tips on flirting with a guy i really like. and sometimes i feel like i lose control of my actions when we talk. how do i stop that?
2007-12-06 08:47:53 · 7 answers · asked by Chris 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Every guy responds to flirting differently... and likes to be flirted with different ways.
Your feeling like your loosing control of your actions because you are getting caught up in the moment.. which is ok to a degree. However, you need to "stabilize" yourself so that you feel like you can talk with confidence and not mess up. I would suggest some serious self-analysis to identify what your worried about.
2007-12-06 08:51:25 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That feeling is totally normal! The best thing to do is breathe and smile it buys you a lot of time... if you are focused so much on the act of flirting you'll feel spastic.
Take time when you're talking to him, you will find little ways to touch his arm or slide closer to him while he does all the talking. Also, ALWAYS give him a hug when you see him and/or leave him.
Don't worry about long periods of non-stop flirting... Sometimes one perfect action is all it takes.
You've got it!
2007-12-06 16:54:20 · answer #2 · answered by PrincessandtheCity 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you aren't sure what to say, or it comes out wrong... practice! Use your mirror, even a close friend. Much like speaking in public if you practice what you are going to say you are more confidant and it comes off better. Don't concentrate on the butterflies in your stomach, concentrate on what he's saying and what you want to say in return. The best flirt, a sweet smile and a coy look... no words needed.
2007-12-06 16:52:38 · answer #3 · answered by velvetca1972 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just continue to be sucky. You'll get plenty of tips.
2007-12-06 16:55:55 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
flirt by touching. Like if you are laughing at him put your hand on him... and always smile (when it is appropriate), smile when you see him, looks at you, talks to you. don't be one of those girls who are loud and obnoxious to draw attention.
2007-12-06 16:53:28 · answer #5 · answered by Gmarie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's sometime you grow into & out of>Be more confadent in yourself
2007-12-06 16:52:36 · answer #6 · answered by 45 auto 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be confident in urself
2007-12-06 16:54:54 · answer #7 · answered by Promise 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋