So.
when i first got with him he was an asshole.controlling self centered prick with nothing better to do than pick out what was wrong with me.sex was bad.always fighting and we didnt see eye to eye on nothing....ever.a lot of hurt happened and noooooooooooooooowwww hes a little better.
we still dont agree on stuff like how to raise our kids.money is all his...i stay home with the kids.and im pretty much unhappy.but he works his *** off and he is a good dad.hes not so mean now.....and we dont fight anymore because i just dont give a **** and i dont care to talk to him.sex still sucks( i dont want him to ever touch me) and he seems soooo happy just to have me here.and i cant stand him.so what now?
it feels like i have no more hope or want for our future.he could leave tomorrow and i would be happy!
but i feel bad because he has changed a lot and i know he loves me and our kids.
wait....i have a question dont I?
well now i cant think of one......
2007-12-06 13:12:10 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yep, a pretty purposeless relationship, he didn't change for you ether, he changed because he needed to change, just like you. You've both sort of adapted to each other, so your in a catch-22, you love this guy, but you don't like him, wow you suck at picking man out for yourself, no offense, but really. That aside, your forced by the purpose that is your kids to suck it up and just comform to this, you didn't hope for much in the beganing so look what you ended up with! NOTHING TO HOPE FOR! It happens alot, don't feel alone, eventually you'll ether have an affair, or find someone else you can relate to better and leave him. Its pretty natural and makes for great tv drama! But for a horrible life, sorry that you did this to yourself....... you could fight the good fight if you knew the truth of what to fight for, but that alas is a tad beyond this situation, unless you can let go of a few things, but that.... i doubt..... lets just say, if you guys could fight to understand each other and your place in this world you'd have a chance, but thats just a bit to deep isn't it?
2007-12-07 05:09:38 · answer #1 · answered by Brutal Honesty 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋