Family & Relationships - 6 December 2007

I had a question before about someone who says they aren't ready for a relationship with a girl i've dated a little over a month.

I said I would leave for good eventually because it hurts caring so much for a person that wouldn't have the same feelings and couldn't have that pain forever.

A couple people stated that a good/true friend would still be a freind and there for someone even if it did hurt.

Do you think thats true and right, or is it right to break it off completely because you are in pain?

2007-12-06 06:02:41 · 9 answers · asked by Robert R 3 in Friends

she still blames for this /my freind asked me to hold her cell phone for her i told her to remind me to give it to her,she said ok so i put it in my jacket pocket but i had forgoten i wasnt wearing MY jacket i was wearing this other girls jacket so at the end of the day me and my freind switched back jackets but i had completly forgotten about the phone so when i got on the bus my freinds goes you can give me my phone now i was like ok ,i searced my pockets and was like omg,i dont know where it is,she got pissed at me and was like stop playing give me my f*cking phone,i was like im not kidding,so she gets mad and tells everyone i stole her phone,4 days later my freind ali comes up to me and says,oh you forgot your phone in my jacket,i took the phone taped it to her locker w/a note that said hers your "f*cking phone" p.s ali had it..but still all the time when we argue shell always bring up that i "lost" her phone i tell her it wasnt my fault but she says it was, whos fault was it?

2007-12-06 06:02:18 · 6 answers · asked by meow!!! 1 in Friends

I am from New delhi and getting married in Feb (arranged marriage). My "would be" just e-mailed me saying that she had a one sided love with someone from her friend's circle and she was in little depression for the four years in her college. She says that she really don't have any kind of feelings for him now. Still now he is her very good friend and they are in touch. She told me this as she is guilty now..

In some ways I am glad that she has been honest with me.but, i also won't like her talking to this guy anymore. Below is my mail I have drafted to send her..please tell me if it looks ok.

"Hi,
It takes a lot of courage to come up and tell what you did. It shows that you have confidence in me and that's makes me happy.

Please don't feel guily about anything, but I hope you understand that your friendship with this person makes me uneasy and i leave it to your better judgement to decide.

I really admire your honesty and today I like you even more !

Yours,"

2007-12-06 06:01:50 · 13 answers · asked by Ban 1 in Marriage & Divorce

When did you had to pee very bad but you couldn't go?
Funny Question :-P.
Don't take it to seriouse, to me it happend some years ago, I was on a highway and there was very much traffic.
Have you ever had an accident :-D?

2007-12-06 06:00:49 · 17 answers · asked by Sunshine 3 in Friends

my 8 year old daughter insists on sleep ing with my wife and i. we can't get her to sleep in her own room unless shes having a sleep over. i'm sure you can imagine what its done for my wife and i's sex life. any suggestions are welcome. if you are rude or condescending anyway it will be reported.

2007-12-06 06:00:32 · 25 answers · asked by brad w 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Just wanna say that he doesn't work in the same department as I do, we are in separate areas and have nothing to do with each other there, but sometimes i see him thats all...we dont ven talk to each other at work.

2007-12-06 05:59:05 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What can I do?
I have 2 kids one whose 5,the other 7 and they both have a big list of presents.
But I can't afford to buy any of those presents or any christmas food.
I can only just about normal food.
I can't let them down but I have no way out-please help!
We have no family or friends to help out or anything

2007-12-06 05:58:39 · 47 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-12-06 05:58:20 · 9 answers · asked by exmunchkin 1 in Weddings

i see all these women posting questions like how do i get this married guys attention etc etc. i mean i am married to a normal human being no matter how much i trust him or secure about our relationship when there's so many women at ur workplace who are married or single would love to have one night stand with your husband. how do u keep peace in your mind. :( its so hard to even think that women would love to have se;x with someone or have affair with someone who probably made love with wife night before. its so nasty. any comments on how you deal with it. and women who are skanks please stay away from leaving comments.i am sure there's plenty of you girls.

2007-12-06 05:58:12 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

of course she doesn't...women lead men on to make fools of them.
Ignore them...they are not worth it.

2007-12-06 05:54:03 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My husband and I have been together for 10yrs. and married for 2yrs. Very wonderful relationship. He loves his job and I am misriable. I looked in to getting a new job that would make me happier inturn make him happier. Here's the problem, I will be taking a $5 an hour pay cut. We are in the process of trying to have a baby and possibly buying a house next year. I feel that if I stay in the job I am at, I will never get pregnant because I am so stressed. He is fine with me leaving my current job to pursue other avenues. But I hate to put such a big burden on him. Men have enough of burdens taking care of their family. He wants me and us to be happy. What should I do.

2007-12-06 05:54:02 · 15 answers · asked by boucho 2 in Marriage & Divorce

What will you be doing while the love of your life is watching football?

2007-12-06 05:53:13 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My husband and I have been through some rough times in the past year or so, and we have been separated twice. I love him with all of my heart, and I don't want to lose him. My parents think that because of all the problems that we have been having I should leave him and live with them. When we got back together this last time they told me that I was disowned from the family and never welcome at their house ever again. I can't believe the way they are acting. What should I do????

2007-12-06 05:52:03 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Some men/women in general think that if they are ONLY watching it's ok. I think that is cheating if they are in a relationship. After watching some things on the porn net these persons will take those thoughts to bed and want to perform these acts with their spouses to fufill their fantasy and the other person has no idea what is goin on. Is that fair?

2007-12-06 05:51:46 · 15 answers · asked by estela44 1 in Marriage & Divorce

"I love you" for the first time and they smiled, teared up, but said nothing... what would you think?

2007-12-06 05:46:53 · 44 answers · asked by Lily 3 in Marriage & Divorce

My boyfriend..who I absolutely adore..he is my highschool sweetheart and I don't think I could find anyone better than him...is addicted to porn and it hurts me for him to search on the internet for the stuff he likes. We are an interracial couple and he owns over 90 interracial porns...that doesn't bother me as much as it does when he gets on the internet and looks at it. I just feel like I am not good enough for him and I brought it up to him and he blew up saying well I am not going to ever look at it again and you could have worse at least I am here all the time with you and not running around f**** other females or out until 5 AM in the morning. It really hurts me that he don't understand where I am coming from with this and it hurts me for him to be SOOO interested in all this fake sh** when he has me..a real woman..am I wrong for feeling like this???

2007-12-06 05:45:07 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

When do you guys tell your gf that you love her? im straight and 16 had a gf for a month, others i know say they love them on the first day that they went out.

2007-12-06 05:44:59 · 2 answers · asked by alrog 2 in Singles & Dating

There are children involved?

Anyone have any experience with this?

2007-12-06 05:43:39 · 29 answers · asked by Bored 5 in Marriage & Divorce

You know how you have sex and you never hear a man scream but they always make noise or even talk. I just want to know is that all they do is make noise or can they scream? Women scream all the time and it is easy for us to scream but what about men? PLEASE RESPOND ASAP.

2007-12-06 05:42:39 · 36 answers · asked by 7PINEAPPLE7 1 in Singles & Dating

My friend says his father is black.My friend has no black traits.And on top of that he has blond hair and blue eyes!!!

2007-12-06 05:41:55 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

There is a lad that comes into the shop where i work, i am pretty sure he likes me, i have seen him looking at me and he always seems to get quite embarrassed when i serve him, how do i let him know that i like him.

2007-12-06 05:40:28 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We have a lot of friends helping out during our wedding ceremony:

- our Pastor who is the officiant
- some friends who are leading worship
- a good friend who is doing all of the flowers and decorations (we are footing the bill)
- our friend who is the translator (bilingual service)
- a friend who is doing the photography

The question is: Who do we pay and who do we take out to dinner informally as a gesture of thanks?

2007-12-06 05:40:01 · 10 answers · asked by pshao01 1 in Weddings

2007-12-06 05:38:04 · 25 answers · asked by kiaqtpie 1 in Marriage & Divorce

how can i feel like this and why?

2007-12-06 05:32:12 · 9 answers · asked by NuclearKitty 1 in Marriage & Divorce

what does it mean if a man u sleep with ..after sex always start geting dressd?? (he is handsome and he has very sexy body and he knws it) may be bcos he s not in very interested in that woman?

2007-12-06 05:29:33 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i mean since morning till night what do you do all day.

2007-12-06 05:29:32 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-12-06 05:28:00 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I work part-time at the mall and I have a crush on one of the many managers at the store. He works in the department next to me and he is always teasing me whenever he sees me. I will be leaving the company soon because I need to start working as a Pharmacist Technician so that they can pay for my school. Yea, so I will be leaving in about a month! What should I do? I'm really awkward sometimes. And he ALWAYS finds a way to talk to me. I never seen him do that with the other people and he looks at me sometimes. Sooooo.... help?

2007-12-06 05:27:27 · 29 answers · asked by Hi 2 in Singles & Dating

I had a tongue ring for years... it's ok... dont wear it as much, since I cracked a tooth...

I find it more difficult to give a BJ with it... I know I know.... Does it make a real difference with one in? I think if I can give better without it, than maybe I should just take it out...? Can you feel the ring?
Just trying to figure out if I should let the tongue ring hole close up or not..

2007-12-06 05:26:46 · 4 answers · asked by an_awsome_woman 3 in Singles & Dating

Can someone tell me why everything seems to be my fault?
I have Crohn's ( found out about it 2 months ago) yet it's my fault that i have this, and it's my fault that we have bills to pay and can't. It's my fault that my hubby it stupid and didn't pay the taxes when he should have..It's my fault that i can't eat properly and still bleed when i go to the washroom, it's my fault that i shouldn't go to work yet, ( although he is forcing me back) It's my fault . I so sick of the guilt trip he is laying on me, i just want to leave his *** high and dry.
I wash his clothes , i feed him his dinner, i clean the house i take care of our daughter, i do everything that needs to be done, yet it is my fault.
I am at the point right now where I just want to go to sleep and not wake up. I don't know what to do anymore.
I've tried talking to him. but what's the point. It's still my fault.

2007-12-06 05:25:12 · 16 answers · asked by terri2003anne 3 in Marriage & Divorce