Okayyy so here's the story..
♥Mom and dad got divorced about 5 yrs.ago
♥My dad never ever calls me and i haven't seen him since father's day..
♥He smokes in the house when I am there and drinks every night
♥Never does anything when i am there w/ him my older brother who lives near by always is the one who spends time w/ me
♥I probably see him about three times a year ( He got me a pink digital camera for my birthday but i still never see him)
♥He hasn't paid child support to my mom in probably three or four years he's paid on and on , but trust me he owes a lot
♥My mom is a single parents and struggles but still manages to buy me nice clothes and provide for me
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2007-12-08 17:49:02 · 5 answers · asked by Madddiii(: 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
The only thing you can do is be thankful that you have a whole family that loves you. We can't change dads mind and it hurts but there's other things to focuse on that are a lot better. Your mother, friends, school, work....anything is more important that having to struggle with the thought of a deadbeat dad. Just let him go his own way and go on with life and achieve the dreams and goals you have. Smile and focus on the ones that love you and you know that will never disappoint.
2007-12-08 20:03:49 · answer #1 · answered by dAyLiTe_DaNcEr 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to hear this sweetie. Some men are just not cut out to be good dads. Plus, he's probably so unhappy that it affects everything in his life right now. Dads are human beings too but hating them for their weaknesses is unfair to you and him, maybe give him a chance and do the unexpected - write to him and just tell him how you feel (all positive thoughts if possible) and that you hope to spend more time with him or see him happy to say the least.
2007-12-08 17:54:29 · answer #2 · answered by Equinox 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well hun,the sad thing is we cant chose our parents.It is sad and he is missing out on getting to know his own smart daughter.Like the other ones here have said,be very thankfull you have a good mom and brother.Hopefully maybe your dad will come to his senses someday.
2007-12-08 18:04:34 · answer #3 · answered by cog1233 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are asking why your father can't be a good dad, the answer is that just because you can reproduce doesn't make you a father.
2007-12-08 17:54:48 · answer #4 · answered by tjnstlouismo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry...but be lucky you have a mom and brother that love you.
2007-12-08 17:54:28 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋