Family & Relationships - 6 December 2007

My man and I have been together for 10 months - and I've fallen in love with him. I know he doesn't love me yet, and he has told me it takes him much longer to develop strong feelings for someone than a normal person.

The problem is I find myself cooking for him, helping out around his house with chores -cleaning the kitchen, washing up, etc. I always want to make him happy when he comes home from work and I'm there - so I'll have his favourite biscuits and a cold drink waiting, as well as having dinner cooked. Not to mention having myself made-up and wearing something nice. He's inspiring all these urges in me that I don't think I'm ready for, and it's quite scary. He's 24 and I'm 21. He is the kind of guy I want to spend the rest of my life with, but I can't help but thinking I'm too young for all this so-called 'domestic bliss'. Do I tell him what I am feeling? What should I do?

2007-12-06 08:30:10 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend wants have sex and we will both be 18 when summer comes. However, my family is Catholic and I was taught to wait till marriage but after being with him my thoughts have started to changed. My parents had me out of wedlock. I don't want to have sex and then regret that I did but I don't want to choose not to have sex and then regret because I didn't do it. I don't know what to think. He claims to love me and that having sex will only make us closer, is he right? Someone please help me!

2007-12-06 08:29:29 · 19 answers · asked by raidergurl2008 1 in Singles & Dating

I was working on a school project with a girl and she screwed up and made us fail so I said she was a F*cking idiot and slapped her in the face. She started crying and said she was goign to "kick me where it counts" what does that mean?

2007-12-06 08:27:33 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I live in Canada and was wondering if anyone could answer this question. A friend of mine is leaving her husband and was wondering if she is liable for half of all his debt. All the credit cards and the mortgage are in his name but they acquired all of this debt while married. Any help would be appreciated. thanks.

2007-12-06 08:26:43 · 2 answers · asked by seeingred 3 in Marriage & Divorce

For about a month and now he doesn't want to talk to me anymore and he said this could never happen again because he feels guilty. We have a 10 yr old son together & he still lives with the other woman. He stopped all contact with me once he met her 2 yrs ago. She interfered in anything that had to do with our son...she threatened me said she would take make my ex take my son away from me but now like I said after 2 yrs he initiated the sex and since I still love him I did it and now I feel hurt because he said this will not happen again. What should I do? If he asked to meet with me why do you think he did that? I failed to add, when this first happened he told me that she got pregnant from him 3 weeks after being with her, she argued so much with me telling me that my man is now her man and to leave them alone...

2007-12-06 08:26:37 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

most the time my fiance n i talk on the phone he tells me how i argue" on every little thing.. but i dont.. these days he gets mad so easliy and after that he usually gets quiet on the phone until i always ask " what's wrong" or r u still there"n etc... i know he isnt cheating on me or anything like that but i need some advice... i texted him today and asked if he wanted some space" but he gave me no reply ... i am so confused what shud i do??? thankx

2007-12-06 08:26:34 · 1 answers · asked by Slice of Heaven* 2 in Singles & Dating

Where you have 2 choices. The first choice is your spouse whom you've committed to building a future with. Your spouse offers you love, stability, commitment, loyalty and the security of knowing that you will always be together. But there is a lack of passion in this marriage.... for several reasons, kids, work, schedules, etc... Then this second choice comes along out of the blue and you begin building a relationship with this individual and this relationship promises a large possibility of this passion & intimacy you've been missing in your marriage with your spouse. They make you smiles when u hear their voice and you look forward to seeing them every chance you get. However, there is no stability in this relationship. Because if the feelings ever go away, you have nothing...

2007-12-06 08:25:05 · 30 answers · asked by unknown 4 in Marriage & Divorce

My b/f of one year and I had a good relationship we made each other laugh We talked about everything including his ex who moved to Miami 2 years ago.
Everything was fine at first until one day I noticed the other side of his closet had womens clothers.. he said she left it behind because she orginally planned to go back in a year. He said they still talk but she changed her mind about moving back & wants him to move there but becuase of his job he wont. most of the stuff in his room was hers the TV-radio all her personal items exaxtly as she left them. He said he wont pack them he will leave them there until she comes and picks it up in Feb. he said he needed to re-register his truck but cant because title is in her name. he doesnt want to ask for it back because it would hurt her feelings. I feel like Im the dirty mistress so i ended it he sounded sad said I was wrong he likes being with me. Im tired of living in her shadow but my heart aches. What do I do?

2007-12-06 08:24:57 · 18 answers · asked by Angel 2 in Singles & Dating

Well me and my bf have a long distance relationship and we bothe havent told our parents but i have a tebbile gut feeling that my bf's parents have found out... why is that?

2007-12-06 08:24:11 · 2 answers · asked by gunzi14 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

and is sensative to your moods and needs?

2007-12-06 08:23:26 · 20 answers · asked by Ahwell 7 in Other - Family & Relationships

I've been married for about 2 years (together for 6). Over the last 6 months I've been having an affair. I fell in love with another man. Meanwhile working out the problems with my husband who I love also. My marriage is going ok, but I can't - I don't want to stop seeing this other guy. I love him, he is my match. Do I just carry on like this? I can't bear the thought of leaving either one of them.

2007-12-06 08:22:08 · 44 answers · asked by Leo Lady 1 in Marriage & Divorce

my dad hasn't been feeling well lately. Hes been complain about how his back hurts and how he gets tired when he just simply walks. i think its low iron.. i don't really know
i want to help him but i don't know how:(..

2007-12-06 08:21:37 · 3 answers · asked by zoey101 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

me and my girl friend started kissing yesturday but i did not know how to do it so she sad she wont make out with me untill i learn how t kiss corractly

2007-12-06 08:20:37 · 6 answers · asked by Yaro T 1 in Singles & Dating

ok im 19 years old and i met this 27 yr old woman. I asked her out and i didnt know she was married at first, but eventually found out. She told me her husband is NEVER home and only gets to see him like 2 times a month. She also tells me that im the best part of her day. Shes doing EVERYTHING to get me to stay, and i like her a lot, but i know its wrong. Should i stay?

2007-12-06 08:20:19 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Post pictures of u and yr bf or gf and then i will email you a rating of one to ten how perfect u r for eachtoher one being the worst! If you dont have pics then just post names.

2007-12-06 08:19:28 · 6 answers · asked by GottaLuvYorkies 2 in Singles & Dating

so i normally fall for the 'hot jerk' well i like this other guy and he's SO nice!! and really cares about me and is cute! the jerk guys use me and he HATES that! we had a sub in the class we have together and we ate lunch together (like always) but we passed notes during class :] (he knows i like him btw) and he told me some REALLY deep and powerful things..hes nice,cute,deep, and is so funny he's perfect...the only problem..he has a girlfriend. she's from columbia and not that pretty!! (overweight, and weird) in the hall today he tapped my shoulder and said heyy and that means SO much to me.....

but im SO confused cause he has a gf so what can i do to make him see me as better than his gf??

and any more advice you have would be GREAT thanks!

2007-12-06 08:18:20 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I got remarried last year. He's 11 years younger than I am, making him 28. I strongly suspect my 19 year old daughter is sleeping with him. There are many many clues that I wont go into detail, and I've tried to confront them but no luck so far. We haven't had sex in over a month and I have a feeling this is why.
Can someone please give me some more info.

2007-12-06 08:17:13 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

help plz

2007-12-06 08:17:12 · 16 answers · asked by Vampira_chica 1 in Family

I just got a call from a lady who says she works with Georgia Bridal Showcase. She told me that out of a drawing of abou 200, 10 names were picked and i was one of them. She said she got my name from theknot.com which i visit all the time. She said all we have to do is come to the Holiday Inn and pick up our gifts which are 2 free tickets to the bridal expo, 3 days and 2 nights free to anywhere we want to go (about 26 locations) and 1/2 off on the cutlery and cookware they sell. She said that this is the only bridal expo that doesnt make you go to a timeshare, no catches etc. All we have to do is show up, they will have lunch for us and get our gifts and go home.

So...of course i am weary of all of this. Has anyone else followed through with something like this and found it legitamate?

I just dont want to waste my time because its about an hour drive. Of course the lady seemed so sincere on the phone and said it wasnt a scam..blah blah blah.

Thanks!

2007-12-06 08:16:14 · 37 answers · asked by Hannah 2 in Weddings

2007-12-06 08:15:12 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My love and I are going to have sex tonight and we've done it before but he doesn't seem to be as pleased as me afterwards. What's some things I can do to drive him wild? We don't like rough sex so please don't suggest whips or chains or anything along the lines of that. Handcuffs and blindfolds are okay though. =]

2007-12-06 08:14:26 · 8 answers · asked by heartshapedgun 1 in Singles & Dating

I have been asked to provide a reference for my housemate who is moving shortly, what information should be on there?

2007-12-06 08:13:37 · 11 answers · asked by spikycacti 2 in Friends

My best guy friend is dating one of my best friends. They used to hold hands and stuff but now the seem like they never talk, shes being mean to him. I dont think she likes him anymore but I'm not sure and same with him. What should I do?

2007-12-06 08:13:37 · 42 answers · asked by Shopaholic905 2 in Friends

2007-12-06 08:13:22 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

she stole my man in 8th grade and now im stealing her fiance.... is this good retribution?

2007-12-06 08:13:16 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

couple people say i'm pretty. most people say i'm average and not that pretty. sooo..... which is it?

2007-12-06 08:12:30 · 14 answers · asked by snowangels 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-06 08:12:06 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

this is embarassing, is spooning the same as cuddling?

2007-12-06 08:12:05 · 38 answers · asked by RitaMichele 2 in Singles & Dating

i never know what to call him,he's not the kind you would call hot, cute, handsome..he's just averange looking,and i don't want to lie to his face either. i called him bad boy ones but doesn't cross my mind that much, anyone out there can help me? What do you say to your bf,if he's average attractive?Or any ideas on what I could say? i know he is always waitting for me to say something back, and makes me feel sorry for him :( Plz help!!!

2007-12-06 08:10:57 · 13 answers · asked by S.O.S 2 in Singles & Dating

I've been with my boyfriend for 5 years...he is 21, I am 19. Most of the time things are good between us but other times he can get on my nerves with his joking around and sarcastic comments. Then when I get mad at him for it, he asks me why I can't take a joke then gets all mad at me. I just got off the phone with him right now after the same thing happened and he is being a complete ****** (wouldn't tell me what he was doing and kept saying he was "smoking crack" (not literelly) when he was really selling an extra MP3 player he had...got all upset at me for wanting to know what he was doing...hung up on me..i called back, he was being mean) Ugh...I don't know if I should just brush him off at times or what....I try to tell him how I feel but he thinks I'm being too serious or dramatic...Can someone please tell me why guys do this crap and how I can deal with it better? Deep down I love him and things are great but at times I just get so upset when I'm not in the joking mood.

2007-12-06 08:10:05 · 16 answers · asked by calichick 1 in Singles & Dating