My son's ex who is the mother of his biological child has abuse charges against him and a restraining order and all kinds of malarkey that caused him to lose rights to his biological daughter. He then married another girl who has a 6 year old daughter. He put the 6 year old step daughter in a corner and had her stand there because she kept wetting herself and he forgot her and hse was there 45 minutes. THe girl is mildly retarded I think because she pees herself all the time and alawys says she does it cause she's "scared" but has nothing to be scared of because everyone is nice to her but now the new wife has left him and taken her daughter and he's being charged with child abuse and molestation claiming the 6 year old says he touches her even though i know he wouldnt do that. I found out that the ex daughter in law has agreed to be a character witness in court if it goes that far so now I think they're in it together to make his life miserable. What can be done?
2007-12-06 12:05:12 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
I should also add that the two women are old high school classmates but they claim they were never friends just "acquaintances." The original charges from the ex wife are not sex crime related. She filed domestic battery against him but really they were hurting each other. She hit him, too. But because of her bruises being worse then he got charged.
2007-12-06 12:06:18 · update #1
I'm sorry but I think you need to stop looking at your son like he is a saint & see that he has serious flaws....and it is apparent to these two ladies & probably everyone else around him but you.
2007-12-06 12:14:17 · answer #1 · answered by missdragontat 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
First of all you don't punish a child for wetting their pants.. you try to encourage them to go to the bathroom often, and let them know it was an accident.
A child who wets his or her pants all of the time could have a psychological or physical problem..... and if your daughter in law has left it unchecked, SHE'S NEGLECTING her own kid.... your son never should have punished her, either, but maybe he was doing what he saw his wife do, never giving it a second thought.
Your son has married someone who has no respect for him... if he didn't take the time to see what she was like before they got married, it's his own fault he is in this situation.
Your son needs to find a good family law attorney, and i wish him all the best.
2007-12-06 12:54:26 · answer #2 · answered by letterstoheather 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
dude, that sounds like a mess. talk to the lawyers. and just because you know/think he wouldn't do that doesn't mean he didn't... nor does it mean that just because a child would say something like that doesn't mean a child isn't lying or is being pressured to. you know, you really have to ask why two people who shouldn't be in cahoots would be participating with each other in a criminal case. sounds like you are in a bit of denialll... he forgot about her? you can't blame it on your own observations that she's "mildly retarded." HE FORGOT ABOUT HER. how is letting her stand in a corner going to help her stop wetting herself?? and i have to be honest, when you said that, i thought to myself, "child molestation." not that that means anything but sorry lady, children aren't scared of just "nothing" but often when they are scared and constantly wet themselves, they are manifesting a deep anxiety... and lady, you are in denial. i can tell by your "she has nothing to be scared of" how the heck would you know that when you are not the child?? "because everyone is nice to her?" what makes you think you can trust your observations????
you have to have more than your suspicions if you're planning to prove a conspiracy. what would be their motive?
2007-12-06 12:12:39 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
did u stop to think that if everyone is saying your son does bad things, that he might actually be doing them.
2007-12-08 17:33:23 · answer #4 · answered by L.A. J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋