Family & Relationships - 6 December 2007

2007-12-06 07:20:50 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

my husband and I have been married for 51/2 years we have 3 small children (5,3,2) he left us the Friday before Thanksgiving came back by on that Mon. and paid the power and phone bill,bought us $93 worth of groceries and since then NOTHING our rent was due on the 1st I have been a stay at home mom all this time so no need for daycare I have been able to get on state assistance however I still have to pay registration fees for the daycare and what ever the state can't help with on the weekly fees.I can't get any help from family because they don't have it to help me either.As for my rent the state has a program that will give me $200.00 towards it if I prove that I have the rest.I am not trying to give a pitty story but I am LOST cause I am running out of ideas and I have no way to buy Christmas for my kids and it looks like we won't have roof over our heads. any ideas on what I should try to do we are in a contract here till 0808 if it is broken we still have to pay til they rent it

2007-12-06 07:20:29 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

He thinks i going to have him watched. I dont trust him, he had be sign sep papers with an attorney i chose. that way it makes if far for me. He is going to have our daughter over to his place next weekend. State law req he give me the address, he has given it to my attorney but not to me. I did get it any way but is he being sneeky or what? what do you all think
this sep is not my idea!!!!!

2007-12-06 07:20:03 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-12-06 07:18:55 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

My boyfriend wants have sex and we will both be 18 when summer comes. However, my family is Catholic and I was taught to wait till marriage but after being with him my thoughts have started to changed. My parents had me out of wedlock. I don't want to have sex and then regret that I did but I don't want to choose not to have sex and then regret because I didn't do it. I don't know what to think. He claims to love me and that having sex will only make us closer, is he right? Someone please help me!

2007-12-06 07:18:37 · 29 answers · asked by raidergurl2008 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Everywhere I go, it seems that there's some hot guy with an ugly girl on his arm. Us pretty girls have to wind up with the gross guys sometimes. What's up with hot guys these days? Are they so insecure that they have to be with ugly girls?

Or is this yet another 'boob' thing?

2007-12-06 07:16:48 · 8 answers · asked by Tiger 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-06 07:14:52 · 13 answers · asked by Sweetlemonman 4 in Marriage & Divorce

theres a girl i want to go out with and i was wondering if it would be ok just to ask her out now, i havent had a conversation yet, but im pretty sure she likes me too.

2007-12-06 07:14:34 · 1 answers · asked by andy_reid_92 2 in Singles & Dating

I have been seeing this guy off and on since March - I have fallen in love with him but fear I am nothing more than his booty call. He was in a relationship that end shortly before we met and tells me he does not want a serious love affair. I see him once per week (usually Sunday) he is off with friends on Friday and Saturday nights - I know I am foolish. I just feel such a strong connections when I am with him and he writes me the most beautiful emails and texts. We are not young - I am 42 and he is 52. Help???

2007-12-06 07:14:31 · 1 answers · asked by ? 1 in Singles & Dating

i won a bet while playing basketball, and now i get to dress by friend as a girl for a day. i have some ideas, but i want to know what you people think. he has to do everything we tell him and he has to go in public with us. were talking the whole nine yards. he has long blonde hair that could cover his eyes, and he is a good height. i want to get back at him really bad becasue we have made bets in the past and i hae had to humiliate myself, but now the tables have turned. please no mean comments or anything like that. thanks for your help.!!
1 hour ago - 1 week left to answer.

please if you can though give me links to places with good ideas so me and my girlfriends can choose

should we make him wear a thong.?i mean he is my good friend, but what ive had to do for loosing is so bad i dont wish to say it. so i think he deserves all.what do you think

2007-12-06 07:14:09 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Hey guys:
I am on a quest or rediscovery. I spent two weeks away and smoked and drank and partied and meditated on life.
Tell me about any discoveries youve had recently and how you are re-building your life!
Kiel

2007-12-06 07:12:36 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

My parents didn't approve of me dating Mark because he was 32 and i'm only 19. a couple of weeks ago he wanted to know if i wanted to move in with his sister. That way we would be able to see each other and have a real relationship. I told him I couldn't do that right now, and that i had to figure out a way to keep him in my life and them too. If I moved I wouldn't be welcome back home, my family would turn their backs on me. He said he already had it all figured out if i would just go ahead and marry him. I asked him does he still want to try and be together if I wanted to wait on marriage for a while. and he said he still wanted us to be together but he had to figure out some things too. I'm confused about what to do, i want him in my life but I have always been the type of person to do what is expected of me. Should I Move and be with him. Or should I listen to everyone else and keep them from turning there backs
on me.

2007-12-06 07:12:23 · 14 answers · asked by alley 2 in Marriage & Divorce

alrighty, well i have been dating my boyfriend for about 5 months now, i love him to death we get along great except for the usual bf/gf tiffs. We are wanting to move in with eachother around febuary, and my family is concerned that that is too soon and now i am wondering if it is too soon... i am 20 years old by the way and he is 23...what do yall think...and dont be hateful please!....thank you!

2007-12-06 07:11:58 · 41 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

With a high divorce rate, how many of us fear that we will be divorced before we ever get married? Any suggestions to quell doubts?

2007-12-06 07:11:47 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

While working out the other day I bumped into a guy I knew from highschool. I haven't seen him in 10 years, and let's just say the years have been good to him. He tells me how he had the biggest crush on me. I was flattered because I never new this. And to make matters worse, I thought he was gorgeous and was a bit turned on.

Being the kind of person I am, when I got home, I told my husband all about it. His response was "Awe, that's great, I'm glad you ran into an old friend." And that was it. He wasn't upset, he didn't ask me anything about the guy, he didn't tell me to stop going to that gym.

What does his response mean? Should it bother him that I was flirtting with this guy that I thought was cute? I though he'd be pissed, but it didn't seem to phase him, what does that mean?

2007-12-06 07:11:45 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

ok heres my story i was 17 and this 29 yr old beg to marry me and wrote me poems and song and told me he alwyas gonna be there fo me no matter what and i fell in love with him and give him 100% trust, he promised i was gonna beable to go to college well to keep him happy i end up workin 2 jobs trying to pay most of the bills and then 8 months later he started to treat me bad cuase alot of bills was coming and he was stressin, well i got into this bad car accident where my car wen under a semi trailer, ad he wasn there for me , put his new car sales man job be4 me didnt want to take me to the hospital! so i left cus i was shocked and i left, next day i tried to work thing out he didnt want nothing to do with me, then i found out i waspregnant and he didnt care wither, well after 7wks ihad a miscarrige, we've bin separated for 2 months and he dont want nothingto do with me! he backstab me, how can i get over this? does karma really happen? is there achance he will be back??

2007-12-06 07:08:54 · 3 answers · asked by rhea 1 in Marriage & Divorce

If your boyfriend has dated someone else in the past, do you have a right to know what he has done with her? I really want to know what he's done before I do anything with him. He says he's come close, but that entails a lot. I've asked him about it, but he tries to push it aside. Any help please, and if you need more details, just ask. Please help!

2007-12-06 07:08:14 · 6 answers · asked by bittersweetsymphony0812 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

-Me and this guy were friends before
-He told me that he wasn't sure if he was ready for a realtionship but then he asked me out anyway.
-Since we'd been going out we had seen eachother less than before we were going out so I asked him what was wrong
-He said he can't commit right now cos of stress & he's nealry finished uni & wants to wait till it's over.
-Now he wants me to meet up with him this weekend
-He isn't seeing anyone else because I know his friends and he knows some of mine-plus he doesn't sleep around-he's slept with 1 girl & he's 22.
-I think he's afraid to label us boyfriend & girlfriend cos he's scared of it getting serious & he's young & doesn't know what he wants.
-H e sounds confused so shall I just go with the flow cos I never said I wanted anything serious (I haven't slept with him)

2007-12-06 07:07:58 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

my boyfriend and I just broke up because of a "marriage conversation" in which I told him it was part of my plans and I needed to know if he meant it or not when he said he's never gonna get married (always jokingly). since our break up (we 'd been together 4 years- his first relationship at age25), I've heard about lots of couples breaking up while one of them grows up and then getting back together and getting happily married. I really think this is what is going on and so do most of the people in my life. He says he just needs to figure things out- everyone else says he just needs to grow up. Does anybody know more couples like this? How long were they broken up? he wants to keep talking but I don't want to slip into being "just friends" and I don't think he'll really miss me until he can't talk to me. If you knew a couple like this, did they keep talking or dating or anything? Should I be talking to him? What am I supposed to do during this time?

2007-12-06 07:07:30 · 6 answers · asked by sosad 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I am taking my ex to court for back child support. I figure he owes me almost $7,000 and so does my attorney. He brought his now fiance to court with him this morning. She is a single mom herself, so why in the world would she support him knowing he is going to end up paying me all this money?

2007-12-06 07:07:03 · 11 answers · asked by Jean B 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I know that a lot of people have issues with their mother in law. However, I feel that my mother in law is...a real life psycho. An antisocial woman capable of doing physical, bodily harm.
She has been difficult many times, but I had an especially bad experience with her that totally freaked me out and as a result I cannot bring myself to see her. When I think of getting together with her again, I get really, really anxious and pracitcally have a panic attack over it.
My husband and therapist are pushing me to 'get over it' and resume a relationship with her. I honestly don't feel comfortable and don't know if I can. The therapist thinks it should just be a 'superficial' relationship, that we should not put ourselves in a situation where our well-being is in her control after what happened, but I'm so frightened by her that I don't think I could manage.
I want to do this for my husband, though. What should I do? Pop several Xanax and just go for it?

2007-12-06 07:05:11 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I posted the Men and Woman,
1st
I did not say that counseling is bad, I said that it is all a lot of people offer, I think people come here to get peoples advice they know that true help is with counseling...

2nd
People asked me what was the question, to you I say re-read.....and chose your anwers carefully, sometimes it make you look ignorant.

3rd
Have fun....I sit here and observe...and yes, some are funny, some are hatefull and some are just down right stupid.. and last...

4th
there is no question, but if you want points... leave me a nice one! ha ha have a great day!!!!

2007-12-06 07:03:09 · 11 answers · asked by ? 3 in Marriage & Divorce

what is it like living with male?

2007-12-06 07:01:54 · 49 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

"your bad". i know they are not saying im a bad kisser because they like it and keep kissing, but what does it mean

2007-12-06 07:00:19 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

You are just starting life, so why would you want to be tied down for the rest of your life with someone? I'm not trying to be judgmental...I just want to know why.

2007-12-06 06:58:05 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-12-06 06:53:56 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

What would you do to try to help him/her?

2007-12-06 06:52:26 · 8 answers · asked by Elaine P...is for Poetry 7 in Friends

why is it no one is willing to help out someone that is trying to help themselves, but will give everything to someone who sits on their butt all day and reproduces insanely and collects the checks?

2007-12-06 06:52:18 · 14 answers · asked by Kelly 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Olivia or Blanca? My friends name is Blanca and her middle name is Olivia, and we are trying to see which one is better because i like Blanca cuz its not common, and she likes Olivia.

2007-12-06 06:52:07 · 17 answers · asked by housedoglemons 2 in Friends

im feeling v upset .
iv been married 8 years and my mil never regarded me as high as she does my sil. well .. she DOES ***** about her behind her back but still ""pampers" her always.

my few prob >>>

i had been gifted an electric radiator(heater) on my wedding by my parents..and my MIL has ""kept"" it in my sis in laws(( wife of my hubbys bro)
room ..i WANT it back as its cold and i dont like using blower for my kids ... how do i ask??


idk why am i soo scared to ask!!

dil>
daughter in law
sil..sis in law


im in ""joint"" family

2007-12-06 06:51:48 · 15 answers · asked by barley 2 in Marriage & Divorce