Am i weird?

Question

I havent been in a relationship yet and im 18.

Answer 1

no

Answer 2

No. Stop worrying about the pressure that mass media puts on you and looking at your peers' behaviour to measure yourself. You'll get into one when you're ready, when it's right and when it's real. Don't just go trying to force something for the sake of 'because evrybody's doin' it!' Love isn't a game and your heart isn't a pawn. Play it real. If it helps any, i'm forty-two and haven't had sexual relations, let alone a relationship, for almost ten years now. A brutally painful divorce plus a lifetime of f--king like a rabbit before that have taught me a few things. I'm lookin' for the real thing and not wasting my time on child's play anymore. Relax and have some fun while you're still young. You still have plenty of time to get serious later. Nothin' wrong with a lot of just plain fun (SMART!!!) sex at your age, get it out of your system, learn what you like and don't like, and THEN think about relationships. Don't be in such a hurry to 'grow up'. Look at what grown ups have done to the world.

Answer 3

No, you aren't weird yet. I met a man when he was 39. He had dated three girls, but never more than two or three times, each, and he had NEVER had a 'relationship' when we met. We became best friends, then decided to 'explore the romantic path together slowly.' Evidently I understood the 'slowly' but he didn't hear it. Two weeks later, I found out that I was going to be his 'one and only one woman for the rest of his life.' We're now planning our 11th anniversary (Feb. 14th ... Valentine's Day). That date was HIS idea ... he has a terrible memory, but when he sees the 'hearts' in stores and advertisements, he knows we have an anniversary coming. He's far and away the BEST man in the world (to me, anyway) ... and if he's weird, then I am, too, and very GLAD of it. Hang in there and be 'picky' ... because you'll be happier when you do get into a relationship than someone who has had to break hearts or had his heart broken.

Answer 4

no your not weird i'm well past that age an still havent had a real relationship or ever been kissed in effection so carry on saving yourself untill the right person comes along

Answer 5

Nope, not weird at all! Not everyone finds a potential match before they are 18. Some don't find one til later, but I'm sure you're up next! Just be yourself and don't look for a relationship. That's when one will find you! When you LEAST expect it.

Answer 6

Nope. I wasn't in a relationship until I was about 20. Now I have been married for 9 years and have a wonderful relationship with my wife.

Answer 7

No, not weird at all. Enjoy your life and explore all the new adventures you can and that includes education. If you have friends both male & female then you have relationships. If you are thinking about sex best to leave that alone for a while.

Answer 8

No, not at all. You're probably a lot wiser for staying out of them during earlier years. I didn't consider getting into a relationship until I was 20, and am incredibly thankful for that.

Answer 9

I guess this partly depends on your appearance, and personality. If you did not have any friends, I would say you are wierd. If you have friends then you may be progressing a little slow in social bonding. You like taking of things especially family, you are a very helpful person putting your needs before others.

Answer 10

Of course NOT...who decides what's the perfect age to be in a relationship??? No one...don't get caught up on what society deems as proper and appropriate..When it's the right time, then it'll happen

Answer 11

No there isn't any rule that you have to go out by the age of 18. You decide that. However, don't wait around TOO long or else you'd be alone at Christmas![lol jk]