I am taking my ex to court for back child support. I figure he owes me almost $7,000 and so does my attorney. He brought his now fiance to court with him this morning. She is a single mom herself, so why in the world would she support him knowing he is going to end up paying me all this money?
2007-12-06 07:07:03 · 11 answers · asked by Jean B 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
she's stupid
2007-12-06 07:11:38 · answer #1 · answered by natasha 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Oh feel happy; that $150 a month may not seem like much to you - but month after month after month - 15 years later, it's going to be a big fat slap in her face.
Has contributed greatly to the near-destruction of my current marriage. My wife can't stand it. Though she knew what she was getting into. It *kills* her that she has to get a job, and we have to save and sacrifice to make ends meet, and my ex doesn't really have to work a steady job at all. (well, that's over now, because he's "of age").
Especially since my wife's father walked away when she was 4 and never paid one cent.
Personally, I think that the whole system has been twisted and perverted into a government-enforced system of emotional abuse, manipulation, and revenge. It is blackness, and evil. I would encourage any split couple with young kids, to figure out one parent to just walk away - period, and the other to take it on. Yeah, it's hard. But this other crap - is way harder; and it's murder on the kids' relationship with both parents.
2007-12-06 08:29:49 · answer #2 · answered by fnyunj 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hate to sound rude, but why are you worried about what her "reasoning" is in supporting him? He's her fiance so of course she's going to support him, however you only know what you see with your eyes, you don't know what goes on behind closed doors. Who knows? She could be really pissed at him that he's gonna owe this money, yet she still chooses to stay. That's her choice to be an idiot and not something you should be worried about.
2007-12-06 07:13:33 · answer #3 · answered by grneyedgrly 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she just was being noisy and wanted to be there and see what was going on.. He might of brought her for support, who knows. Don't let that get to you, just worry about your child and the money...
2007-12-06 07:15:56 · answer #4 · answered by boohoo1964 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
specific you could sue her. In u.s., all of us can sue all of us for something. even if, you have not got a snowball's risk of triumphing. fairly, merely see that your ex pays your toddler help. Paying the optimal on one has no longer something to do with the certainty that he legally has to help this one, too.
2016-10-10 10:04:34 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hunny, you sound jealous, sorry for your pain, but as we all know we can't help who we love.....and you won't get all that money at once, litlle payments, of about $150.00 a month but you'll also get your regular child support...Good Luck
2007-12-06 07:12:09 · answer #6 · answered by eeyore6838 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Because sometimes we women can make really dumb choices. Hope you get your child support!
2007-12-06 07:21:12 · answer #7 · answered by betternher 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
because she loves him and wants to support him emotionally
2007-12-06 07:11:23 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
That isn't your concern. For whatever reason, they want to be together.
2007-12-10 07:07:49 · answer #9 · answered by Simmi 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he wont pay you all of his money, and maybe she loves him...not his MONEY...not all women are like that, you know
2007-12-06 07:36:19 · answer #10 · answered by poodle mom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋