Family & Relationships - 6 December 2007

How old do you think I look? Do you think I'm attractive? Not looking for attention - just wondering! I will tell you how old I am when I choose for best answer!

I'm a high school junior, am tall and slim.

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Thanks!

2007-12-06 11:06:53 · 12 answers · asked by Astrid 5 in Singles & Dating

i have boy troubles and i would like to n=know how to change so that boys like me...like how skinny,,makeup? and that kind of stuff

2007-12-06 11:05:21 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

could friends become lovers? i am a 22 year old woman falling for a 32 year old man. when i first met him in the summer he asked if i had a boyfriend i was just out of a relationship at the time. now he told me he thinks i'm too young his schedule is busy since he's working now and all. i don't know him completely well yet to date him the same thing kind of happened with my ex boyfriend. we started out as friends then became lovers for a year now we still talk to each other once in a while. do u think i should wait until the guy's schedule is not so busy? i know some people who are in their 20s and their dating guys who are in their 30s. my ex is 29 that's very very close to 30. i go for the older men. maybe i could tell him i fell for him but i doubt it will work. do u think i should start being friends with him then see what happens? the 32 year old guy is not married. it's not like he's 40 or 35.

2007-12-06 11:03:47 · 14 answers · asked by Melanie P 1 in Singles & Dating

I make a descent income but we are both mid-20s and saving. She knows it is coming but still will be surprise when. I heard 2 months income but I wasn't sure. Any help/advice would be appreciated

2007-12-06 10:51:24 · 23 answers · asked by John S 3 in Weddings

2007-12-06 10:50:28 · 9 answers · asked by ofomyzrc88 1 in Singles & Dating

Is 26 too young to worry about that? Do you think it will happen when it's supossed to? I stress and worry about it a lot!

Do you or have you felt this way?

2007-12-06 10:49:06 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My ex and I still love each other and live together . What does it mean when he still has a thing for the girl that broke use up but still loves me.

2007-12-06 10:48:05 · 5 answers · asked by ? 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i lost my virginity to him end of august. havn't seen him since. we talk not often though. for like 3 nights in a row he asked to hangout. we made plans... i was gonna go over his house. i told him i'd call before i came. i called him 3 times over the course of the day, IMed him once, but not like bugging him or anything just said "hey whats up". i'm trying so hard not to be desperate about it and acting like i dont care. but i do. and im really hurt. im not gonna tell him my feelings for him because i know every other gurl who has, hes fled from. anyways its been about 2 weeks since ive tried to get in touch with him at all. do you think i should trying calling/IMing him? please dont say GET AWAY FROM THIS LOSER. i know i should. but i dont want to, and am not going to give up. just give me tips ANYTHING... but mainly i just want to see him...

2007-12-06 10:48:01 · 11 answers · asked by dp4l69420 1 in Singles & Dating

I really like this guy- but I don't know how tot tell if he likes me or not. Or when and how he's checking me out. A boy I sit buy in school asked me house girls check guys out- I changed the subject and asked him how guys check girls out, he said by staring at the but. Any advice?

2007-12-06 10:47:36 · 2 answers · asked by SB Forever 68 1 in Singles & Dating

They won't be visiting for another 2 years. We have been friends for over 10 years, but our bf/gf relationship is a few months old.

2007-12-06 10:46:25 · 24 answers · asked by Yellow 1 in Singles & Dating

Could I still go to school and have fun with my husband and do all the things I always do? I am in the Air Force and if I have a baby I will have to stay in the service longer, if I have a child can I still have a life, I am not selfish but I want the truth from real moms.

2007-12-06 10:46:17 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

http://youtube.com/watch?v=26Al8fm05Tw

2007-12-06 10:41:16 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

for instance,
him: whats wrong?
me: i dont really wanna talk about it.
him: u should tell me everything ((in a mean voice))
me: well please respect the fact that i dont wanna talk about it.
him: well no.. u dont even love me.. if u cant answer my questions!!


who's right?

2007-12-06 10:41:15 · 34 answers · asked by MommaCass 2 in Singles & Dating

I have a sexy conundrum... In my World Religions class, there's a cute female that sits in the seat directly in front of me. Anyway, just about every time, for the last month or so, I catch a glimpse of the top of her thong, just over her jeans or skirt or whatever - you can't miss it. Now, I'm not sure if she's doing this on purpose or what, since I know that the first thing most ladies check, after they sit down, is if their jeans/skirt is pulled up in the back. This chick just sits down, kinda wiggles around in her chair a little, and then proceeds to do that leaning forward-type sit, for the entire period. We've talked plenty (read: flirted), but I haven't tried getting her number or anything because I can see that she's rockin an engagement ring.

Is there some way I can figure this out without being obvious?

2007-12-06 10:37:18 · 16 answers · asked by Brandon's been a dirty Hore 5 in Singles & Dating

About 2 months after I split up with my ex girlfriend her best friend called roound and made sexual advances towards me. I was totally shocked and felt it was the wrong thing for me to be involved with her. She was disapointed but we parted as friends, but I thought about it after she left and I decided it would have been OK for us to be in a relationship.

She happened to call again. I don't know why she did exactly as I never contacted her and this time I told her that I did like her and that we should spend time together. This time she stormed out very upset and accused me of 'coming on' to her. She then told my ex the same thing and I really came away from this experience really totally confused. Can anyone explain this to me. Did I do something terribly bad here?

2007-12-06 10:34:52 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Im really not sure about this girl that i like if she likes me back or whatnot. Here are a few things that ive noticed
Ive caught her staring in class at me twice as in i look at her, then look away, and look back and she's still staring at me
When she got ahead of me in the hallway she looked behind her right at me.
When i said first hour was fun she just looked at me and smiled
She doesnt look me in my eyes when we talk.
She seems awkward talking to me around her friends, but still answers me.
Any ideas?

2007-12-06 10:34:30 · 13 answers · asked by Sense 3 in Singles & Dating

He is coming very early in the AM to get our sons. He will bring them home around 6pm. They will be able to open their gifts under the tree that "Santa" dropped off. But they will be getting dressed immediately for his pick up.

My oldest son is 12 and knows Santa doesn't exist. My 8 year old still believes.

Would it be tacky to have a one to two gifts from MOM which I could let them open on X-mas eve so they have time to enjoy it?

Or just wait until they get home X-mas night to enjoy all of their gifts?

This is my very first time without them. . . We were married 10 years and together 4 years before that.

2007-12-06 10:31:39 · 22 answers · asked by Miss Kelly 4 in Marriage & Divorce

or for worse?"....now come on..People do not stay for worse...now a days...Years ago women got beat and were verbally abused and took all kinds of crap....But not now...some women use to stay with drug addicts or alcoholics....but not now....Most churches will allow you out of a marriage that is no more...what is your opinion???

2007-12-06 10:30:24 · 13 answers · asked by sweet 4 in Marriage & Divorce

Ok so i really liked this girl and we were dateing and one day i told her. you really look cute today she was like yea thats what i was trying to do. so we went to the movies and i got mad at her i forgot y and i didnt sit next to her. so then i told her i was with an other girl. and told her best friend that i liked some other girl and i would kiss other girls ( i know this was bad) but the thing is that i really like this girl. so we went out to a soccer game for her B day and i gave her a teddy bear and a rose. so 2 weeks later she went out with some one else so we didnt talk for like 2 months. and she IMed me. and some how we started talking and she asked my y was a jerk to her for those months when she had ger BF. so i told her no reason and she kept asking me. until she was like. i know y u were mad. i was like no . the past is the past. she was like are u sure the past is the past or is it cuz i went out with him cuz im not going out with him no more.!?!?!??!?!

2007-12-06 10:29:53 · 4 answers · asked by eggz11 1 in Singles & Dating

I have heard that if you have your boyfriend(or anyone for that matter) suck on your boobs they will get bigger is that true?

2007-12-06 10:18:43 · 5 answers · asked by clb <3 tjb 1 in Singles & Dating

Not too mention that they are now accusing my son of stealing a pair of 1k diamond earrings! I am really pissed off at them for this behavior and not to mention that her husband called my son with a nasty attitude about not paying him.

2007-12-06 10:18:19 · 4 answers · asked by Mocha 1970 2 in Family

I have an amazing husband.
He is selfless,extremely caring,basically an all around INCREDIBLE man.

But,I sometimes feel bad because he puts me so far ahead of himself.
I'm 5 months pregnant,and I understand that he feels the need to "pamper" me,but I feel like he is just forgetting about his own needs.
Ex:ample: He has like 4 pairs of pants for work,that are all tore up,and he has been saying that he needs new pants.But when we go shopping he is so concentrated on getting something for me that he puts his need for new pants on the back burner,I'll go over to the men's section to look for stuff for him and he'll just be like ,"No,I really don't need new pants all that bad."
I'm not selfish either,and I know that's how this is coming across,but I try to get him to do things for himself,and he won't.
He can bring me home stuff everyday and its fine.
But the other day I surprised him with some new clothes and he was like,"Babe why did you do that?I told you I don't need them.."

2007-12-06 10:16:49 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My boyfriend is 14 his mum died n his dads an alcoholic n beats him up. I feel really helpless cos i dont know what to do to help. He told me not to tell anyone cos his dad threatened him about the police or anyone getting involved. I was at his house the other day (I dont think his dad knew i was there) and his dad pushed him against the wall and started punching him. I really dont know what to do to help him.

2007-12-06 10:15:50 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I was at my friends house one night for dinner. His mom yelled at me for breaking her vase and I got really mad at her. They kept an urn on top of their fireplace with my friends grandfathers ashes in it. Anyways, my friends mom was cooking spaghetti and when she went to the bathroom I took a spoonful of ashes and put it in the speghetti. Its been 14 years now. Should I confess?

2007-12-06 10:14:23 · 59 answers · asked by Genio B 1 in Family

heart? lol.

2007-12-06 10:09:32 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend always asks me "How much do you love me babe?" And it leaves me speechless. Because I love him more than anything else in this world. I just don't know how to tell him. I feel it in my heart, I feel it in my soul that I love him deeply. It's just unfortunate that i'm not that smooth with words. Any suggestions on what to say? I know it sounds kinda odd that I can't do this myself. But I find love to be indescribable. It's something you feel and crave and cheerish, rather than be so shallow as to put it to words. (In my opinion at least :p)


So, suggestions! Please help :) I need help on what words to put to feeling.

2007-12-06 10:08:25 · 42 answers · asked by Nikky 1 in Singles & Dating

Okay..I hear from my fiance..everyday. Email or phone call...
I haven't in 2 days.....! I am freaking out...but there is nothing I can do....! Give me some advice to calm down.

2007-12-06 10:07:33 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

OMG.
I was just thinking about this.
Did my ex-boyfriend ever even like me?!

I was thinking this because..
he like neverrr got hard when we hung out.
Not once... I don't think.
We went out for 3 months...
and we would make out alot and he went up my shirt.

But did he ever even like me?
Cause he never got hard.

hahaaaa
thanks muchh♥

2007-12-06 10:07:10 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-12-06 10:06:17 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

So yea. I'm really falling for this close friend of mine and have been since February. We've been close friends for about 3 years now.

I've actually come to the conclusion that I have to tell her, and what I actually need help with is what/how to go about this.

So if you were in my situation, what would you say, when would you say it? all that stuff. thanks.

2007-12-06 10:03:57 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating