I just turned 13, but I like this guy who just turned 19. We met through church and I think I'm starting to like him.
He recently broke up with his girlfriend which means he's single now.
I think one of the reasons why I like him is that he treats me a little more different than my friends. They just talk to him and stuff, but I don't think so between me and him. Like one time, when we passed by each other, he messed with my hair as he walked by. Another time, when I was trying to learn this thing, he jumped on me out of nowhere!
OK, that reminded me of my ex when he used to flirt with me. He jumped on me once and my current crush did too. So that just gives me the feeling....
I think he expects me to do stuff back to him physically. Like if he jumps on me, he expects me to jump on him back and all.
And I think I'm like the only one who IMs him. Everyone else flirts with his brother.
I DON'T KNOW! So I'm asking. Please help.
I'm confused and I'm only 13.
2007-12-06 13:16:18 · 5 answers · asked by Tammy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I just turned 13, but I like this guy who just turned 19. We met through church and I think I'm starting to like him.
He recently broke up with his girlfriend which means he's single now. think one of the reasons why I like him is that he treats me a little more different than my friends. They just talk to him and stuff, but I don't think so between me and him. Like one time, when we passed by each other, he messed with my hair as he walked by. Another time, when I was trying to learn this thing, he jumped on me out of nowhere!
OK, that reminded me of my ex when he used to flirt with me. He jumped on me once and my current crush did too. So that just gives me the feeling. I think he expects me to do stuff back to him physically. Like if he jumps on me, he expects me to jump on him back and all. And I think I'm like the only one who IMs him. Everyone else flirts with his brother.
But I know he's a good guy cause he knows my cousin & he says my crush is a really nice! HELP
2007-12-06 15:19:30 · update #1
He's not like other guys. If you are Asian, you'd understand. He's a fob! For non-Asians, fobs are really nice. Well, in my perspective.
And when you leave a comment, please don't say "NONONO!!!" because I take it offensively. Put it in a nice way if you have to.
But I really like him! T______T
2007-12-06 15:33:21 · update #2
no no no. ur only 13! one three! hes an adult ur a child
2007-12-06 13:21:03 · answer #1 · answered by biggs 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sorry to tell you this, but you are too young to be involved with a 19 year old. You are in junior high, he is college age. Now if you were 20 and he were 26, the situation would be different.
He is wrong to be leading you on, if that is what he is doing. He may not realize that you think he is flirting with you. He may think he is treating you like a little sister, so don't act as if you want to be his girlfriend.
Take things easy and be careful around boys who are much older than you are, they may take advantage of your youth and confusion. That could be said for boys your own age.
I hope this helps you, good luck!
2007-12-06 13:28:39 · answer #2 · answered by terry 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your to young to look at boys that age grow-up then look at a guys that age. Your parents could charge him with statutory rape if he was to even touch you. Look at guys around your own age or not at all. You have along time to find Mr. Right and your confused because your hormones are all out of wack with puberty. Trust me myself being a young guy at one time all we want is sex and lots of it and it doesn't really change. Just put your head into your education so one day you could be the person who saves millions of lives by finding the cure for cancer or AIDS. Just a thought you do not get a 2nd chance at jr. high school or high school so if you want a great life stay in school and stay away for the older guys because I will tell you that will only bring heartbreak and well unexpected parenthood.
2007-12-06 13:26:29 · answer #3 · answered by Livinrawguy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are only 13 and he is 19 he could get into a lot of trouble over you. No matter how innocent you both may be, you are really jailbait.
2007-12-06 13:25:08 · answer #4 · answered by hermanthemagnificent 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would just keep u 2 as friends for now and build ur relationship and both flirt and all and then when u get older ask him out.
2007-12-06 13:20:33 · answer #5 · answered by levi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋