Ladies I need to know!!?

Question

Ladies when your having whoopie with your man what is too long? when it comes to him finishing! I've had a few times in the pass month where it just would not happen, and we both tried everything.When do u just say ok enough let try tomorrow! 30min,1hr, 2hr...Help me!!

Answer 1

I go the distance... doing whatever it takes to make him happy. It's not over till it's over.

Answer 2

Sometimes (depending on other factors, time limit, kids, tired'ness, etc) .. he's just too tired .. or for whatever reason can't .. no biggie ..

You have to have a comfortable relationship to say, ok, try later or hit the bed for sleep .. first time it happened hubbs felt bad .. I told him why?! It is, what it is .. he pleased me greatly and we cuddled, was great!

But it doesn't happen often, like once every 6 months or so or longer .. and it's just one of those times ..

Don't play mind games or think this or that, or feel insecure, TALK ..

Quite literally sometimes my pleasure is his and that's perfectly fine for that time ..

Answer 3

I have had this problem with someone. He says if he tries to hold off for a long time, he loses it although I get the feeling he may just be being nice to save my feelings. I actually wish a lot of times he wouldn't try holding off. After a while it actually dosen't feel good anymore. It starts hurting and chafing.

Answer 4

It is only too long if it begins to feel like a chore instead of it being a pleasure. Sometimes it just isn't going to happen...people know and should understand that, so doing what you said ("let's try tomorrow") seems like the right thing to do.

Answer 5

try a different environment such as a hotel , a car , in a alley in other words somewhere very kinky. if you just want to be at home, get into a costume and give him a strip tease light candles , play soft music in the background . it is sure to get things cooking in 30 min or maybe even less try it ! have fun and be unique!!!

Answer 6

Well, there really isnt a time limit it is how you feel, how long can you last, sometimes if you take your time and have fun it comes natually... But if I had to put a time on it... i would say maybe after 2 hours or more... that would be exhausting! lol

Answer 7

It all depends on how much I am enjoying myself at the time during the experience. Sometimes if my husband has already had one and we go again and he just can't get there again we just call it a night after awhile when he dosen't want to continue.

Answer 8

Well if he cant climax then thats different. I was one guy who lasted 2 whole hours but only came alot twice..the rest was just empty orgasms i guess. The other guys take them 30-40 seconds but we can go up 23 times in one day. I think you need to try something REAL spntaneous like sex in public...now Im not saying get your freak on in the middle of the street but do it in a dressing room, in the theater, or a public bathroom. maybe he just needs that extra stimulation. Take him to a strip bar! good luck

Answer 9

i am offended if it takes too long...start to feel insecure that i might not be "doing it" for him....if you are going that long then she must be too...if she has her business taken care of you could maybe tell her you are satisfied for now (i wouldnt lie about how satisfied you are though) and chalk it up as foreplay for the next time.

Answer 10

I'm with you girl my husband takes a 3 hours omg, thats way to long I just tell him its ok I'm good and he let's me up and he's happy!

Answer 11

There is no time limit...but when this happens..take a break..you are making each other feel inadequate due to stress...to much pressure,. Just hold each other. Best of luck