Family & Relationships - 6 December 2007

I am 16And I Have Never Had It Before And I Really Want To Know

2007-12-06 13:12:28 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

So.
when i first got with him he was an asshole.controlling self centered prick with nothing better to do than pick out what was wrong with me.sex was bad.always fighting and we didnt see eye to eye on nothing....ever.a lot of hurt happened and noooooooooooooooowwww hes a little better.
we still dont agree on stuff like how to raise our kids.money is all his...i stay home with the kids.and im pretty much unhappy.but he works his *** off and he is a good dad.hes not so mean now.....and we dont fight anymore because i just dont give a **** and i dont care to talk to him.sex still sucks( i dont want him to ever touch me) and he seems soooo happy just to have me here.and i cant stand him.so what now?
it feels like i have no more hope or want for our future.he could leave tomorrow and i would be happy!
but i feel bad because he has changed a lot and i know he loves me and our kids.
wait....i have a question dont I?
well now i cant think of one......

2007-12-06 13:12:10 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-12-06 13:12:01 · 24 answers · asked by Creamer 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-12-06 13:10:53 · 4 answers · asked by Abby V 2 in Singles & Dating

I'll be 18 in Febuary and i'm thinking about moving in with my boyfriend of one year in July or august during my frshman year of college. i love my boyfriend with all my heart and get along with him perfectly, he's like my best friend. now i had always planned on dorming my first year in college but i want to be a dental hygienist and that course can only be taken at community colleges, which just happen to not have dorms. and as an uprising new young adult, i naturally do not want to live at home with my parents. so my choices are to either live with my boyfriend and go to school by him or suck it up,stay with my parents, go to the comm. college of this town, and live an hour away from my man. my bf is 21, he has a full scholarship to a university on grades (he's a genius), he's lived on his own for a while (so he's good at the whole budgeting thing and paying bills on time, which im afraid i might not be), my parents love and trust him and i love and trust him. what should i do

2007-12-06 13:09:22 · 4 answers · asked by jenny 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

i save save but some stuff came up and now im broke,and that is not cool but i dont think im alone am i?

2007-12-06 13:09:10 · 17 answers · asked by stevenzepke 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

( when the time is right of course )

2007-12-06 13:07:53 · 9 answers · asked by ♡ 4 in Singles & Dating

i see this girl 2 sometimes once a month if im tied up at work.she lives 3 hours away. but we talk on the phone everyday for hours. its been like this for 7 month that we been talkin and really only seen her about 15 times in these 7months. anyways, she always calls me as soon as she woke up maybe a lil later wen she had things to do. we talked for a few min. then hang up. then later around 5 she would call again, hang up around 7 or 8 then talk again around 10 and stay talkin till like 2 or 3am. that was the rutine and its been till recently. for about a week she doesnt call me in the mornings no more. usually i call her and wen i do we talk for a bit and she will put me off and say she will call back and usually doesnt call till like after 12am. im almost positive she not on the phone with anyone else cus i call her out of no where and shes not on it. and no she doesnt work so she cant be tired or tied up. its been a week already but i just dont know whats wrong or if i should wait

2007-12-06 13:02:30 · 8 answers · asked by JV 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-06 13:01:58 · 32 answers · asked by lynx13 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-06 12:59:40 · 1 answers · asked by music4life 1 in Singles & Dating

He always calls me and says are you bussy and then he starts to talk to me all sweet and say's he made a mistake and when I ask he if he still cares about me he says that Im better off without him. Everyone tell's me that he is with someone else and it's only been four months since we seperated. My son even said he over heard him tell her I love you. How can you stop loving someone that has been married for 11 yrs.

2007-12-06 12:58:18 · 22 answers · asked by shygirl 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My feelings for her cannot be stopped, i don't know how to tell her that i love her and that i need her, i really tried to let her feel that she's important to me, but it seems she doesn't care at all, every time I'm going to talk about some intimate topics, i feel that she's keeping a distance from me. Am i going to take the risk in our friendship and tell her now? please Help.....

2007-12-06 12:57:39 · 1 answers · asked by holyone11 2 in Singles & Dating

I think I might want to ask my friend that's a guy out, but I don't know how or when to do it. We're both 13. Give me some advice.

2007-12-06 12:56:09 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ex. Having your friend "stalk" ure crush for you

U know like things like that.

2007-12-06 12:50:30 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My younger sister is coming home from college soon to stay with me, my husband,and our kids durning her Christmas vaction.She also stayed with us for almost 4 monthes this summer.The problem is is that she is a pot smoker. Personally I dont care whether she does it at school.Thats her business.I just dont want it in my house.We had problems with this during the summer.She was constantly smoking it in our garage 24/7.It got out of hand so me and my husband talked to her and said basically if you want to smoke it not in our house where there are kids. So she stopped smoking it here but was still constantly stoned.She's my sister so it makes it harder to just be like,"go your outta here."She said she wont bring it into our house this break but I dunno if I can trust her. (I really wont know short of searching her bags.She could have just not do it here in my house. My kids our get into everythin I just am scared they get into it. (toddler) Thinking of just telling he she cant stay here??

2007-12-06 12:48:52 · 5 answers · asked by Luv_My_Baby 4 in Family

He is so controlling what I do I'm not aloud to get a job or he thinks I'm with another guy. He has abused me physical and now it is really bad verbally in front of the kids. I'm scared and don't know what to do. Mostly the holidays are coming up and he refused to give me money.. very confused what to do

2007-12-06 12:47:30 · 22 answers · asked by becky p 1 in Marriage & Divorce

my boyf wants me to wear dresses, which i dont do cos i just feel weird and think i look stupid in them. I wish he understood this, and it makes me feel like he wants me to be different.
should i do this for him on certain occasions or just tell him to accept me the way i am?

2007-12-06 12:47:19 · 50 answers · asked by spdy 5 in Singles & Dating

ok, im super shy, and im in 8th grade. and this year i made a friend named kate, and yesterday she told me this, "Lexi, wen i first met u i thot u were a stuck up brat, because u were so shy, u kno" and i didnt like that she thought this. it made me feel bad. So, my question is, When i meet new people or friends, how can i act friendly and fun and get them to like me right away? i dont want people to think i am stuck up or anything.

Plz dont say Be yourself, cuz being myself is SHY and i dont like that. Plz tell me some things that wud help. thanx.

2007-12-06 12:46:49 · 1 answers · asked by _♥Lexi♥_ 1 in Friends

Oceans apart.never met.
Is it possible?

2007-12-06 12:44:21 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok.. heres the story..

he was always bugging me who I liked. and i told him it was him.
he said he already knew that. so i asked him "why'd you keep asking me then?" he said "i dont know i was bored!" so now that he knows he's always hugging me and stuff in front of his girlfriend. also... one day i walked passed him in the halls and his arm was around his girlfriend and when i walked passed him he took his arm off of her.. and then walked towards me and put hsi arm around me, right in front of her he just took his arm off of her and walked away without saying anything... then he said "you were getting hot with me in front of the teacher!!" cause i hugged him in front of the teacher and we both knew we would get in trouble cause theres a "NO PHYSICAL CONTACT IN SCHOOL" at my school... anyways so.. you think he likes me even though he has a girlfriend?

2007-12-06 12:41:58 · 4 answers · asked by Amber Lynn <3 3 in Singles & Dating

Assume that he was just looking, no touching, and certainly no hanky-panky. Would you dump him?

2007-12-06 12:41:13 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

She means the world to me, i just want to let her know that!

2007-12-06 12:37:40 · 3 answers · asked by WESLEY C 1 in Singles & Dating

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2007-12-06 12:37:31 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

in her dream i went out with her friend and i walked her to the door and kissed her. girl i like said that her friend was ugly. she also tell me that she is going to get me a picture of her for my bday so i can put it by the bed. i think this girl likes me. why did she tell me this? does she like me

2007-12-06 12:37:18 · 22 answers · asked by Showstopper 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-06 12:37:01 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

first of all my boy is 18 yrs old, and i have always put the facts of life and the safty of them first before anything.
well, first of all this girl is a minor, and they were girlfriend and boyfriend.
well, before they broke up.she told my son that she has aids.
i'm so scared i don't know what to do.
i'm a singal mom and i tried to teach him the right way, and now i know i have to take him in for a test. he is so confused and wants to die now. what should i do.
PLEASE HELP US!!!!!

2007-12-06 12:35:36 · 6 answers · asked by tabatha 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

I really need some help figuring out what's going on. I'm married, and about 2 months ago I met this guy at my work, who is a customer and he seems to like me and of coarse I like him too.After I get off, I just cant stop thinking about him. When I'm at work, I'm waiting for him to come in - it's crazy.I know he was married, and I guess not any more. I love my husband but I have strange feelings towards this guy.For example, today I asked a co worker if she's seen him (cuz she's the one that told me that one can tell we like each other) and like 5 secs later he comes in. She said it was funny how I sensed him.Anywayz, I love my husband and I would never want to hurt him, but I also want to be happy myself, and right now I'm very confused. Has anyone been in this situation? What would you do?

2007-12-06 12:35:14 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

so my mom grounded me from going to one side of my town. how stupid is that? its where all my friends live including my best friend. but its also where everyone drinks and stuff. but like she cant ground me from half the town? shes basically saying i cant hang out with half my friends which is so unfair and she grounded me because i wouldnt tell her what i was doing one night, because i didnt want to get my friends in trouble. i had to go help my friends cause they needed me. but i cant tell my mom. but anyways she was liek you're going to be ruining our relationship for people you wont even know in a couple of years? and i was like yes. and now shes all nice to me all the time and trying to get me to spend time with her. i just dont get it. help please with all these stupid problems

2007-12-06 12:35:02 · 43 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I have met these two guys when i first started working at my job 3 months a go. Until just recently, about a month ago, we have been joking a lot with each other. With christmas comming up i can't think of anything to get them. They both have a girlfriends so it's not that type of a relationship. Any advice on what would be best to get them???

Oh one is my age, which is 19 and the other is 26.

2007-12-06 12:34:08 · 12 answers · asked by aquarius7air 3 in Friends

2007-12-06 12:31:17 · 22 answers · asked by a91mtl 3 in Marriage & Divorce