- Hi.
I'm 16. My boyfriend and I have been dating for a little over a month, and I get the hint that he is trying to make out with me. I deny him everytime because I've never made about before.
Everyone is like "Just go with it". That's not much help.
Is it true that he won't be able to tell that I've never made out with anyone before, because everyone kisses differently?
- No, I'm not going to tell him I've never made out with anyone before.
I'm really scared and nervous about it.
I have no idea, what to do; and I'm super scared about him thinking I kiss badly and maybe breaking up with me.
-Don't post articles from google in here about "how to french kiss".
I've read.
No help.
So i've come to Yahoo.
I want to know about your experiences.
Will it be great the first time?
Or is it going to suck because we have to get used to the way eachother kisses?
HELP PLEASE!
2007-12-08 17:46:07 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Haha...I will obey your wishes, and not give the same old advice. I'll give reassurance instead.
Number One, don't make-out unless you want to. Otherwise, it could go too far. Just be careful.
Second, people do kiss differently. But, there IS good news. My first experience wasn't bad at all...like you hear these stories. It wasn't awkward, it remains one of my favorites.
Wait until he comes toward you before you do anything. If he comes close, kiss him back, like you would kiss your mom's cheek...but don't pucker. You want a soft kiss. From there, it WILL pretty much run its course. As scary as it may seem, instinct will kick in, and you'll know what to do.
Good Luck, hon.
2007-12-08 17:55:13 · answer #1 · answered by Mommy C. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok honey practice makes perfect and let me tell you the first time or two will not be perfect.you will enjoy it though.yes the nerves butterflies and stomach jitters are going to be there,but thats only because your worried about it.didnt anyone ever tell you to practice with the back of your hand.i know weird right but what else or who else do you have to practice with.you can either just go for it and wish for success or practice with something first.well your only 16 too you have plenty of time and chances in your life to make out : ]
2007-12-09 02:50:37 · answer #2 · answered by j.ingiosi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what is important is whether you like it or not. what is not important is whether he likes it or not. if you think about pleasing him, you would screw it up and feel miserable. just enjoy it as much as you can. he will be happy if he sees that you enjoy him.
2007-12-09 01:55:58 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
from my first experiences i sucked the first time ..... but hey hey thats me who knows you could do just well
its not up to me its up to you and him
2007-12-09 01:54:46 · answer #4 · answered by sol-republic 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋