Family & Relationships - 6 December 2007

Me and my fiance have been planning on getting matching love tattoos because we love each other very much and also live together...nothing with names on it. (I think thats a little tacky for me) But we've been thinking about this for so long but cant come up with anything solid...Any ideas for matching tattoos?

Plzz Help






If your not going to give an idea on a tattoo dont give you opinion on weather its good or bad i know all about that i have a mom which is very against tattoos...so plzz keep that to yourself if u like tattoos great if you dont like tattoos then dont get any! ; )



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Thanx

2007-12-06 03:42:34 · 32 answers · asked by .~*~.Rose.~*~. 1 in Singles & Dating

My wedding is coming up next year. We'll be happy to have our friends and family celebrate the event with us, but I imagine that some people will want to congratulate us by sending a gift. This will be very hard to deal with, for the reasons below.

My fiancée and I have been together for years. We already have everything that we need and almost everything that we want. We'll be getting married in the USA, but we live oversees. It would probably cost as much to ship gifts as to buy them new over there.

I don't like the idea of directing people how to give me things. It just seems rude. I certainly am not going to ask for cash. Even asking that gifts not be given seems presumptuous. On the other hand, I hate to accept people's gifts knowing that I'm just going to have to sell them or re-gift them.

What would you do?

2007-12-06 03:41:38 · 22 answers · asked by Don Adriano 6 in Weddings

my husband recently took up on photography as a hobby, he says he wants to become a professional and sell his work. he often spends 3 hours after work, working on his photographs, he says he is "in touch with nature" or something like that, but i think he is gay and this is a way his out help what i do?

2007-12-06 03:41:26 · 31 answers · asked by Hi T 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Have you ever been in this situation?

2007-12-06 03:40:34 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

okay me and my girlfriend got into it the other night because I had waited for her to call me all day and when she finally did she was on there 30 minutes and was like well i have nothing to talk about im going to get off of here. I got mad and hung up on here and told her I would leave her alone for good..I hadnt talked to her for 2 days until last night she told me that I was the one who broke us up and stuff and I never even said that although I guess the way I put the whole leave you alone for good thing may have made it seem that way I guess. But she told me last night she was trying not to love me and that me and her will never be together again it kills me because ive never cared for someone like this before in my life and I was wondering if how she could just fall out of love with me so quick and just be willing to give up on me we have broken up before but I guess this is the final time. Does anyone think that she still thinks about me and loves me?

2007-12-06 03:39:48 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My ex owes me a lot of money and recently, I found out he has been spreading mean lies about me. He is telling people he never loved me, that he used me, etc.......... Anyways, he works for me and his checks come under my name. In the past, when someone did my ex wrong and money was involved, his attitude was to never pay them back and keep their money. Should I do the same here? We are having a family meeting today regarding this ordeal and I have his last check under my name. Should I keep the check and do the same he has done to others? He owed someone 5000 dollars many years ago and never paid him cause he claimed this person said bad things about him. Should he get a taste of his own medicine or just give him all his money and move on????????

2007-12-06 03:37:11 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

OKAY THERE R THESE 2 GUYS THAT BOTH ♥ ME AND THERE BEST FREINDS. GUY #1 HAS ♥ ME SINCE THE BEGINING OF THE SKOOL YR. AND GUY #2 ONLY TOLD ME YESTERDAY THAT HE ♥ ME. I HAVE NO IDEA WHO 2 CHOOSE W/O HURTING THE OTHER1'S FEELINGS :( I THINK I WOULD MAKE A BETTER COUPLE WITH GUY #2 ONLY B/C HES TALLER THAN GUY #1(IS THAT WRONG?) BUT THEN AGAIN I REALLY ♥ GUY #1 ALOT. SO PLEASE HELP ME !

2007-12-06 03:35:05 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i want to buy myself a right hand diaond ring! i think i deserve it! she goes no because when someone asked you who gave it to you you're going to say you bought it yourself! i'm like so! i did buy it myself! why do i need someone buying me expensive jewlery??? she says i'm desperate! am i wrong?

2007-12-06 03:32:46 · 51 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i love my bf but im in love with another guy he is everything i talk to him pretty much everyday and my bf well i barely dont do u think i should break-up with my bf and date that guy

2007-12-06 03:32:07 · 7 answers · asked by christi w 2 in Singles & Dating

Do you think its a good or bad idea for old friends to become new lovers?
I don't know if I really want our life-long friendship to be ended if we ever dated and broke up.

2007-12-06 03:31:13 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

He is married and his wife suspect something is going on with him. Everything was perfect. I wanted to be the perfect mistress. He pull back but he can't stay away. So I started to pull back. I need ideas from guys what to do. I just want to be his mistress sometimes it feels like he is addicted to me. It's is going on three years. I love him but he was to understand I'm giving up more than him. I'm willing but things has to get back they way they were.

2007-12-06 03:29:54 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

my ex boyfriend has depression and anxiety disorders caused by something that happened to him as a child. we've been dating over a year and this is the second time we broke up over it. i'm VERY patitent with him and U love him so much,. I know he loves me, hes always saying hew ants to marry me and that I give him butterflies. and then all of a sudden he pushes me away and breaks up with me and no longer knows if he loves me anymore and then comes back a few weeks or a month later. but during the time he pushes me away he acts like I dont even exist for the most part. I believe its his disorders but I cant help but to think maybe I'm just a fool. when its good with us, its amazing. but when its bad, its awful. all I've been doing all week is crying. I've talked to him a few times and he begged me to just give him time and I dont want to leave him but I also dont want a breakdown...

2007-12-06 03:29:26 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-12-06 03:24:11 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

A woman in a marriage walks away from her children and husband for another man. Once her husband decides to move on she decides she wants him back although she doesn't want to give up the boyfriend. (Sounds kinda like high school doesn't it?)

He starts to get involved then takes her back as she promises to change, etc. Once all the women are out of his life she decides she doesn't love him and then again leaves. This has been ongoing. She refuses to get help of any sort as "she is just fine".

In the marriage relationship she was very abusive to both her husband and children both physically and verbally.

Although he says he is done this time I would like to find the diagnosis and do some research as he is living in an abusive relationship and can't seem to move on. He hates to walk away from all their years of marriage be it good or bad.

What is the diagnosis for this woman?? I had there is a syndrome...related to the fact you don't want something until someone else has it.

2007-12-06 03:22:57 · 19 answers · asked by missfoxieloxie 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-12-06 03:21:46 · 13 answers · asked by Caesar 2 in Singles & Dating

WHAT ARE ALL THE NEEDS YOU WANT YOUR WOMAN TO POSSES?

2007-12-06 03:21:37 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I really like him and all but my parents dont like him at all they think that he is a weird guy i mean he isnt the cutest guy but i mean i dont go for the looks i go for personlity. i mean is it wrong that i like him and not tell my parents that we might date becasue he likes me to. Plus my friends are being stupid to saying that i shouldnt go out with him because he isnt cute. he asked me to this winter ball thing and i said yeah but my "friends" say that i shouldnt go with him or even go out with him someone help

2007-12-06 03:21:01 · 11 answers · asked by lovelymomma 1 in Singles & Dating

ok so theres this guy.i really like him.he has a girlfriend,but he always flirts with me,he tells me he loves me.he is just really sweet....he says he is going to break up with her.but idont know enymore.
i cant just sit here and wait.ya know ???????
what should i doooo
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2007-12-06 03:18:51 · 12 answers · asked by RiSSA.bAbE 2 in Singles & Dating

many people say that they are atheist, and then there are those who say there is no god.but why celebrate something if you are not part of it ?you are only contradicting yourself...

2007-12-06 03:18:39 · 20 answers · asked by the bright side of life 3 in Friends

I got a really bad reputation at my school and church. For about a month I was talking to a guy who was reallyyy bad. I just kinda ignored the bad stuff I heard about him. All we did was make out and still people were thinking bad stuff about me because of him. Then I made out with one of his best friends and people found out. He choose to forgive me and give me a second chance. Then I made out with another guy like three days later. They were close friends as well and it was a secret though and he didnt find out. Then one day later I made out with his BEST friend who has a girlfriend who is pregant. That also was a secret. Then finally things ended with the guy I was talking to. Now two weeks later everyone found out about these other guys. Even though I NEVER talk to any of them anymore and all I did was make out with them people have started to call me whore both at school and church. I really don't want this reputation. The guys spread lies to get back at me.

2007-12-06 03:18:15 · 30 answers · asked by Andi 2 in Singles & Dating

Question: At first glance budda seemed to have integrity, was a stand up guy, saved the midget from drizzle... and I thought he was great. As each episode passes and he opens his mouth, I have less and less respect for this guy. Do you guys think he is emotionally violent, as well as physical. For the first time I think sister patterson is accurate, he is so sick, he does not even know how sick he is.. Agree or disagree....

2007-12-06 03:15:58 · 3 answers · asked by EM-water2 6 in Singles & Dating

Okay this is kinda long but whatever. So there's like this guy I met online. And like we email each other right? And I told him I had big news. So he writes me back and says more details to follow. But nothing ever comes. So I wrote him back and said, hey, details please. And he said oh yah I am getting to that. But then days pass and nothing. If I ask again hey what about those details...am I a nag?

2007-12-06 03:15:53 · 5 answers · asked by csucdartgirl 7 in Singles & Dating

I'm a very cool person (I think) i'm not one to hurt peoples feelings, So when i got engaged I had people ask me if they could be my bridesmaids. well now i counted I have 12 bridesmaid and I would love to reduce that to 6-4 how and what do I say to all those people I already said yes to without even thinking.who do i take out. my friends from high school. my cousins or his sisters? I dont know what to do. or should i just have a big bridal party and be a nice person because i know once i kick people out im gonna be the *****. so help please. everyone is paying for their own dress shoes etc.... he only have 4 groomsmen he want to be be in it but i can find 2 more to have a total of 6. please help.

2007-12-06 03:15:00 · 22 answers · asked by Ethan's Mama 5 in Weddings

[1]Will i get any indian girl to marry(i want to marry because of reasons other than SEX).

[2]My second question is Do porn stars get respect in your country.Of course in my country they dont get any respect but what about your country.


And thanks in Advance.

2007-12-06 03:13:26 · 21 answers · asked by good.boy999 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-12-06 03:09:59 · 24 answers · asked by penny_penley 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-12-06 03:09:27 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

about some thing but just want believe you!

2007-12-06 03:07:10 · 11 answers · asked by Angel L 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Ladies when your having whoopie with your man what is too long? when it comes to him finishing! I've had a few times in the pass month where it just would not happen, and we both tried everything.When do u just say ok enough let try tomorrow! 30min,1hr, 2hr...Help me!!

2007-12-06 03:07:03 · 15 answers · asked by gators gutt 1 in Marriage & Divorce

That you thik you met the one, but he is married

2007-12-06 03:02:44 · 33 answers · asked by rose garden 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I met a guy on match.com, we went out a few times but I seemed to be the one pursuing the relationship. I finally gave up and moved on. So why does he call me every few months to see "if I got married yet?" Yes, that's what he says. Then we spend the rest of the call talking about him (which is fine with me).

My question is - why does he still call me? He must realize that he is the one who didn't want to pursue a relationship b/c I was ready and he knew it.

Do you think -
1) he is intererested in just being friends
2) want's to know if I still like him
3) he likes me and is trying to "feel" me out

2007-12-06 03:01:58 · 43 answers · asked by asldfkjdfj 5 in Singles & Dating