this guy im with im not sure that he is into me or have another girl on the side!he comes to my house to see me and we talk and stuff. he used to have his cell phone on vibrate cuz he gets alot of calls, but now he puts it on silent and he dosnt let me see it.we started going out 1 and a half months ago and he just acts so weird. tonight i text him to see if he was awake he was then i asked him y isnt he calling me the, after that he said that he was going to sleep now, its like he didnt wanna talk to me, or he was just really tired... he goes to college mon-fri.he goes to work at 6am then leaves at 4pm, i should have call him earlier but i had to work.....ahhhhhhhhhhhh so confused!
2007-12-08 17:11:05 · 11 answers · asked by Portiá 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He's just really really busy with his life right now, with college and work. It's a lot of pressure on a person, and then with a girlfriend on top of it. Sorry to hear about your problems, but if he's acting like that then he isn't worth the trouble.
2007-12-08 17:14:22 · answer #1 · answered by winds_of_justice 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it seems to me Cellular life is a bit too intensive. I can't see how it is tolerable to date someone receiving cell calls during the date. Both should be off. Is he a two-timer? I don't know. But I have the distinct impression you are running him ragged. Getting to know someone is a slightly painful process. Down the road, the answers will be there. But for sure, either he is a guy for you or he ain't. If he ain't then, he ain't. It's not really something you can control. Or even should want to. Just don't let him force you to make any decisions blind!! If he is a good guy you will find that out. By the way, what do you do together? You can go one-on-one for a long time without getting to know one another. A few minutes in company can shed a lot of light. Tell him you want to do something together. Could be he's just putting in time until you put out.Odds are though, he doesn't have enough energy for two of you.
2007-12-08 17:25:41 · answer #2 · answered by richard d 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that just sounds like a guy to me some guys are very guess like , i have this friend and she has been with her boyfriend for about 5 months and he gives her mixed signals all the time first she's the princess and girl of his dreams and the next thing he's mad at her for no reason or does not call her for like a day or two// talk about mixed signals she is like number 7 on his top friends on my space// trust your heart to know if he is being faithful to u
2007-12-08 17:19:49 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is tired. He is going to school and working. Be supportive and helpful. Don't nag him if he doesn't call you back right away. Likely he is busy. How about bringing him a sandwich at work for his lunch? Do nice things for him and he will love you for it.
2007-12-08 17:15:02 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-14 03:53:59 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am married and my own husband tells me to look at his phone when hes asleep or something like that because he feels like i am prying into his privacy but that is ok with me. now your guy just might not be into you but make sure you find out before you call it quits because he sounds like a very busy guy
2007-12-08 17:18:09 · answer #6 · answered by mastat601 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is possible that he was simply tired and wanted to go to sleep, but if he was not hiding something, he would allow you to see who was calling him.
2007-12-08 17:15:02 · answer #7 · answered by RainCloud 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe u should go to his house and see if hes with any other girl and suprise him and see the truth
(just an idea)
2007-12-08 17:14:36 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think he likes you, but he is a full time student, gets tired,
please take all of that into consideration.
at least he is ambitious and not lazy.
2007-12-08 17:16:08 · answer #9 · answered by Jerry S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its apparent hes cheating on you brake his heart before he brakes yours
2007-12-08 17:14:47 · answer #10 · answered by candice s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋