkchop 6 in Other - Family & Relationships

i know he has true love for me so dont say that bull that he is going to mess....but what would you say to convince him to wear one after the (little) wedding

2007-12-08 18:38:15 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

My husband and I have been "separated" for almost 2 weeks. We speak because we have a 2 year old son and I work full time and he watches him. He left me for my best friend and wants to "date other people" and "have sex with others", his reason: "I won't know how I feel and you should do the same thing". I told him no way, we are still married and I respect that vow I made. It really hurts that he wants to be with my ex-best friend and date her/sleep with her while we are still married. He says he is only married b/c of technical reasons, but still wears his wedding band (or at least he does when he sees me). What is the right thing to do, this is such a silly question, but I am so confused right now. He lives with his parents right now and wants to bring another woman to their house and be intimate with her....how rude! Please advise.

2007-12-08 18:37:43 · 15 answers · asked by cwilcoxrn 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-12-08 18:34:06 · 12 answers · asked by Cafe au lait 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm in the same boat, and live about 200 miles from my kids for the time being. I see em once a month right now, and have had to travel alot for my job of the last 7 years.

Do you worry that the picture they have of you is not accurate and fed that direction by a bitter x wife and former inlaws?

2007-12-08 18:32:03 · 7 answers · asked by Zipperhead 6 in Marriage & Divorce

A girl who is 10 yrs junior to me joined the firm. I used to give her ride to office.I was admiring her positive atitude and was liking to talk to her as much as possible. I started doing things out of my way helping her and I used to feel happy for the same. I just wanted to spend sometime every day. From her side she used to talk to me and sometimes she was supportive in giving advices on career. She presented me a small gift after we met after longwknd. I was curious to spend time with her as it was longtime. I was waiting for her in office after my working hours which she does'nt know. In last minute she took ride back home from another collegue. I got disturbed and called her after she reached home saying that I was disappointed for not coming initially she told u should have told me.Next day she told why you want to spend time with go home and spend time with ur family in rude way and ur only my collegue. She stopped coming in my car and does not talk to me.What I should do?

2007-12-08 18:31:52 · 2 answers · asked by Heart 1 in Family

About 5 weeks ago my husband of 3 years (we've been together 9), told me he didn't love me and didn't want to be married any more. My best friend, or so I thought, was trying to comfort me and him. To make a long story short, my husband has decided to leave me for her. We have a 2 year old son together. He keeps telling me that he doesn't love me or want to be married any more, but then will say that he wants to try, but I have to make changes. I had asked them both to stop talking/texting each other and they both refused. He tells me that regardless the outcome, he is still going to be friends with her. He doesn't understand why I am not friends with her any more and thinks that I'm a bad person for that. I am so angry, sad, jealous, every emotion all at once! I kicked him out of our house and he is living w/his parents, but we are still married and he is having her over @ his parents house! Does anyone have any words of encouragement or advice. I have talked to an attorney.

2007-12-08 18:31:43 · 7 answers · asked by cwilcoxrn 1 in Marriage & Divorce

well a girl is virgin and old enough but like to do it oral only, she finish 4 times but her bf doesnt finish once because he is not used to do it oral only,and he get lots of pain because he doesnt ejaculate and if he asks that he doesnt want to do it she will get mad from him. what do u think about her isit kind of selfishness? or its normal like that?

2007-12-08 18:27:07 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-12-08 18:26:53 · 40 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-12-08 18:25:43 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

me and GF moving to live together,im smoker and she is non-smoker but she says that im not allowed to smoke inside the house and there is no balcony, only window and toilet, she doesnt even accept beside the window, do you think its fair enough like that?

2007-12-08 18:18:56 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ignore the seducer, shout at the seducer, leave the job, ...etc.

2007-12-08 18:17:39 · 17 answers · asked by ej974 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-12-08 18:13:54 · 5 answers · asked by CaDBFe 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

just as the question i post, can anyone tells me an english term precisely. is that called complex of virginity? thanks a lot!

2007-12-08 18:09:09 · 7 answers · asked by Linny 1 in Singles & Dating

okay so my sister is 24 1/2 years old still trying to pick fights with me. I thought she'd be more mature then that by now but I guess I was wrong. I've tried to be nice and diplomatic, ive tried talking to her calmly and have flat out said " I dont like it when you talk down to me thats why i get mad" shes always trying to put me down, raising her voice, yelling at me, and mentioning all my flaws after i ask her not to basically claiming i look as ugly now as i did when i was 12 (which was years and years ago) and that nothings changed but height
which isnt true by any means. She acts as though shes high and mighty compared to the rest of our family and the people in the area that we live. all becuase she has taught in taiwan,
without a degree i might add..
shes back now and has no job and my parents praise her like a goddess and my dad gives her so much money, yet freaks out if i just ask for only 20$ so i can have cellphone minutes
(we dont have a home phone)

2007-12-08 18:08:37 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

i caught him cheated once when i open up his YM account.I can't imagine that he could do that to me.I thought he was a change person when we got married.I've put too much trust on our relationship before but after that incident I can't find myself to trust him anymore.

2007-12-08 18:08:26 · 14 answers · asked by niCoLE 2 in Marriage & Divorce

tell you they're just calling it as they see it? as though that exhonnorates them from twisting the knife? Couple years back, had a guy I'd known well since gradeschool pull that with me. It caused a big gulf. Ya got a story for me?

2007-12-08 18:07:59 · 5 answers · asked by Zipperhead 6 in Friends

who just really didnt give a f about anything or anyone?? what were they like
how did they make you feel when around them

2007-12-08 18:06:11 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-12-08 18:05:11 · 13 answers · asked by Yas 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Yeah I have already asked this, but this time I have pictures to show how pale I really am. BTW, I read this one question saying white people are ashamed of being white, by no means am I ashamed otherwise I would be fake tanning :P. But yeah, anyways: How many men find pale pale attractive?
http://viewmorepics.myspace.com/index.cfm?fuseaction=viewImage&friendID=110663092&albumID=1202262&imageID=13310294
http://viewmorepics.myspace.com/index.cfm?fuseaction=viewImage&friendID=110663092&albumID=1202262&imageID=13310262 - I know I look albino :P but meh it suits my personality - different :P
http://viewmorepics.myspace.com/index.cfm?fuseaction=viewImage&friendID=110663092&albumID=1202262&imageID=13310280
http://viewmorepics.myspace.com/index.cfm?fuseaction=viewImage&friendID=110663092&albumID=1202262&imageID=13310252

2007-12-08 18:04:53 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ackground story: I have a friend (A) who is pregnant, another friend (B) of mine was mad at A and said all kinds of mean, hateful, and harsh things about A, her husband and unborn baby. Now B is mad at me. Nobody ever told A about the mean things that B said. Now B is throwing a baby shower for A. I wasn't invited to the baby shower (obviously) because the hostess is B and she doesn't want me there. Which is fine, I mean it is her house and all. From the very begining of A's pregnancy I have been looking forward to giving her a very special gift that I made for her and the baby.
The question is: Is it wrong to send a gift to a shower that I'm not invited to?

2007-12-08 18:04:11 · 5 answers · asked by Lily Flower 2 in Friends

It really hurts my feelings. She calls about once a month to talk about my neice and will throw in a "how are you" or "take care of yourself". If I try to talk to her about it then she gets really angry at me for "accusing" her of such things. I am to the point that I want to stop communications with her because it's so upsetting to me. Is anyone in a similar situation?

2007-12-08 18:03:18 · 9 answers · asked by sunflowers 4 in Family

my friend said she heard that you can get marry over the phone if you are in one country and your husband to be is in an other country --- to hard to belive- i say it can"t be done

2007-12-08 18:02:19 · 5 answers · asked by lady of the hearts 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I mean no offense or anything, but fat girls are always the nicest and coolest friends ever? I just love my big girl-friends, they are just so great. Why is it so?

2007-12-08 18:01:13 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

According to my friends (girls) they telling all the girls are giving importancy gentleness and good charachter than handsomness while they selecting their life partner, How much it is true?

2007-12-08 17:59:42 · 10 answers · asked by Mithun K 2 in Singles & Dating

im a single mum my age is 27 my daughter is 6, im australian and finding it so hard to find a worth while guy, im not skinny but not fat, i think im pretty darn attractive, ive got more then looks to offer, so why is it so hard to find someone who is interested in me, not my looks

2007-12-08 17:59:13 · 14 answers · asked by the flasher 1 in Singles & Dating

it seems that all men (besides homosexual) find women's body's irresistible why is this so

2007-12-08 17:57:12 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

have you been bad? What did u do?

2007-12-08 17:56:02 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-12-08 17:55:24 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i am a colored man going in a skool full of white people. could this be the reason? my whole life i've been trying to get a girl. i always wanted a serious relationship and i go 2 high skool. please can someone help me. plus there is this one girl i have known since like 1st grade and i've been talking to her and she asked me what i was doing this weekend. however not in a date way but in like a friend way. what should i do. how do i make a girl to like me. ALL GIRLZ WANT ARE BAD BOYS. i try so hard. please some help?

2007-12-08 17:55:23 · 16 answers · asked by kwiz365 1 in Singles & Dating