Family & Relationships - 6 December 2007

We've already had two of them. For a family of 3, we gave them 2 spots because we didn't want the baby coming. When we get the reply card back, we got a message saying that the baby will be coming but we didn't have to feed him

On another card, we allotted 3 spots to a family of 4 with the hint that they should find a sitter for the youngest baby.

The card said ___ of 3 guests attending. The invitee crossed out the 3 and put a 4 down! The nerve!

Have you been hosed by your wedding invitees?

2007-12-06 06:51:19 · 23 answers · asked by Andre 7 in Weddings

I got remarried five months after the divorce to an angel I've only known for 3 months. My ex wife says I never loved her, because I fell for someone else so quick. Why do you think she believes that? do you believe that?

2007-12-06 06:47:26 · 11 answers · asked by KJ 6 in Marriage & Divorce

if youre a military wife, and your husband says he wants a divorce.
Do you have to give him one?

Can you intentionally not sign the papers so that you can still get housing and medical benefits?

My sisters husband is trying to give her the shaft, and cut her off.

They have one kid together and shes waited for him while he was deployed.

Now he says he wants her out of his life just like that.
What can she do to protect herself, or at least take care of herself?

With regards to staying married to keep her medical benefits
with regard topossible alimony payments

Basically he wants toleave her with nothing but a few thousand
thats going to go away because she doesnt have an education
or couldnt get a job because he was deployed.

She wants to not sign papers.
So she gets to use the BAH and he can live in the barracks
if he wants to leave her

And keep her medical
and maybe child support and alimony

2007-12-06 06:47:07 · 10 answers · asked by Hey Buddy 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I Have a sister-in-law that always tries to be little me.I mean I dont make lots of money but i have a nice home and car.Wonderful children.She is always braging about this human resouce job she has, suppose to make great money but she still lives at home with parents and is well over 30yrs. What to make of this?

2007-12-06 06:46:52 · 4 answers · asked by curioustreb 1 in Family

Basically, We were both in the same class in high school, she's a couple years younger than me. We were really good friends in High school, used to talk every day, talk to each other at lunch and used to talk for hours online. I graduated, and had so much course load, i did not get a chance to talk to her for more than year. I finally talked to her a couple times when i found her on facebook, but that was deleted almost immediately. A few weeks back without even meeting her for over a year, i felt i liked her. So i talked to a friend and asked her if she can ask get me her contact info. thats when i found out that this girl feels i stalked her. even though, i havent met her in 2 years, and talked only a couple times on facebook, and a couple times i asked her friend about why she deleted her facebook. this was almost 6 months ago. what do i do? how do i fix this? its wierd situation. because i cant talk to her, because i'm worried that would make me look worse.

2007-12-06 06:46:43 · 34 answers · asked by blaze149 2 in Friends

2007-12-06 06:42:42 · 11 answers · asked by xxx 2 in Friends

If I told a woman that deep down I'm not really a beer drinking tough guy and that I only act this way to hide my true emotions of me being a caring sensitive man that likes to watch cooking shows and walk his dog in the park.

Would that work? Could I get alot of numbers if I said this?

2007-12-06 06:37:39 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Let them eat cake! Again with the medieval wedding .... Our primary wedding cake will be a small 2 tier spice cake with cream cheese frosting and marzipan fruits around the bases which we will cut with his sword. Our options from there are to either make it larger and have our guests served from this or keeping with the family style dinner we would have a smaller version delivered to each of the 4 long tables... or as a third option we could have little piles of cupcakes of vairous flavors delivered to each table also decorated with the marzipan...help!

2007-12-06 06:37:06 · 14 answers · asked by Kit 5 in Weddings

ok, i want to do something special for my fiance when he comes home, i need some help, guys, oral... tell me details, the more details, i will give you 10 points, please answer.. dont ignore, give me the best details ever...

2007-12-06 06:36:48 · 16 answers · asked by ♥DIXIE♥ 2 in Singles & Dating

i live in west midlands so anywhere local(ish) would be helpful?

2007-12-06 06:35:58 · 22 answers · asked by lilmiss s 2 in Weddings

that a mans ex wife comes before the new wife if there are children involved. Can any one explain this to me.....it makes no since...they are divorced and aren't obligated to each other any more in my opinion.

2007-12-06 06:32:21 · 21 answers · asked by Ali C 2 in Marriage & Divorce

but how to i tell them without them geting upset at me. I am talking about 15 year old friends... what should i do

2007-12-06 06:31:23 · 22 answers · asked by Jonatan 1 in Friends

What does it mean when this girl I called a b*tch and slapped her in the face said she was going to "kick me where it counts"?

2007-12-06 06:28:44 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Is it one big package deal? Or do you feel that your vows only apply to your spouse, and you are not obligated to make it work with their family of origin?
Please explain your logic. Thanks so much for your answers!

2007-12-06 06:28:29 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Well basically me & my boyfriend (now ex boyfriend) went on a night out & had alot to drink...we ended up in a bar and apparantly i kissed another guy right infront of my boyfriend. The thing is I can't even remember doing it & I can't even remember what the guy looked like....I drank way too much that night & this has now made me vow I'm never drinking like that again. ANyway he flipped out completely & when we got back to the flat he told me to leave. I said sorry so many times & said I couldn't remember doing it cause the drink made me black out (I know thats not an excuse but its not like a consciously made a decision to snog this other guy). Now the thing is i really love him. & it's broken my heart completely...He's the only one for me. Whenever i call him he always answers & we talk, which is a good sign don't you think? He says we may get back together in the future & he just needs space, do you reckon i still have a chance? That was the worst night of my life..........

2007-12-06 06:28:23 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My new husband has a tradition of spending Christmas morning with his Ex-wife's family to watch thier son open his gifts, we are both invited this year. This year however, I don't have my daughter (from previous marriage) either but we get have both children the day after Christmas and I was trying to plan a "late" Christmas morning for our house. Here's where the problem arises, we bought both children a "big" christmas gift each and then a few small gifts. The cost was split for the big gift for his son with his ex-wife and my husband says that they always let him open this at his ex's families house. I want to see if he can open it at our house since he won't have much besides that gift and her family will have alot for him to open there already. That way Christmas at our house won't seem lopsided. My husband says that things will not be changed this is how it was done long before I came along. I am desperately wanting to create traditions at our house, please help!

2007-12-06 06:27:51 · 11 answers · asked by calleen24 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I got talking to my mate since aug when he asked me to lunch which i went and we had a good time and since then ive asked him three times to lunch which has always been lunch sounds great and sure thing. But how can u tell if they do like u or just being polite. My instincts say he does like me as were always laughing n joking bout stuff and he is a tease. But i worry that maybe hes just being nice so how can u tell. If he cant make lunch hell phone me and applogise and if we go and he has a curry he asks me

2007-12-06 06:26:52 · 4 answers · asked by shelley 1 in Friends

2007-12-06 06:26:38 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am 29 she 25. We hav been together for 3 1/2 months. Recently we have been having some issues with her not being that into our relationship, due to school work, job stress and life stress. She told me that space is inportant to her. She said just give her time she will get over her weirdness and lets take this slow. We went away this past weekend and all was fine askinhg me what i want for christmas etc.. come yesterday she calls me telling me she doesnt want to do this anymore she lost the romantic spark, lost feelings in her heart and she will probably regret ending it this, but she wants to still talk and hang out. She says she is doing this now cause it aint fair to me how i put in so much and i have done nothing wrong. She always said how good i was to her and amazing i am. She recently got off birthcontrol about 3 weeks. I have told her i love her. What do you guys think, does she just needing time to miss me and figure it out or is it really over. thanks

2007-12-06 06:21:34 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Why do people think marriage is just a contract you sign that you can get out of any time you want? Why do people not take it seriously any more. That is why this ocuntry is going to hell in a handbasket quick, no marriage, no families with both parents, kids raising themselves. ARGGGGG I am so mad

2007-12-06 06:21:28 · 46 answers · asked by Scorpio_sting 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I havent been in a relationship yet and im 18.

2007-12-06 06:15:03 · 38 answers · asked by Beautiful Disaster 7 in Singles & Dating

I've lived in the same foster home since I was 5. Got adopted at 11 and now I'm going to be 20 in a few months. My adoptive brother just died and I took it hard. Harder than his own flesh and blood. As much as I wish I was blood, the fact is I'm not. I may have just been that kid who stayed at his Mom's house for all I know. I couldn't step foot inside his house. I started crying so hard. His father was there too (his ex wife adopted me so I'm not his kid). After I started to cry, his dad told me something that really made me think. He said that I may have been close his son but I wasn't nearly as tight with him as he was. I know it's true. But it made me feel like crap. At the funeral last month, I felt strange riding in the limo. I was up there and his blood relatives weren't. I felt strange and out of place like I had no right. I even said something during the funeral. I said he was like a father to me and I think it upset his Father.

2007-12-06 06:14:42 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I'm 18 years old and married, I have a 1 year old daughter and I just lost my unborn son..And my mother witch I am not living with will not leave me and my family alone.She is always calling me just to find reasons to argue with me. And to make me up set,what can I do or say nicely to get her to leave me the hell alone.

2007-12-06 06:13:53 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

well this girl has really shown some signs she liked me and she never does this to anyone else, shes one of my bestfriends and i care about her so much and she cares about me alot. i do so much for her and i told her i liked her and i said sorry and she said "dont be!" and smiled. a few days passed and she made out with some guy shes 16 im 17 btw. i asked if i should still even try and she sed idk and i said well i want to know and she said she'd rather be friends. we always got in fights then she came around and she really seemed like she fell for me but then i got her an early christmas present and she just told me she would never feel that way about me and just wanted to be friends and that she cares about me alot. how can i change her mind? i really can't let her go she's the perfect girl. have any of you girl or boy on either end been in something like this? how did it work out, if good how did you handle it? thanks

2007-12-06 06:12:22 · 7 answers · asked by matthew 2 in Singles & Dating

The deception and childish game-playing of women is the reason God made prostitutes

2007-12-06 06:11:00 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What should i do? im scared?
Im scared i don't know what 2 do. if something happened to him. He normal pick up or at least he normal txt bk wt should i do? i kept ringing him all day but no answer.

A friend of mine was called “weirdo” by a girl he doesn’t really know. He got really upset, then he went home crying. I rang him a couple of times but he didn’t pick up. He doesn’t like it when people judgei him and he doesn’t like judging people. It has been 2 days since she called him weirdo and he still doesn’t pick dup.

I’m worried because hes suffering from depression and shyness and he might do something dodgy. He might commit suicide because he has told me couple of times about death. He always says that he doesn’t understand the people, himself and the world.

His really friendly, kind and very caring but people don’t understand him because of his shyness. His really shy.

I do understand him because i stuffed from depression and shyness but i asked ofr help. he doesn't want anyone to know about his depression and shyness.

What should i do

2007-12-06 06:07:56 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-12-06 06:06:56 · 34 answers · asked by Cootie 3 in Marriage & Divorce

does he like me?evryone includin me thinks this boy likes me.(hes 2 yrs older)he is my x bf bc i broke up wit him(stupid me) and we hav been rele close friends-mayb 2 much chemistry to b just friends. lately, hes been touchin, huggin, & complimentin me. hes also be\en tellin me im pretty and sayin he luvs me. he hangs out wit me more than wit his older girl &guy friends and i feel like hes been tryin to get the two of us in a place alone. but then on this 1 day if the week, he flirts wit sum of my friends (and me) rite in front of me but im still the 1 that gets the last and rele long hug goodbye. we r able 2 talk about deep stuff like our feelings, family, love and stuff like that. he hasnt gone on myspace or emailed me w/o me doin it first and he hasnt called but he doesnt hav a cell cause he broke his so i dunno. also he once asked y i didnt dance wit him at the dance even though it was over a month after the dance. i hope u guys gimmelong answers and advice & steps to follow
THNX

2007-12-06 06:06:52 · 10 answers · asked by NiS 2 in Singles & Dating

If you are engaged/married and you get a wedding invitation that is addressed to only you and not your fiance/spouse, is it rude to call and say something or ask why he/she isn't included?

2007-12-06 06:05:52 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

good reasons.



and none of that crap about the bible, UCMJ, or VD.


and...


go

2007-12-06 06:04:18 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating