im 14 years old. Im a boy. You can say im a Mummy's Boy. I always wonder what happens when my Mummy pass away in the future... Whats gonna happen to me? Will i get to see her again? How am i gonna survive without her? I always think of that that i get worried sick for no reason. Please help me... **tears welling up**
please help me for those who have the experiences.
2007-12-08 21:36:28 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
you may think this as a petty question. but i dont think you would know how i feel like.
2007-12-08 21:38:57 · update #1
nope. i didnt tell her. would want too. but ofcourse i do tell her that i love her. so very much.
2007-12-08 21:43:28 · update #2
hmmm... i know wat ur talkin bout...i'm a mumma's girl too!!...
u know ur worries are valid for a 14 year old who feels that ur mom is ur hwole world... its good to see ur attachment,since boys now a days dont have that... ur mom is really lucky to have u... does she know that... u have to let her know that... and till she doesnt know that u'll worry bout that!!...
let her know her love for u in the present.. hug her,kiss her and tell her how u feel for her... since she is the only one who can help u in this situation...since if i tell u to be strong and level headed..u'll not listen to me..since u dont know me...
but if ur mom tells u to be strong...u have to be strong!!...
ur just 14 man.. ur moms young too... y do u think of bad strikin u rite now... give her happiness and she'll live a long life...
many parents have short lives due to childrens neglecting them, and tensions...
try keepin ur mom out of all these...n she'll be there for u like always...
never feel insecure... i think after u've been a wonderful son and wen she certifies it from her own mouth..u'll always find satisfaction in ur heart...that ur mom even if dead and gone believd in me n loved me always...n she'll expect me to be the same forever...!!!
Always b an example to ur friends!!... its not bad to b a mommas boy... u are her own flesh n blood!!...
Ur a blessed boy if u stay like thins forever...
all the best... dont worry!!
2007-12-08 21:56:47 · answer #1 · answered by Golden 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Thats really sweet, I dint know guys also thinked that way. coz i used to feel the same too.
But yes, the key is to let her know shes loved A LOT.
Moms love surprises on bdays, n other special occasions.
Parents, n especially moms are the most unconditional love giving creatures! They rock! :)
Dont think so much into the future, youre young and you need to enjoy this stage of life now! worries come for ppl after 30s :)
Also think of it this way maybe u wont have to survive without her afterall, maybe if the world does come to an end abruptly and all our loved ones and we go away together, its a win win situation, no one feels sad. I like to think of it that way, that God will take me and my loved ones together at the same time, maybe like a natural disaster or something, and then I stop worrying.
So cheer up and be an excellent son like urself.
2007-12-08 22:05:35 · answer #2 · answered by shadows 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I dont sense so solid approximately this occasion, probable he's not finding for a dedication or afraid of one, or he's scared that if he gets married, he wont be waiting to make u happy. U men are in a relation, so u shud seek advice from a minimum of one yet another while u have doubts, coz initially it somewhat is going to be small doubts, yet at last , all this builds up for a miles better disaster. seek advice from him proper to the variety you sense and ask him head to head, no longer over the telephone or mail or messenger, those issues shud be executed head to head, coz merely then you certainly can see his expression. If he nonetheless acts extraordinary, then probable u shud circulate on, earlier it gets much harder, coz if he maintains to do this, he's by no skill gonna exchange. believe me, i'm a guy, and it is the way it somewhat is....
2016-10-10 21:46:24 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your thinking in the future..... Why not enjoy each day and try not to think of the day when your mum passes. Live for the now and deal with things as they happen. Stop thinking in the future. That day maybe ages away.
2007-12-08 21:40:56 · answer #4 · answered by Freckles2 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It's natural to worry about that. I do too and I am way older than you. It's not that I'm still attached to her but I love her and it would just be very hard to lose her as with any loved one. But like someone else said...just enjoy her for the many many years that you will have her in your life.
2007-12-08 21:44:42 · answer #5 · answered by Mary Posa 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am sure everything will be alright. It is not good to worry so much. Try to think good things and I am sure you're mommy will be fine. Have you told her how you feel?
2007-12-08 21:42:17 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
As you grow up, you won't need her as much anyway, if you do, I think you need help, a 40 year old who is attached to their mother is rather worrying
2007-12-08 21:40:27 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
Go buy Led Zeppelin's "Physical Graffiti"
Listen to it repeatedly.
Good luck.
2007-12-08 21:41:32 · answer #8 · answered by box of rain 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋