heartbroekn..PLEASE help?

Question

ok so this guy and i liked each other a lot last year. we were both shy and pretty much only talked on aim. we didnt even hvae each others numbers. he wanted to ask me out but i wasnt allowed to have a bf. and i did all the things a girl is not supposed to do like make myself too available, told him too much info, was kinda weird, overly flirty, and chased him too much. so eventually he stopeed liking me. and its been like over 6 mths since we have talked. hes a junior now and im a sophomore. but i still like him So much! i think about him all the time and feel so bad. apparenlty he thinks i am weird. im not really weird...i was only like that to him idk y. but i have changed and matured. so my questiom is...do i still have a chance with him? we dont have any classes together but see each ohter in the hallwyas.how do i get him to talk to me again? he blocked me on aim. should i just say hi one day or should i send him a message on facebook w/ my cell number sayin call m

also i told him i wasnt allowed to hvae a bf...but i could have an in-school relationship

the reaon he bloacked me is cuz me and my friends used to prank im him all the time but now i realize how dumb and immature that was. i have matured a lot since then

Answer 1

Yup, been there done that. I think you've ruined it pretty good with this one, you have to move on. You have to get interested in someone else, then you'll really feel that life goes on. As a side note, if you do start something with someone new, that's also the best way to get the old guy interested in you again, if that's what you still want at that point.

Answer 2

It's obvious that this guy does not want to talk to you. I mean he blocked you on aim. However, if you must talk to him, do it the old fashioned way and write him a letter and tell him that you've matured and so forth, just don't go crazy and come off as obsessive, then he'll never want to see you again. Just be honest with him and if all goes well, who knows? Well, good luck!

Answer 3

wow you poor thing.. well if you really like this guy then i think the best bet is to slowly ease back into it dont make him go straight into a relationship.. be friends hang out... then see what happens from there.. just stay positive and be yourself then if it doesnt work out with him.. you'll probably have won another guy along the way =)

Answer 4

aww sweetheart this bring me memories
boy cause so much pain in my heart i dont even think i can fall in love again (its tru i havent liked anyone since i broke up with my ex we were together for 5 years and one day 'its over')
he obviously doesn't want ur attention anymore so leave him be
u'll find another guy to like
but if u really like this boy try talking to him

good luck

Answer 5

well, call him up and ask him whats the matter! He should have not blocked you on aim. So ask him whats going on. Thats the only way somethings going to work out.

Answer 6

I think you should get some expert suggestions from Agelessmatch.com. A place for you to meet more friends and communicate with your dating problems.

Answer 7

I think until you are allowed to have a BF stop disobeying your parents. One other thing when you with a guy do not be clingy or needy we hate that.

Answer 8

what you have to do is first feel GOOD about yourself.
well, go out and see more guys, look at them, flirt, but you dont have to go too far... unless you WANT : D see? that's the fun part about it.. we can do what PLEASES US inside, in the soul.

see more guys, go around, and when you see him again.. you'll notice the change!! ; )

Answer 9

MOVE ON!! And then GROW UP.