My man and I have been together for 10 months - and I've fallen in love with him. I know he doesn't love me yet, and he has told me it takes him much longer to develop strong feelings for someone than a normal person.
The problem is I find myself cooking for him, helping out around his house with chores -cleaning the kitchen, washing up, etc. I always want to make him happy when he comes home from work and I'm there - so I'll have his favourite biscuits and a cold drink waiting, as well as having dinner cooked. Not to mention having myself made-up and wearing something nice. He's inspiring all these urges in me that I don't think I'm ready for, and it's quite scary. He's 24 and I'm 21. He is the kind of guy I want to spend the rest of my life with, but I can't help but thinking I'm too young for all this so-called 'domestic bliss'. Do I tell him what I am feeling? What should I do?
2007-12-06 08:30:10 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He never asked me to do any of this, just to clarify. I did it because I wanted to.
2007-12-06 08:44:06 · update #1
Why should he bother telling you he loves you and why should he bother making a commitment to you? You already do everything he wants.
What incentive does he have to marry you or love you?
2007-12-06 08:35:05 · answer #1 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I have always went after what I wanted, But I listen to my heart. Your heart will tell you. Just listen to it. Good luck
2007-12-06 16:39:43 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ever if you don't think your ready you should tell him any way cuz that would be being honest about your feelings and tell him what your thinking cuz he can not read your mind. all i have to say is do what feels right to you ok. good luck
2007-12-06 16:39:09 · answer #3 · answered by lil' princess19 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
communicate, but if you aren't ready for it just step back a bit, do something you enjoyed before you got together. good luck.
2007-12-06 16:36:18 · answer #4 · answered by flipfairyflop 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋