My ex and I were together for almost 3 years... I know that we both still love eachother but a relationship isnt an option right now..we are both still young (19) and everytime we try to stop talking to eachother something always happens and we get close again..He broke up with me 2 times in the past for other girls and for some reason i always forgave him and took him back.. He would always tell me how sorry he was and that it wouldn't happen again. Well it did because now he is dating someone. I don't see how I can love this guy so much when he has hurt me so many times.. We still keep in contact sometimes but my problem is....I can't seem to move on. I want to go out and have fun and party with my friends.. but im scared that if he finds out about me having fun with other guys or partying he will never want to be with me again. its like im sitting around, not doing anything just for the small chance that he might come back again. i know this sounds so pathetic but i need some advice
2007-12-08 17:30:33 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Girl, this guy doesn't deserve you. Go out....have fun with your friends...to hell with him if he finds out. Maybe he'll understand what he's missing. Never wait around for someone who's always looking for what he thinks will be better. You deserve better than that.
2007-12-08 17:45:11 · answer #1 · answered by Kathy R 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to let go. It's so easy for someone to keep running back to the same person because they are afraid of losing them because they thought they'd be together forever. You're young, do you really want to be in a committed relationship? Sounds to me this isn't a guy who wants to be in a committed relationship at this point in his life, maybe in 5 years. But you can't wait around for five years while he's out having his fun. It's also easy to keep running back to him because you're scared, or don't know how, to begin dating again. You're scared to put your feelings on the line again and be vulnerable to new people. It might be a good idea to stop talking to him. Quit calling him/answering his calls, no texting him, no messaging. You have to cut him off completely for a while. Get to know yourself as a single women for a while. Learn to be happy on your own. When you can become comfortable with your single self and be a confident woman, and able to be strong without him, you can become friends with him again. Good Luck!
2016-05-22 06:46:31 · answer #2 · answered by lindsay 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get angry.
Cut him off... block his calls and e-mails.
He is simply using you as a PIT STOP... so of course he doesn't want you to meet a man that is good to you. He wants you available for him whenever he is between conquests.
Get out there and meet some nice young men.
Move on!
Quit wasting your time!
2007-12-08 19:34:16 · answer #3 · answered by revsuzanne 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well.....YOU just said it already ITS A WASTE.......and the good thing is you realized how pathetic it is to wait for a guy like that. Move on......and look around you, you don't deserve a guy like this.
2007-12-08 17:47:32 · answer #4 · answered by babes_2006 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He does NOT love you,he does NOT want you,he does NOT care for you.What more do you want?Where is your self estem?Don't you respect yourself?Whom are you waiting for?
2007-12-08 17:43:32 · answer #5 · answered by avavu 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋