Family & Relationships - 6 December 2007

im with a girl who has been hurt in the past
she s a commitment phobia and is very ambivalence

i like her alot but she told me she has been hurt soo bad

is there any chance for something? or should i give up and just be a friend n pursue another woman?

any tips and advice will be very helpful
thanks

2007-12-06 08:51:14 · 18 answers · asked by Steven 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Me and my cousin were having a debate whether guys liked girls who've had a bikini wax or not. Can any guys (or girls) help us answer this question?

2007-12-06 08:50:33 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My ex-boyfriend broke up with me a few months ago. It was so painful for me, I really did love him. We were together for 3 years. I never felt so much for anyone before. However, he decided to end our relationship as we became long-distance and he could not handle it. Now he found out I am going travelling, he says he is scared of loosing me. He told me the other day he loves me, he misses me and he has so much regrets but he is not coming back to me now. He said to meet after I come back from my travels? Why is he suddenly now worried? And should I meet him after? I do love him very much !

2007-12-06 08:49:49 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

The subject of my question is about sex . Do you want to please your man in bed or get your needs met ? For example: If your man wants to get it on and you dont feel like it do you think about making your man happy or think of yourself and not put out?

2007-12-06 08:49:22 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

tips on flirting with a guy i really like. and sometimes i feel like i lose control of my actions when we talk. how do i stop that?

2007-12-06 08:47:53 · 7 answers · asked by Chris 3 in Singles & Dating

ok my ef-bf keeps say that he still likes be
and that he still flirts with me and he say he wants to be f.w.b. and i say yes but im not sure if he really means it.

2007-12-06 08:47:47 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I asked an advice on what to do, because my husband dumped me with an eight month old daughter. I received a lot of hostile answers, why? All because I told them about my concerns about his ex (he broke with her shortly before the wedding, she was pregnant then), and married me. She tried to screw him for the child support, but couldn't, luckily, because she is abroad. She is absolutely ugly, and constantly complaining, and was no good for him at all. I came into his life in time for him to realize that she was no good.
Now she dumped me, and took all his assets off-shore, and I can't get a dime. I am very good looking, educated, and do not deserve this at all. Yet it seemed as if people were judging me, and being gleeful about what happened to me. We are different, she got what was her due. I am a better, superior person, and deserve compassion. Why are there so many hostile people in this world?

2007-12-06 08:47:09 · 27 answers · asked by what 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I am female,13 and my male Technology teacher walked past me and some other people in my class and told us to come with him into the other room to get our work. He got hold of the top of my arm (as to lead me in the other room) and slid his hand right down my arm and then let go! He didn't get hold of my arm with a hard grip, he was gentle but I wondered why he did it and what it really meant??
Thanks..X

2007-12-06 08:45:37 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Very immature, insecure and flirts with girls infront of me

2007-12-06 08:45:36 · 13 answers · asked by sammy 1 in Singles & Dating

I have to ask because i keep getting laughed at when women loook at my hands and feet. Its always the same thing, "Gee, you have some really small hands and feet." and they giggle.

But women usually compliment me on my member. it just sucks because i get denied before even getting a chance to show.

2007-12-06 08:44:32 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Would he try to compete with the man she is attracted to or simply feel jealous and talk nasty to her? Or would he just ignore it?

2007-12-06 08:44:19 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I'm scared after that happend. She was like beside me locker and she was trying to move aside and it felt weird I'm scared what do I do? lol

2007-12-06 08:44:00 · 7 answers · asked by Dragon-Rider 3 in Singles & Dating

A Quick Summary I'm 21 and my Fiancee is 20 we are suppose to get married next year and Found Out that I'm 7 wks pregnant! Anywayz Don't think it's too much of the hormones but I notice that he is very immature when it comes to our relationship, but when it comes to my kids I have (before being with him) and other things he's not. Example would be if you snap on him (which I do quite often, he'll do it back then justify it because i did it). Things like that gets old real quick, at times it just feels like he's another kid and that I have to hold his hand on a lot of things. I'm use to older guys, this is the first time that I'm in a relationship with a guy my age.



Please help, and Serious Replies Only!.....

2007-12-06 08:43:58 · 1 answers · asked by kizzykay86 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

every time i get the nerve to ask a girl out she gets another boyfriend before i ask her am i waiting too long????

2007-12-06 08:43:15 · 11 answers · asked by Kevin 2 in Singles & Dating

How many times does a women have to have sex before it starts to actually feel good?

2007-12-06 08:41:20 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

you find out that ur woman has been faking orgasms because she's afraid of hurting ur feelings? not because of something u did or didn't do, but because she just cant quite get 'there'. how would u handle it?

2007-12-06 08:40:35 · 13 answers · asked by Audrean L 3 in Singles & Dating

i ahve this friend well she is my best friend really i have know her since i was a little girl but i just found out that she has sleeped with my boyfriend who i have been with 4 years what shall i do
do i forgive her on not she brake my heart

2007-12-06 08:40:34 · 26 answers · asked by kim 2 in Friends

i found out that i was pregnant, which i was happy about. my ex found out and he went beserk, (he is not the father). he asked me how i could be pregnant and did i have a boyfriend? what is his problem, is he jealous??

2007-12-06 08:39:18 · 51 answers · asked by Loli 2 in Singles & Dating

Can i come right out and ask him?

2007-12-06 08:37:17 · 11 answers · asked by Princess Ninja 7 in Singles & Dating

Please help me out with this question cuz if its bad then ill stop but I just really need to know if its a good or bad thing at my age and im a girl so that may seem like im a lesbian, which im not, so someone plz help me...thx!

2007-12-06 08:37:07 · 82 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

the person i see has recenty discussed her partying hard ways and she admitted in a very flip manner that she is doing cocaine. my eyes bugged. she was so flip and this IS NOT her. she is usually very straight laced. but i had suspected for a bit, weight loss, wide eyed, strange chats, weird sleep habits. she slept all day sat and sunday and once went to work at 8 after getting home at 7. we don't live together but she told me this. i don't do the club thing with her all the time, very rarely. i keep my nose clean so to speak but she is always around for me. What should i do? i am upset at her cocaine use. she says she has it under control but i think it is going to bite her on the *** one morning and he won't know what happened. What shoudl I Say? Should I leave it, her? I am upset confused.

2007-12-06 08:36:43 · 16 answers · asked by Derrick Sandoval 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-12-06 08:35:27 · 31 answers · asked by JuDyLicious 3 in Singles & Dating

My husband & I have been married for 5 years, I'm happy with our relationship. Well, a couple weeks ago I come to find out before we met he had been having sex with his brothers wife. Apparently it was a couple years before we met, so I can't really say anything. I was just really surprised he would do something like that. It just doesn't seem like something he would do, I kinda feel like, do I really know him or what? His brother & his wife are still together & there is no bad blood between him & his brother. But, when I'm around them I feel a little uncomfortable, to be honest it bothers me. I wish it didn't. Just wanted to see what you think about it.

2007-12-06 08:34:45 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-12-06 08:34:33 · 16 answers · asked by LivingDeadKat 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

I think so.

everything is such sh*t right now.
I'm tired of putting trust into people that don't deserve and
time and effort into people that abuse it.

tonight I shall get drunk and record myself karaoke-ing haha
thats always fun and interesting.
how do you guys deal with your bad days?

2007-12-06 08:34:30 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

ive been dating this one girl at my school. to skip alot of the details, i kissed her for the first time (only lips). this was after many dates, hang outs, and hours on the phone. so tommorow after school, i want to kiss her again. but should i just do it, or say "would it be wrong if i kissed you right now?" or "one for the road". im new at this so,..i need a the pointers i can get.

2007-12-06 08:33:17 · 53 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

im getting bored of her, what should i do?

2007-12-06 08:33:12 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

i was coming out of computing, and some yr12s were waiting to come in, and one of them i know quite well, was like "oh abby. it's not going to work out, he's gay. get over it. i mean, i know he's tall and..." then he basically started describing the guy standing next to him. then the guy looked at me all disgusted and walked into the class.
and now i don't know what to do, because we were becoming like, quite good friends (the gay guy, not the c*nt). i tried explaining to him that i rly don't like him in that way, but he just turned his back on me and prowled off.

what should i do pls?

2007-12-06 08:32:42 · 5 answers · asked by . 3 in Friends

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2007-12-06 08:32:37 · 9 answers · asked by Carissa V 1 in Singles & Dating

the person i see has recenty discussed his partying hard ways and he admitted in a very flip manner that he is doing cocaine. my eyes bugged. he was so flip and this IS NOT him. he is usually very straight laced. but i had suspected for a bit, weight loss, wide eyed, strange chats, weird sleep habits. he slept all day sat and sunday and once went to work at 8 after getting home at 7. we don't live together but he told me this. i don't do the club thing with him all the time, very rarely. i keep my nose clean so to speak but he is always around for me. What should i do? i am upset at his cocaine use. he says he has it under control but i think it is going to bite him on the *** one morning and he won't know what happened. What shoudl I Say? Should I leave it, him? I am upset confused.

2007-12-06 08:30:39 · 46 answers · asked by agent 99 1 in Singles & Dating