Please help me out with this question cuz if its bad then ill stop but I just really need to know if its a good or bad thing at my age and im a girl so that may seem like im a lesbian, which im not, so someone plz help me...thx!
2007-12-06 08:37:07 · 82 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Okay I have read most of the answers to this question...and most of them are negative..Im not an addict and I dont ever think about sex...and besides I only look at it about maybe twice or so a week and I dont have any videos I just watch them online and I only watch them for about maybe half an hour or more.I do enjoy watching girls play with themselves but I KNOW FOR A FACT THAT I AM NOT A LESBIAN, I AM STRAIGHT AS THE STRAITEST WALL. SO IM NOT A LESBO OR EVEN BI!!!!Look I know Im only 13 but it doesnt even interfer with my everyday life..not in front of boys,friends,school or anything.I just enjoy watching some of it like I said maybe like twice a week!! So I barely ever think about it and I never have played with myself and I never think about having sex in the real world..so I agree with the people that say that I should rather watch it than do it because I just enjoy watching it and not doing it for real.
2007-12-07 04:19:44 · update #1
Hell yea it is ok. I think knowing what you like is a very good thing. You have no idea how bad it is too be in love with someone who doesnt even have the slightest clue. Besides that, watching porn isnt a bad thing. It doenst mean your partner isnt enough nor does it mean you are a bad person. Having some insight to your own sexuality is wonderful. 13 is young to be watching it as a means of sexual satisfaction and/or stimulation but a healthy interest in sex is not a bad thing nor should you think any less of yourself for it.
2007-12-08 17:58:25 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Im gonna be straight up and honest with you. All those negative people, they can go somewhere. I used to watch porn when I was your age too. You're bored, interested, and have a lot of questions. I never had that "talk" with my parents, and I learned A LOT from porn. I'm not addicted, and I'm not weird freak. You can learn a lot about your body and guys bodies from watching porn. You can learn a lot about sex too and then when you're ready to either play with yourself (which is NOTHING to be ashamed of) or ready to have sex, you'll know at least a little bit about what to do and how to do it. It will make it less awkward for you. I STRONGLY believe watching porn is good as long as it doesn't interfere with your everyday life... and be careful DO NOT GET A VIRUS... they are everyone on the net. Watching porn is nothing to be ashamed of and it isn't bad for you. Just be yourself and enjoy. It's entertaining. And the bloopers... are hilarious. The naked body is nothing to be ashamed or afraid of. I work at a hospital and see it all day. I also think it makes you more mature because you'll already know what to expect and what it looks like. Been there done that type of deal so if you're ever walking down the street and see a man's butt crack you won't be all immature about it.
2007-12-07 09:18:06 · answer #2 · answered by AJanae W 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I want to say first of all, i don't consider you are a horrible character, I suppose you're effortlessly misled into feeling you are intent of what is been happening for your lifestyles and good, i can relate a little. After I was once about 12 I started chatting up on chat rooms and speaking 'soiled' motive it was so intriguing back then, met this man who seems to grasp the whole lot about me (i didnt comprehend what internet stalkers were then) and did mostly the same as you. And that i used to reduce, however unique reasons, anyway... I do not forget my mother discovering out via parent control and having report of the convos, and that day looking to kill myself with drug overdose. Fortunately mom found my suicide note before it was once late. And we talked. I feel that is one really big thing you need, any one mature and understanding to talk to. Thirteen is a tricky age, having been there and executed that, i will say you want all the aid which you could get now. And by no means doubt your self. Slicing will not help issues, you suppose powerful and just right but it's not the solution. Your regrets for watching porn and slicing exhibit you might be on a bigger stage than you believe you might be, and your wanting to vary is a strong step forward. If you want to speak to me i will be able to intention you, I remember the entire confusion and ache of the early teenagers, however it's subsequently you alone who can stand as much as all of that - you could either be your nice pal or worst enemy in my belief. It takes time but you can look again in years time and snigger all this off, believe me, from experience.
2016-08-06 10:26:26 · answer #3 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know what its like for girls but, for guys, every single guy born has watched porn and/or masturbated, 9/10 seen it and the 10th person is a liar. And its not okay, but its normal, and honestly I think masturbating is...ehh debatable, but porn is definitely wrong. For guys it starts small and it just grows, no one just looks at magazines, you eventually crave videos, then more and more, and you need newer videos of different people, etc. So relating to guys, what you're going through is completely normal, but it gets bad afterwards. You don't want to end up becoming sex addict, so just starve the porn and it will die out. You do something for 1 month and it will become a habit, but you'll probably need help, stopping by yourself is next to impossible.
2007-12-06 21:47:40 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
I think your a little too young to watch it but 13 onwards is the age where you start to think about sex etc. Usually porn is the first step even though its a no no at 13.
I wouldnt let it worry you but I do suggest you stop watching it.
Your no way a lesbian as porn is for men & women
2007-12-06 08:55:29 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Porn or adult films are for adults, to be enjoyed by matured adults not children. You are a virgin. While it is normal to explore your sexuality and find answeers, it is wrong to get your lessons on sexuality on porn, because all you see there is artificial. That is not what is happening in the real world. You see, porn is made to be very visual, so the acts are quite exaggerated. It lacks intimacy. The actors are paid to do wild acts, so they seem to enjoy what they are doing, but in reality it is done to stroke arousal among viewers. Porn tends to be very addictive also. You will get a wrong perception about sex.
2007-12-09 14:31:01 · answer #6 · answered by Lee C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
13 yrs. old is TOO Young to watch porn. And just so you know, porn is NOT just for Men . Plenty of women watch them too, but you are still young, and shouldn't have any "need" to watch them. Give yourself a few more years !! that goes for staying a virgin too !! Good Luck !!!
2007-12-06 08:57:55 · answer #7 · answered by casper 5 · 4⤊ 0⤋
well you see this is why these pictures have an 18 rating. Children are not emotionally equipped to deal with sexual issues and if you had not seen it you would not be confused now. It is the same with watching violent scenes at a young age. You become desensitised. Forget about porn Its just actors making a living doing not so nice stuff. Stick to your teen programmes until you are older.
2007-12-06 08:49:00 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
About 25 years ago I used to sell porno videos. They were a new idea then and illegal. I was very careful about selling to under 18's even though I got requests. These films are legal now but my feeling is that they are Ok for adults to enhance their sex lives but are not OK for anyone who is still developing their ideas about sex and you as a 13 year old and never having experienced sex I think would be advised not to look at them as they show sex as just a physical activity and not part of a loving relationship which is most people's ideal.
If you really feel the need to see porno, at least see it for what it is: Pure Fantasy.
2007-12-06 09:00:34 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
No !absolutely not! What are you doing looking at porn at 13. Where are your parents?? My advice to you since you asked is, no more porn . Find your friends, go to the mall, library, movies anything that a "Child" your age should be doing and leave the porn ALONE!!!!!!...sorry didn't mean to sound so harsh but its tough love.
2007-12-06 08:44:12 · answer #10 · answered by kharilli 5 · 4⤊ 3⤋