Why is it ok for women to treat men bad?

Question

women seem to treat men bad and blame everything on the fact that the have there period or there hormones why cant they just be more like men and be easy going

Answer 1

It's not OK.

Answer 2

They don't treat men any worse than men treat women, but our culture views it as somewhat ok if they did because men actually still have most of the power and tossing the girls a little break on irrellevant stuff is considered ok.

Go look up the stats on who earns what, and also who puts whom in the hospital or morgue.
Women still only get lip service on equality for the most part and get the shaft in many ways where it really counts.

You wouldn't be so easy going if your quality of life and actual survival rate was in the hands of guys who make most of the rules and call most of the plays.
Girls are even faced with the prospect that guys want them to be less intelligent than the guy. Girls often have to just bite their tongue and let the guy look smarter.


So next time a girl gives you hell, just understand that she deals with obstacles and humiliations that you don't even notice, let alone face.

Answer 3

Women will never be like men because they are, well, women! Duh!
But seriously, you're obviously attracting the wrong sort of women somehow, because you think all women are the same. That's like saying all men are the same. Like "Why do men have to rape women and bash them up and be complete pigs all the time?" That's not a fair question, because not all men are like that. So stop generalizing and go out and mingle with a different crowd. You'll be surprised how many nice women are out there.
And btw, having a period every month for about 40 years of your life really sucks and it does make us cranky and irritable, so give the women in your life a break.

Answer 4

So let me get this straight... you want all women to be more manly?? First of all it isn't ok for anyone to treat anyone badly. Second, women experience hormonal surges during their menstruation period. These hormones cause chemical imbalances in the brain that are both unpredictable and unstoppable. I, for one, would NEVER want for all women to be more manly. Sounds to me like you need to switch teams. You are obviously having no luck with the ladies so why don't you skip on down to your local gay bar and see if your luck improves. Any man that wants women to be more manly should take stock of themselves before trying to invoke change upon the entire fairer sex.

Answer 5

Seriously if we were more like men we would have two balls and a bat and we would be trying to Alpha male you or something...but then you would not be too interested if we were equipped with slugger equipment...part of having estrogen, breasts and a vagina require us to be high strung whiny needy crampy wild women occasionally...its the price for being women. Some of us deal with it better than others but we all have it to some extent. Take Care-Rachel.

Answer 6

BECAUSE, ok ya know what, u try being a woman. We compalin because we have reason to! First of all, our stomachs feel like someone is trying to rip out our insides with nothing but they're hands. then our backs hurt! then, we get blood on our clouthes! its GROSS!!! and then we feel emotional and want to cry because we saw a sad episode of teletubbies where the poor cute little baby sun didn't com up behind the hills. And then we feel angry and REALLY want to hit something... hard. and if guys complain, we tend to take our anger out on them.
BTW u wouldnt be here if it wuznt for "hormonal cranky women" carrying u around for nine months with swollen feet, morning sickness, and raging hormones. And then afterwards we have stretch marks which then make us cry more when we're on our period AGAIN!!! its hard being a woman, cuz then u have to look good all the time, "tend to the children", cook dinner, do the shopping, bills, dishes, basicaly be Super Women. And then still be read, "not tired" when the husband comes home. So, once a month we are cranky and irritable with good reason to be, get over it.

Answer 7

#1) get it straight..we DO NOT blame it on our periods and hormones all the time!
#2) maybe guys/men are just insensitive..or does something stupid..NO DUH women have the right to blame you guys
#3) women are made differently, we have a diff. way of communication, a diff. way of thinking about things.
#4) in a relationship..opposites attract..if women were always "LAID BACK" like guys..nothing will ever get done.
there..are those good enough for you?!

Answer 8

It is not ok to treat men badly , I now cause that sounds like the last two relationships I had and, I did'nt like it at all > My new motto is , treat me nice or get lost.

Answer 9

beacause if they understood us and were like use then they what attack you evenmore.man sends a straight foward message. weman think of any possibilities of different problems at the same time. there for structer of one kind bonds to make everything go around. the more you can stay focused not of a person but they issue its self.patience has power and is retested at any time to build stronger patience.in short terms weman like a strong man mentally

Answer 10

I guess that's what we get for having them around. but hey, am not complaining. I love my woman! it's okay, you'll find a way around their period and hormones. here's a tip: just make them happy. if you can't stand a woman around you, just go to your boys; there there're no hormons or period. hehe, that's what i do. lol. Good luck man.... but hey, it's not okay that they do that.

Answer 11

Both Men AND Women have their downfalls. It depends on what type of person they are...
Either way, man or women, it's not okay to treat anyone with disrespect.