Family & Relationships - 6 December 2007

This teenage male has had academic problems since around the age of 9. His parents had him tested, but he didn't qualify for Special Education services. He was left back in the 6th? grade and has continuously received F's on his report cards. He has progressed through the grades by 'social promotion' is my guess. He has also attended adult night school and summer school due to his parent's insistence. Now he is in high school and constantly cutting classes and bringing home F's. Girls are the only important thing to him. He is also displaying other odd behavior. He is losing interest in things that he says are important to him. He LOVES football, but when it comes to working hard and applying himself, he has no interest. He wants the rewards without the hard work. He's a nice young man, very charming and friendly. I'm very close with the family and know that there have been some difficulties in the family dynamic, but overall he has loving and supportive family around him.

2007-12-06 12:30:52 · 1 answers · asked by Oh Suhnny Day 3 in Family

My seventh grade class is really really Cliquey. Every day seems worse. I am tired of being the odd girl out. And having a nick name I don't deserve. I tell people to leave me alone, but they just laugh and don't take me seriously. I'm tired of wearing this fake smile and crying myself to sleep and dying on the inside. I am about to transfer mid year. Is this a stupid reason to transfer.. What should I do. I am alone and like I said before, almost over the edge. Help!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I have not told any one this including my mom who wants me to wait it out and says things can only get better. She is wrong the more I wait, the worse that it gets.

2007-12-06 12:30:18 · 35 answers · asked by Rachel C. 3 in Singles & Dating

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2007-12-06 12:26:21 · 14 answers · asked by jaclyn130 3 in Weddings

2007-12-06 12:23:58 · 1 answers · asked by ASH 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

a girl that is cute but is 4'11 tall?

2007-12-06 12:22:54 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i am accidently pregnancy with my bf of one year.i was on pills, but due to antibiotic intake, the pill was not effective last time(i have been on pills for whole year). so am 7 weeks pregnant. he is 13 years older than me and divorced before i met him. i am about to finish uni, and apply for skill-in-demand immigration to australia.(am a qualified accountant in few months).

2007-12-06 12:22:41 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Say that a woman got you a Boss wallet and a Lynard Skynard shirt for your birthday. Would you think of her everytime you wore that shirt or took out your wallet?


thanks for your help!

2007-12-06 12:21:12 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Also posted this in singles section, but thought that since te wedding is in a month that mabye it should be here as well. Been with him three years. Never cheated. Never wanted to. Then with a month to go, I weaken. I had no right to do what i did. But if i tell him, I get dumped. I'd like to put it behind me. Is that not proper? The friend seduced me. And we had sorta been in a fight. Doesn't make my actions right. But I still dont want to punish myself for one terrible mistake. The friend promises not to say anything. In fact, he keeps begging me not to say anything. Thoughts?

2007-12-06 12:18:31 · 40 answers · asked by sudempski 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Or you a cold heart person" who does not care about other people feeling

2007-12-06 12:15:56 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Alright, my girlfriends mother is divorced with a husband who pays minimum for child support, shes in debt and is working hard to pay for the house she has just gotten, the car, along with food. She has a daughter in 9th grade and a son in 7th whom she struggles to provide for. She works for the city in the emergency department on weekdays but the pay doesn't cut it.My girlfriend keeps letting it out on me saying she wishes she could have more than a cup of noodles a day and a varety of furniture, she wants her mom to stop crying from the stress.
Their family's financial state just blows and is terrible and her mom is on this struggle alone, i really want to help them, somebody anybody please is their anyway, shape or form, this can be helped? any sggestions for the family? any suggestions on what i can say when she crys to me? anything.. please, bu thank you for taking the time to read this.

2007-12-06 12:11:30 · 4 answers · asked by aleksx_12 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My father passed away last week, none of us expected this because he was healthy and only 58. I'm now dealing with the losses alone, i dont want my family to see me depressed as i'm the eldest. The problem is, i seem to loss myself too...and been thinking why am i rushing in life and what am i aftering for all this while....i've returned to work and now it doesn't seems so important...am i really depressed? how do i deal with this?

2007-12-06 12:09:10 · 6 answers · asked by ladyjane 2 in Family

I GAVE SOMEONE MY # AND THEY SAID THIS TO ME 2DAYS L8R WHAT DID THEY EXPECT ME TO SAY

2007-12-06 12:08:39 · 5 answers · asked by ilovejemeice 2 in Singles & Dating

I am so tired of watching my parents hurt them selves by smoking. They tried to quit once my mom did it, but my dad got sick and when he smoked it made my mom smoke too. I have tryed to tell them over and over again, but they just don't listen.Also to make it worse my dad drinks way to much and he does it everyday and I have tryed to talk to him and even my mom couldn't get him to listen.Can anyone help me!!!!

2007-12-06 12:08:20 · 9 answers · asked by hockeygirl 1 in Family

I am just wondering how old because I don't want to date some creep who just wants to date a young woman for sex. thanks:)

2007-12-06 12:08:06 · 43 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

there is this girl from my school who died in a fire, my mom doesn't know, how do i tell her?

2007-12-06 12:06:30 · 6 answers · asked by me 4 in Family

okay..wats the best part about a girl

2007-12-06 12:06:12 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My son's ex who is the mother of his biological child has abuse charges against him and a restraining order and all kinds of malarkey that caused him to lose rights to his biological daughter. He then married another girl who has a 6 year old daughter. He put the 6 year old step daughter in a corner and had her stand there because she kept wetting herself and he forgot her and hse was there 45 minutes. THe girl is mildly retarded I think because she pees herself all the time and alawys says she does it cause she's "scared" but has nothing to be scared of because everyone is nice to her but now the new wife has left him and taken her daughter and he's being charged with child abuse and molestation claiming the 6 year old says he touches her even though i know he wouldnt do that. I found out that the ex daughter in law has agreed to be a character witness in court if it goes that far so now I think they're in it together to make his life miserable. What can be done?

2007-12-06 12:05:12 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I'm mulling over calling someone. Sure, it's just a phone call, but I don't want to make a fool of myself.

I met someone a few weeks ago and I thought there was some chemistry. Apparently the feeling wasn't mutual. After three dates I was told "I'm only getting the friend vibe" with you. This was confusing because we seemed to have a good time. Our third date was a three-hour dinner. We had a small kiss afterward. We talked on the phone for an hour before the "friend" thing. Nothing huge, but not exactly a nothing either.

I've seen two other people in the week since, but my mind keeps wandering back to this woman. She did say, we could go out for a drink or something, but she didn't want there to be expectations.

I'm considering calling her and seeing what happens. Is that a good idea? Or was I basically told "get lost" in a nice way?

2007-12-06 12:03:04 · 8 answers · asked by Panks 2 in Singles & Dating

so i met this one guy a while back and it was totally random and i use to be friends with his older brother..i mean GOOD friends. but we kinda lost touch and then i met his brother who is 3 years younger then me. we hooked up a couple of times and that same nit he asked me out already, but i just said yeah. cause idk i was bored?hah anyways the second time we hooked up he tried to unbuckle my jeans but i told him no. and then after that night he stopped talking to me. but a couple months later he sent me a message asking if i wanted to ****. and i said yeah maybe if i got to know you. but now all he talks about is having sex with me AND three sums, when i'm only 16. so yeah **** no! but i dont know if i should have sex with him and dont give me the sex talk because i ******* know! thanks. sometimes i wonder if i take his virginity maybe i'll always have a special place in his heart. and maybe someday we really will have a relationship. but should i stay with him or tell him to **** off

2007-12-06 11:57:34 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm an 18 year old guy(college freshmen) and I'm gonna be 19 in 2 weeks and I'm still a virgin. I suck at smooth talking to girls, and I think i have "nice guy syndrome' but I'm looking for a cure. I was told that everyone gets laid in college, but I'm not sure if it's true. I don't get invited to parties much, so i'm gonna join a frat next semester. Does it matter which frat one joins? Do they all throw big parties?

2007-12-06 11:55:53 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I was woundering if you can be loved by a compleate stranger and not know it do think it could happen

2007-12-06 11:55:16 · 4 answers · asked by I dont know 1 in Singles & Dating

just curious.....

2007-12-06 11:54:34 · 13 answers · asked by Not your Everyday Chick! 1 in Singles & Dating

Okay, my bro and I are very close and today I found out that he wrote a suicide note while he was at school. I don't know what I would do if he killed himself/died. I would have to kill myself...I just couldn't live without him. But anyway, he wrote a note and the principal called my parents and now it's this huge ordeal. I don't know what to do or what to tell him or anything. I am his older sister, we're both teens. THere are some issues in my family right now, so that is prob contributing to my brother wanting to commit suicide. What can I do? I am so scared that something is going to happen to him....it's making me depressed right now. I really need help, and I am the ONLY one that he will listen to..

2007-12-06 11:52:45 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

this Christmas. And what are your chances of getting it?

2007-12-06 11:51:28 · 21 answers · asked by Left Wing kool aid stops here 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I am in Saint Cloud Minnesota and he is in Willmar Minnesota and I wish that I hadnt moved up here back at the end of April

2007-12-06 11:50:28 · 13 answers · asked by margaretann_larson 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-12-06 11:49:26 · 4 answers · asked by chrisjtatum1992 1 in Family

I don't really care that one of my best friend's is gay, I don't pay any attention to it unless he starts talking about his boyfriend. I was telling a story at dinner tonight that involved him, and said something about him being gay. My step dad looked at me like I was insane. He gave my mom looks, and I got mad. I asked if it was a problem for him and he told me that I shouldn't be hanging out with "people like that." I got up from the table and left, I haven't been out of my room since. I'm extremely angry, as is my mom. My mom got mad because she is a huge "do whatever you want to do, just don't hurt me" kind of person. I'm so frustrated with him, he's a very old fashioned "the dog sleeps on a chain outside and eats leftovers, you can't hang out with gay people, any animal that steps foot in our backyard gets shot" kind of person, and we argue a lot about my dog sleeping in my bed an me being a vegetarian. What can I do to get him to understand I'm not changing my beliefs or friends

2007-12-06 11:49:22 · 6 answers · asked by The Broken Doll 4 in Family

Ok so like I am loosing my virginity soon. Do I have to use a condom if I dont c*m in my girlfriend? please tell me!

2007-12-06 11:48:35 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

. We just Had a BIG FIGHT! I really want a dog. I have had a dog my whole life, but once I got engaged and moved away, I left our family pet home. He is a cat person and we have 2 cats in our shared home. At first he was all for getting a dog etc etc...but now he says he doesn't want one. I told him thats we got 2 cats because he wanted and beg for a kitten. I told him that its' not fair that he calls all the shots in our relationship..We started screaming calling each other selfish. I said leave the house if your going to talk with me with disrespect, and he said ***** Off! and left and slammed the door. Has anyone been in my position where a spouse left over a long argument? What do I do?. His Cellphone is on our floor so I can't reach him.

2007-12-06 11:47:38 · 34 answers · asked by Bride2Be 4 in Marriage & Divorce

What about women really gets you weak at the knees?

(please don't bother writing anything innopropriate)

Do you like them girly, sweet, acting confident, sensitive??

What really gets you liking a girl?

Thanks :)

5* to the best answer

2007-12-06 11:43:08 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating