Family & Relationships - 6 December 2007

i've been in the US 2 years and i come from a very conservative country india, you are allowed to date there but its not as open as over here.

thats what i like about the US the most the fact that you can go out with anyone you choose,anyways always end up dating white girls and girls of african decent always turn me down

but one thing i don't get is sex is seen as ok over here, i go out with a girl a couple of times and they seem pretty keen on sex or at least hint towards it. i was brought up in a way in which i was told to wait for sex.

do you think its ok, to just go out and have fun or one should rather wait

2007-12-06 13:39:13 · 4 answers · asked by Indian Guy @ Yahoo ! 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-06 13:39:07 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

oh well...whatever nevermind

2007-12-06 13:39:03 · 6 answers · asked by gancore_member 1 in Singles & Dating

I am a female and this happened to me.

2007-12-06 13:37:16 · 1 answers · asked by VJ 1 in Singles & Dating

I know that diamonds are the "traditional" engagement stone, and I've heard a lot of people say that they like other things than diamonds. Well, I'm picking my engagement ring. I dont want anything really expensive, we're both in college right now and cant afford it but I like the idea of having something different...So tell me which one you like better!!! Thank yall so much!

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2007-12-06 13:37:02 · 30 answers · asked by cutiepie88 3 in Weddings

Ummm some of my friends have said that at first the guy who was about to marry their mom seemed cool, but after they got married he turned mean. I am a little worried because my mom is engaged and i do like him but i don't NOT want to like him after they get married.....you know what i mean?

2007-12-06 13:35:22 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

hi...
I graduated with a degree in electrical engineering , But due to some family problems and personal ( break up/depression ) I couldn't find a decent job in my field . So now I am saving up enough money to pay my car ( monthly ) and for an apartment Once I find a job in a state close by ( I say " in a state close by because - Entry level Electrical engineering jobs are really hard to find in New york )


So Inorder to save this money for room and for Car . I Been looking for a small; job . Today I got a job at Loews looking after the plants , part time 20 hours / week - 10 dollars..

2007-12-06 13:33:57 · 7 answers · asked by sum142121 1 in Marriage & Divorce

All my life I have been unable to get a girlfriend. When I've gone out to try to meet women, they have only passed me by, ignored me, or looked for someone else to date. Is it possible for a human being to be completely unattractive to anyone on the planet? Physically and emotinally?

2007-12-06 13:32:50 · 16 answers · asked by CurtisE 4 in Singles & Dating

i was outside smoking and saw cig butts with lipstick, a lot of them. i knew he slept with a girl out of state and we were not together , but how am i to deal with these findings......

2007-12-06 13:31:47 · 15 answers · asked by SARA 1 in Marriage & Divorce

it was something called spanky or sparky where u can watch moives on different things anyone know of this site thanks. My friend and i were curious about this technique that supposed to be good in relationship thx

2007-12-06 13:31:42 · 2 answers · asked by seaenna_74 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-12-06 13:29:30 · 16 answers · asked by Got milk? 3 in Singles & Dating

everything i do in life effect everyone i know.
when i encounter someone i love, and i only thing i want is whats best for them but it dont work.
everytime they come back to me they always tell me how they feel use, abused,betraid,and was put down ><
but yet at the same time they dont want me in life .
i help alot of people as much as i can and i do whatever and take it in my own hand without hurting anyone. i do it on my own will as if my life isnt important but its only there to do good. when i have trouble and problems, yet nobody i mean NOBODY cant seem to help me .i feel like the guy up there is playing around with me and likes it.*sigh
if any1 else feel like a pawn you know what i mean.

2007-12-06 13:28:42 · 2 answers · asked by doodisignoff 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

ok so this guy and i liked each other a lot last year. we were both shy and pretty much only talked on aim. we didnt even hvae each others numbers. he wanted to ask me out but i wasnt allowed to have a bf. and i did all the things a girl is not supposed to do like make myself too available, told him too much info, was kinda weird, overly flirty, and chased him too much. so eventually he stopeed liking me. and its been like over 6 mths since we have talked. hes a junior now and im a sophomore. but i still like him So much! i think about him all the time and feel so bad. apparenlty he thinks i am weird. im not really weird...i was only like that to him idk y. but i have changed and matured. so my questiom is...do i still have a chance with him? we dont have any classes together but see each ohter in the hallwyas.how do i get him to talk to me again? he blocked me on aim. should i just say hi one day or should i send him a message on facebook w/ my cell number sayin call m

2007-12-06 13:28:03 · 9 answers · asked by iloveyou! 1 in Singles & Dating

It's kind of strange. In my classroom, there's this really shy kid named Tyler. And every time I look at him, he's watching me. Or laughing at what I say. I mean, every time. I can feel the stares. He doesn't talk very much. But I'd like to. Is there a way that I can without scaring him off? And why does he watch me?

2007-12-06 13:27:36 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

A love interest told me that he would like to "spoon" with me sometime. Is there sex involed with "spooning"? Could someone explain in detail what it means?

2007-12-06 13:27:33 · 9 answers · asked by T-Babe 1 in Singles & Dating

That happened to me last Saturday night... How did that girl think she had a shot? My friends will not let that go and I have been the butt of their jokes since that night... Why would she approach me? This has to have happened to some of you...

2007-12-06 13:24:12 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

why are prenups (especially majority of women) found to be bad? what i dont understand is when questions get posted about guys getting screwed over the large amount of answers are "you should have gotten a prenup" (mostly by women) and when questions ABOUT prenups happen they are slammed down to be bad things. that they "doom" the entire marriage. how is that fair? considering what mostly happens in court how are we guys to protect ourselves? i dont understand.

why are prenups looked upon as things that you do not trust or love your wife, isn't it enough to look at society today and what happens? why not?

2007-12-06 13:23:30 · 16 answers · asked by Hi T 1 in Marriage & Divorce

who's "this" is & if "this" was all his? (talking about me)...& if he could have "it" anytime he wants. I'm not going to get graphic but if you think about it you'll know what I'm referring to.(I'm trying to keep this question as decent as possible) He also asked me if I love this you know what. (talking about himself..if you know what I mean) We are really just friends w/benefits. This is the first time he's ever said things like that & he whispered them real close in my ear. I mean I don't mind it...just curious about it since we're fwb. Are these things that guys usually say when they're in a fwb deal?

2007-12-06 13:23:11 · 2 answers · asked by thisgirl 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I lost my grandmother 2 years ago. and my oldest brother,23, a couple months ago. everything just seems like its falling apart. my dad has polio, my mom isnt the same anymore ever since my brother passed away. My other brother,21, is mentally disabled and i just feel like the unluckiest person right now. i am only 15 and ive been going through so much. i am still recovering from a car accident a couple months ago which was when i lost my oldest brother. i just dont know what to do right now as im going downhill in school and trying to deal with everything else in my life. i need some advice..

Thank you.

2007-12-06 13:22:27 · 20 answers · asked by Nuggy 2 in Family

I met this guy on Tues. I gave him my # without him asking 4 it. I basically left it where he could see it & when he didnt grab it after a bit I took it back and put it in my pocket hoping he just hadnt seen it. I was walking out of the room & he sd: Y'd u take it back? I stopped dead in my tracks & said: Wat? He said: U don't want me to have your #? I sd: I didnt think u wanted it. He sd: I'll call u if u want. I sd: Ok here. Took the # out of my pocket, gave it back to him & he said Thanks. He asked me how old I am & I wouldnt tell him b/c I knew he was younger than me so I made a smart remark & asked him how old he was. He told me & then I said: I'm older than u That's all u need to know. Then as he's leaving he sd: Wat r u doin 2nite? I sd: I have plans 2nite but I'm free Thursday. He said: Ok I'll call you when I get out of work. Which he previously told me is around 7. It's now 915p on Thurs & he hasnt called. Any ideas why? Should I just 4get him? Any advice on how to 4get him?

2007-12-06 13:22:18 · 13 answers · asked by GH4ME 3 in Singles & Dating

I am 21 year old female with a boy of five and a girl of 3. I had my first born at the age of sixteen. I am a great mother..so iv'e been told. I care for my children at home they've never been taken care of by anyone else. I dropped out of highschool so I dont even have a diploma. I am legaly married to my childrens father. I've been with him since I was 15. However he has a drinking problem. He is not violent towards me or the children, but I feeel as though he neglects the children and me. He works as a maintanance man in the apartment complex we live in . He's been there for the past 5 years.it's just that lately he's been coming home late, drinking with his co workers, and has seemed to lose interest in his us. I suffer from severe depression from being at home all the time. I always look forward to him coming home. Lately I just feel that all this staying at home is whats causing me to be depressed and stressed. I have no place to go tho...I have no job. I feel hopeless.

2007-12-06 13:21:55 · 24 answers · asked by ms daisy 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Seriously, if I have sex a couple times in one day, then I want it even more the next day. On the other hand, if I go a few days without, I'm not as frisky.

2007-12-06 13:21:45 · 18 answers · asked by jeff b 4 in Marriage & Divorce

What did you do....

2007-12-06 13:21:38 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My brother has a wife from the philippines and he brought her to live here in the US near our family.Anyway we first met we had that brief staring,love at first sight moment together but we faked our way through the first meeting and i left quickly trying to get my head together.I am thinking its your brothers wife and she is off limits.So then she starts to find reasons to come to my house and spend time with me.She told my brother I am giving her French lessons(which i am).During these lessons of course we talk,and one day she says to me out of nowhere,"I wish i would have met you first so i could have married you,You are so sweet and so perfect for me,I love you so much and I want to spend the rest of my life with you.I thought your brother was but I was wrong,I love you and i cant love anyone else."I feel the same and we started kissing but i stopped it there and told her she had to leave and let me think about this.I feel the same way she does,I love her but shes my brothers wife.

2007-12-06 13:20:30 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-12-06 13:20:11 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

After i lost my virginity to this guy, he seems to call me alot, wanting to hang out, but i feel that he only wants to have sex with me now. Now that i have feelings for him i can't help but get jealous of him flirting with girls all the time at school and not giving a sh** about me. I'm so hurt, lost, depressed... i feel like i'm giving my all for this bastard and i don't know why. Btw, i'm 21, he's 28, and we both go to cosmetology school (he's a barber student) so i see him everyday. I've tried talking to him about how i feel, and he told me he wants to get to know me, but i think he only wants me as a booty call. Basically why am i having such a hard time trying to lose this guy? Is it because i lost it to him? Please... someone help me deal with this situation.... i can't take it anymore!

2007-12-06 13:18:28 · 53 answers · asked by lazygrl5786 1 in Singles & Dating

I just turned 13, but I like this guy who just turned 19. We met through church and I think I'm starting to like him.
He recently broke up with his girlfriend which means he's single now.

I think one of the reasons why I like him is that he treats me a little more different than my friends. They just talk to him and stuff, but I don't think so between me and him. Like one time, when we passed by each other, he messed with my hair as he walked by. Another time, when I was trying to learn this thing, he jumped on me out of nowhere!
OK, that reminded me of my ex when he used to flirt with me. He jumped on me once and my current crush did too. So that just gives me the feeling....
I think he expects me to do stuff back to him physically. Like if he jumps on me, he expects me to jump on him back and all.
And I think I'm like the only one who IMs him. Everyone else flirts with his brother.

I DON'T KNOW! So I'm asking. Please help.
I'm confused and I'm only 13.

2007-12-06 13:16:18 · 5 answers · asked by Tammy 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-06 13:16:04 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

im married but now separated im confused as to what to do i have many needs and im all by myself,if i try to fulfill my needs that would be considered adultry and im also in no rush to get back with my spouse we have many issues to work out. what should i do in the mean time to cure my lonely and get my needs fulfilled ? please dont mention toys i hate that

2007-12-06 13:13:38 · 13 answers · asked by cocoa 4 3 in Marriage & Divorce

cheat on ur spouse (bf,gf...) and live with yourself knowing what you did without telling them?

2007-12-06 13:12:57 · 6 answers · asked by lamb 1 in Singles & Dating