Me and my boyfriend have been together since January, he treated me like no other when we first got together, flowers, candy, cards, and poems. I bought him a new tattoo set and many other things because at the time I was able to get him things, now we have moved somewhere else and things are not anywhere close to where they used to be I ask him questions he yells, he spends all of his time with our neighbor at their house only comes home to shower and sleep, He is never here anymore. We are having money problems and when I stopped being able to buy him things he started changing. I am pregnant as well and he is sending so many mixed signals I don't know where to begin. when I ask him what is wrong he tells me nothing or he gets angry. When I try to show him more that I still am madly in love with him he doesn't accept my love. How do i know when enough is enough and to just let him go?
2007-12-08 17:22:37 · 5 answers · asked by heathermboyer 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
it is a male and a female that live by us.
2007-12-08 17:34:31 · update #1
"How do i know when enough is enough and to just let him go?"
I think you know now - that's enough. Some people are
keen on the wooing and honeymoon part but not
mature or committed enough for long term relationships
and responsibility.
This time, during your pregnancy, is when you most need
affection and support. If he isn't giving it to you now; you
have little chance of obtaining it after the birth.
For your sake and the baby's, go establish a stable
lifestyle elsewhere even if you need to get help from
welfare agencies or family to do it.
Focus on getting your baby into the world in an emotionally
stable, loving and caring environment, even if (sadly) you are
the only one around to provide it.
That will give you and your partner time to think.
Consider reconciliation when your partner has sorted
himself out; if he ever does.
Very sad for you and your baby - but make your baby the priority. Go now.
2007-12-08 17:34:19 · answer #1 · answered by Pandora 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't really know whats up wit him maybe because a baby's coming and hes not ready or hes cheating with the neighbor you need to found out if shes a female if she is there's a problem hes probably sleeping with her
2007-12-09 02:57:10 · answer #2 · answered by Ladybug 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I just had to deal with kind of stuff a few hours ago. sit him down and tell him how you fell. if he dosent repesct you and share whats been going on i hate to say It but i think you have to give him up.
2007-12-09 01:35:14 · answer #3 · answered by britbrat 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is the neighbour male or female? are you sure he isnt going elsewhere when he says he is at neighbours?
2007-12-09 01:29:31 · answer #4 · answered by Habibti G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
his actions are saying loud and clear, let him go.
2007-12-09 01:31:50 · answer #5 · answered by Jerry S 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋