I'm an 18 year old guy(college freshmen) and I'm gonna be 19 in 2 weeks and I'm still a virgin. I suck at smooth talking to girls, and I think i have "nice guy syndrome' but I'm looking for a cure. I was told that everyone gets laid in college, but I'm not sure if it's true. I don't get invited to parties much, so i'm gonna join a frat next semester. Does it matter which frat one joins? Do they all throw big parties?
2007-12-06 11:55:53 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
grow up
2007-12-06 11:58:00 · answer #1 · answered by dd 4 · 6⤊ 1⤋
If all you are concerned with is getting laid, and not actually developing a relationship with someone you can care for, then join a frat, there should be plenty of drunk parties where the type of girls you want will be a dime a dozen.
2007-12-06 12:00:13 · answer #2 · answered by ScSpec 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Well, why don't you do the responsible thing and save your first time for that special girl and marriage...where it will REALLY mean something.
Aside from what you may think, it's not "cool". From who I know, the guys are more respected and treasured if they haven't. It means that they are willing to respect the girl in turn and not force her to do that stuff.
I'd prefer not to have a guy who'd slept around...And, no, everyone does NOT get laid in college. Those who do, or want guys who do that a lot, are generally not people who you might wish to call 'friend.'
Real relationships may take more time, but they are better any day.
2007-12-06 12:06:07 · answer #3 · answered by ~♥ Easily Amused Dijinn ♥~ 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I wouldn't recommend it just because your reason for sex so idiotic. you want to get laid because you feel everyone is getting laid around you. your just 19. ur a child. think about it for a moment. Do you want an STD, Do want to to be a father at your age? Do you want some stalker chick? DO you want to lose 50-60% of your income just because of 1 night of fun? Do you want to risk all that? If you do sure join a frat or get a professional that does that. Do you want to be a girl biggest regret? Every time she thinks of you she has wants to puke? and even if your not the biggest regret of her life then your going to be just one of those guys that no one really remebers? If your willing to sell yourself that short then sure.
2007-12-06 12:08:32 · answer #4 · answered by bunnygrl43 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I actually have the same problem. But I'm a girl.
I think it's just my standards are too high. I don't wanna give it away to just anyone. But then again, I don't really care if it's "the perfect someone."
I would just say wait until you find someone you can trust.
If you lose it at a party, it could be with any ol' chick with a hidden case of chlamydia. Doesn't that sound like a fun disease?
2007-12-06 12:07:52 · answer #5 · answered by Emma 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
ok, dont go looking for a girl just to get laid hon. it hurts people and it could label you a player. look instead for a girl you actually like to date and if you find a really amazing girlfriend who loves you and you love her it might happen. but dont force it.
2007-12-06 12:00:29 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
u freak get over yourself and get a life u dont need to be thinking about that gosh wait til u get married dont destroy ur life or some poor girls life either
2007-12-06 12:04:15 · answer #7 · answered by bananasinpyjamasrock 2 · 4⤊ 2⤋
party hard and get laid
2007-12-06 11:58:58 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋
Hahaha.. It might be cause your ugly???
Maybe you need to hit the gym?
2007-12-06 12:02:03 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
agree with dd
2007-12-06 11:59:09 · answer #10 · answered by Elena_Jolie 1 · 3⤊ 0⤋