i see all these women posting questions like how do i get this married guys attention etc etc. i mean i am married to a normal human being no matter how much i trust him or secure about our relationship when there's so many women at ur workplace who are married or single would love to have one night stand with your husband. how do u keep peace in your mind. :( its so hard to even think that women would love to have se;x with someone or have affair with someone who probably made love with wife night before. its so nasty. any comments on how you deal with it. and women who are skanks please stay away from leaving comments.i am sure there's plenty of you girls.
2007-12-06 05:58:12 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
i take it as THE GYPSY is what we call sKANK. she is very offended
2007-12-06 06:07:34 · update #1
There are men that do it too.
And methinks if the man is cheating, there is not much love to be made...he just sticks it in the whole that is there at the time....
2007-12-06 06:01:05 · answer #1 · answered by kittykatsback 5 · 0⤊ 3⤋
Trust is the big thing. My husband says the thought of what I would do to him keeps him from even thinking about it (he was kidding) I love him and trust him and he feels the same. We both were cheated on and we know it stinks. We made a deal once when we first started dating. If we felt like we were going to cheat or we wanted to we would tell each other. That way we could leave or try to figure out why the other one felt the need. etc. You know talk about it. Needless to say we have never had that convo. I have to much respect for him and myself to ever cheat. I would hate to lose what we have together. Some random piece of *ss isn't worth it.
2007-12-06 14:05:33 · answer #2 · answered by natasha 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Unfortunately there is nothing we can do about the skanks in the world.
There was a case that a woman sued the mistress and won $5 mil. for alienation of affection. I would imagine if they were hit in the pockets, they might think twice.
2007-12-06 14:10:19 · answer #3 · answered by DesignDiva1 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You do what many women on Y/A do, you pretend it would never ever in a lifetime happen to you because youguy is sooooooo special!!
A man can stop chasing sex but when sex starts chasing him, we men have big problems. In the end it comes down to the man and your relationship.
If he's a good man, he should be at least smart enough to tap the booty once or twice and then leave it alone and not allow it to interfere withh is marriage but then again men are pretty stupid too.
2007-12-06 14:09:31 · answer #4 · answered by huckleberryjoe 3 · 0⤊ 3⤋
I think we all want at least a little bit of male attention, but I don't take it to the extreme of trying to get them in bed. I think you have to make your man know how appreciated he is at home and you'll have very little to worry about. But if all you do is nag him as soon as he gets in the door, the chances of him taking up the opportunity with one of these girls is much more likely. But if you make his home life something that he looks forward to, then chances are he won't stray. Of course, nothing is 100%. You have to trust your man and know that although he has other options out there, he chose YOU to be with him for the rest of his life...not someone else.
2007-12-06 14:04:17 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
You need to put this out of your mind. Either you trust your husband or you don't. If you don't trust him to be around other women, then you need to have a serious talk with him. You can't control the fact that there are other women around who may want to be with your husband. If you can't control it, why worry about it?
2007-12-06 14:09:14 · answer #6 · answered by Ria 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
1. Keep your partner happy so that they are not tempted by another person. If you are his partner, friend and wh*re in bed his eyes will never stray.
2. Let other people live their own lives. I doubt it behooves any of us to be so high and mighty to pass judgement on anyone else. Let that be the duty of a higher power.
2007-12-06 14:05:41 · answer #7 · answered by Zaferus 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You are worrying about other women, but that is not the issue.
Cheaters cheat for two reasons. Either they do not respect their partners or they are running away from marital issues.
If you and your husband are best friends and share trust, love and respect, then he will never cheat.
Take care,
Troy
2007-12-06 14:03:18 · answer #8 · answered by tiuliucci 6 · 3⤊ 1⤋
you cant ever keep all of them away, unless you want to follow your husband everywhere, and babysit him. However what you can do is have a strong bond with your husband let him know that you want to trust him, and if he ever does anything like you described it will hurt you, and possibly destroy the relationship.
2007-12-06 14:04:28 · answer #9 · answered by girliebutstrong 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I really believe t his is something you are going to have to deal with internally within yourself. I know its hard...you dont want others wanting him. But if your marriage is solid and you trust each other you have no worries. dont let your mind play tricks on you. Im sure he loves you and only wants you just as you do him.
2007-12-06 14:02:48 · answer #10 · answered by jslorri 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
It is hard, but just try to understand that they are insecure with themselves and have to fill the void with something. So that makes us loyal women true and confident people. I also daydream about them getting some std and how they are itching themselves and have crabs, then I laugh to myself.
2007-12-06 15:01:28 · answer #11 · answered by Mrs. Duncan 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋