how can i feel like this and why?
2007-12-06 05:32:12 · 9 answers · asked by NuclearKitty 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
read the five love languages
2007-12-06 05:45:31 · answer #1 · answered by dave49310 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was with a man for 7 years. I never had the desire to marry him. We even had a son together. After I broke up with him I realized that he was not the one for me. On the other hand I then met my current husband and I knew very early on that I wanted to marry him. If you have those feelings it may be because you aren't as in love with the person as you think you are. You just may not realize it right now.
2007-12-06 13:46:20 · answer #2 · answered by Angel2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Simple your not ready for marriage and its a good thing that you are holding back. So many women and men jump into marriage without thinking about it and end up divorced within 6mths to a year. There is nothing wrong with you keep loving your man and take your time deciding on getting married.
2007-12-06 13:37:05 · answer #3 · answered by memyslf&I 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am also experiencing a situation like this. I think there are so many men out there that you love and would be glad to have them as your husbands. Getting married to just your man would put an end to your desires. This makes me think why we are not all allowed to get married to as many spouses as possible.
2007-12-06 14:00:55 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Marriage is not an emotion.
Marriage isn't deciding that I can spend the rest of my life with this person - it's deciding that I can't spend the rest of my life without this person.
If you don't feel like marrying him - don't. There's a reasonm you feel this way. Examine that reason. If it's something that can be fixed (like, he cuts his toenails in the kitchen) - then consider marriage.
But if it's something that can't be fixed (like, he calls me names and goes drinking with his buddies whenever we have a fight) - then move on.
2007-12-06 13:53:20 · answer #5 · answered by stay_fan2 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some people just don't like the idea of marriage. That's okay. There's no rule saying that you HAVE to want the traditional ideas of marriage in your life.
2007-12-06 13:56:51 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are clearly double-minded. Just by the way you word your sentence I can say that you are VERY confused. You seem to have trouble making a desicision and sticking to it.
2007-12-06 13:47:24 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
because once you are married you are stuck.
You see flaws in him that you don't like.
He isn't your prince charming.
He likes you more than you like him.
You like the game, and now that game is borring.
2007-12-06 13:45:12 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you love him, but are not really "In love" with him.
2007-12-06 13:55:44 · answer #9 · answered by First Lady 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋