All my life I have been unable to get a girlfriend. When I've gone out to try to meet women, they have only passed me by, ignored me, or looked for someone else to date. Is it possible for a human being to be completely unattractive to anyone on the planet? Physically and emotinally?
2007-12-06 13:32:50 · 16 answers · asked by CurtisE 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Of course not, bra. Don't give up hope just yet. God has saved someone out there for you. He just wants you to be a little patient right now.
2007-12-06 13:36:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Finding a partner depends as much on your attitude as your looks and personality. If you believe you are going to find someone and behave that way, you have a much better chance than if you project a defeated, I will never find anyone, nobody wants me attitude. That leads to desperation and neediness. Neither are attractive qualities. Start believing in yourself, make some positive changes, try a few new hobbies, go to different places, check out online dating or singles groups. The first place to start is a book store, buy a book on positive self-talk, attracting a mate, or something of that type...who knows you may meet someone in the romance aisle who is also looking.
2007-12-06 21:43:07 · answer #2 · answered by ScSpec 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When God created you, He also created someone for you. When will you meet your someone? That will depend on your destiny. It's just a matter of sooner or later only. All of us are attractive in our unique way which only the correct person can appreciate it. Don't give up, keep yourself occupied with other things like a hobby, do voluntary work or further studies. As for physical appearance like "handsome", "pretty", "fat" or "skinny", etc, I believe you can do something about it. Anyway, if your someone appear, I think she/he wouldn't mind this too much. Good luck and hope you can find your someone soon.
2007-12-06 21:51:50 · answer #3 · answered by JJ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope, this is not possible. There is someone (or several partners) out there for you. How do you feel about yourself in general? When we don't think much of ourselves it shows and warns potential mates off. Have you got good friends. If you have mates you can definitely get a love partner.
Validate yourself as hot etc... and really believe it. Give yourself a break and do things you enjyoy. You'll loosen up and end up letting people in instead of putting up walls and keeping them out. best luck
2007-12-06 21:39:27 · answer #4 · answered by Rinkidink 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. But you can come off as unattractive if you're down on yourself.
There's someone out there for you. Just know that a girl would be lucky to have you.
Try different approaches to meeting girls. Try joining a club, or a church group (if you're religious). If you're out of school, sign up to take a fun, non-credit class. (You can find cool classes to take at most colleges, or at local community colleges.) After I was out of college, and before I met my husband, I used to sign up for fun classes at a local college. (Things like art or craft classes, or computer courses, things like that.) That's always a cool thing to do, because not only does it expand your mind, but it's impressive to intelligent girls that a guy WANTS to expand his mind.
2007-12-06 21:45:04 · answer #5 · answered by Jess H 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO ,you probably just need some training...do you look down when you walk..do you stand in the corner of room ,do you mumble when you talk,if any of this is true you need to work on your self confidence...start paying attention to you body language..look into peoples eyes when you talk..try and get involved in conversation ...sometimes we hide becouse we do not want the attention becouse of lack of self asteem ....start to love you and others will follow..good luck
2007-12-06 21:40:17 · answer #6 · answered by hieatthouse 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No...but you may have an off-putting attitude. Be confident--hold your head high, look people in the eye, and smile at them. Happy people are very attractive.
2007-12-06 21:36:45 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no it is not posssilble i was a 21 year old man who had never been kissed my life turned around in an instant, i have a friend who is 40 plus in almost same boat i will tell you same as i tell him nobody is that ugly
2007-12-06 21:36:40 · answer #8 · answered by bilbobagsend 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. =] There is someone for everyone, thin, fat, small, tall, funny, serious, EVERYONE! You just havent met her. But when you know, youll know because shell know and you will know she knows. So, youll know. And when you find her, itll be one of the happiest days of your life to know someone out there is perfectly perfect in every way for you. =]
2007-12-06 21:42:47 · answer #9 · answered by Emmaa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. If that were the case then there would not be a lot of people in prison getting married.
2007-12-06 21:37:03 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋