A woman in a marriage walks away from her children and husband for another man. Once her husband decides to move on she decides she wants him back although she doesn't want to give up the boyfriend. (Sounds kinda like high school doesn't it?)
He starts to get involved then takes her back as she promises to change, etc. Once all the women are out of his life she decides she doesn't love him and then again leaves. This has been ongoing. She refuses to get help of any sort as "she is just fine".
In the marriage relationship she was very abusive to both her husband and children both physically and verbally.
Although he says he is done this time I would like to find the diagnosis and do some research as he is living in an abusive relationship and can't seem to move on. He hates to walk away from all their years of marriage be it good or bad.
What is the diagnosis for this woman?? I had there is a syndrome...related to the fact you don't want something until someone else has it.
2007-12-06 03:22:57 · 19 answers · asked by missfoxieloxie 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
LOL. No, you don't get it. You are completely missing the point. Is not just her syndrom, and she is perfectly fine, hasn't things work well for that woman?, being with whoever she wants, and still have her safety net?.
The one with a bigger issue is the guy who stands and can't get out of that situation and find a partner who will treat the guy right, that's the one with an issue.
The guy will take it until he says "enough", and another one will replace him and the woman will keep doing, the one who will replace him will be a weak guy and someone that can be controlled. Whatever the issue is, it works for the woman so there is not a huge need to change anything.
The one who is suffering is the guy and the children - and that is his choice of living his life, in a poor way and taking abuse, but again, his choice. He has become a victim, and the abuse will continue until he decides to stop being a victim, that is going to happen the day he decides that, once he feels things can be better out there, for now, that is his world and the best he has been able to make.
Let it be. He can fix it if he wants.
2007-12-06 03:52:35 · answer #1 · answered by livingthe30s 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The woman is psycho. He should've called the police when the abuse started. He doesn't need to be involved with her at all. He also needs to go to court and file a restraining order on her because right now she can do whatever, she can say he abused her and guess who they would believe? For the children's sake he needs to file papers on her ASAP! I feel for the children because they will need some strong emotional help.
2007-12-06 03:48:17 · answer #2 · answered by uneekqamar2004 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There is not a clinician out there who will provide you with a diagnosis based upon a third party's description of the events, although I'm sure you'll get some comedic answers from yahoos! However, it does seem as if your male friend could use some counseling as "his" choices in life don't seem to be producing good results. As a concered friend, you could encourage him to go to counseling.
2007-12-06 03:44:09 · answer #3 · answered by Sondra 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This disorder is called stupidity, she is wasting her husbands time , she probably has some form of dementia associated with being bipolar. She need to be away from that situation she is likely to do harm to the kids, physical and mental. As for the husband he needs therapy so he can find the tools to help him deal with loss and reconnect to his kids.
2007-12-06 03:35:17 · answer #4 · answered by Jerome M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not sure what the diagnosis would be. I'm thinking borderline personality disorder or narcissistic personality. Either way, he needs to take the children and leave and run far far away.
2007-12-06 03:27:10 · answer #5 · answered by Sharon M 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She's really F***ED up. She sounds like a mean despiteful person that is using someone. She is either really in need of some psychological help, or she is just a person that doesn't deserve to be with anyone.
2007-12-06 05:17:29 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Check out narcissistic personality disorder. She reminds me of someone I knew once who had this. It's very hard to diagnose because the person who has it is so clever at covering it up, but if you live with someone who has it, you can tell it.
I feel bad for him. I know how he feels.
2007-12-06 03:32:55 · answer #7 · answered by Kyle 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Borderline maybe or narcissistic-hard to say check out this website. It has a description of disorders that are commonly found among abusers.
www.drirene.com
2007-12-06 03:32:58 · answer #8 · answered by gypsy g 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Got to be borderline personlity disorder, using immature defences to avoid at times of stress like regression and splitting
2007-12-06 03:40:33 · answer #9 · answered by HopeH 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is one very immature person and needs to grow up before involving other people in her life, especially children.
2007-12-06 03:36:57 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋