Okay, my bro and I are very close and today I found out that he wrote a suicide note while he was at school. I don't know what I would do if he killed himself/died. I would have to kill myself...I just couldn't live without him. But anyway, he wrote a note and the principal called my parents and now it's this huge ordeal. I don't know what to do or what to tell him or anything. I am his older sister, we're both teens. THere are some issues in my family right now, so that is prob contributing to my brother wanting to commit suicide. What can I do? I am so scared that something is going to happen to him....it's making me depressed right now. I really need help, and I am the ONLY one that he will listen to..
2007-12-06 11:52:45 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Wow...thats horrible. I never had an incident quite like this so i dont know excactly what to tell you. But just talk to him, and tell him how much you love him, and how hard it would be for you to live without him. That's what me and my sister tell my cousin, " If you die, then what am i supposed to do?" Just talk to him and give him some support and tell him that everything will be okay, we'll get through it. But if all else fails...get a theripist, even though he will probably hate it.
Im so sorry about this, and i hope everything gets better. And if you ever need someone to talk to email me. Im always here for people in need.
2007-12-06 12:05:15 · answer #1 · answered by Star Seeker 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Wow...thats terrible. I by no skill had an incident extremely like this so i dont understand excactly what to tell you. yet merely seek advice from him, and tell him how plenty you like him, and how stressful it would be which you would be able to stay without him. that's what me and my sister tell my cousin, " in case you die, then what am i meant to do?" merely seek advice from him and supply him some help and tell him that each little thing would be ok, we are going to get by it. yet while all else fails...get a theripist, even nevertheless he will probable hate it. Im so sorry approximately this, and that i'm hoping each little thing gets greater effectual. And in case you ever want somebody to talk to e mail me. Im continuously right here for human beings in want.
2016-10-10 10:31:14 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi hon.. i have listed a website below which has helped many thousands of people who are in a desparate situation. It was written by a normal person who understands. There are a lot of resources for help and information on the website, too.
Your brother needs psychological help... his problems should not be punished or ignored... but the do need to be addressed and people need to let him know they are THERE FOR HIM and will do whatever they can to help him get through this.
Please show your parents the website too?
hugs
2007-12-06 12:47:31 · answer #3 · answered by letterstoheather 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him. Tell him you love him. Tell him everybody has hard from time to time and he can make it through.
I went through a suicidal phase as a teen. Everyday was horrible. I felt so alone and unwanted. Life just sucked. What kept me from killing myself was the love I had for my dog and knowing that my dog needed me. She was old and I was the only one who took care of her.
Now, what you need to do is make him feel loved and wanted and needed even. The way I see things we all need each other.
Good luck.
2007-12-06 12:55:41 · answer #4 · answered by Porch 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
ok now what you should do is talk to him alone and tell him what bugging him what is the reason to write that letter and tell him that there are better ways to handel a situation...make him laugh and show him how life is a precious thing that God gave us because he thinks we could be responsible and mature about it....give him a good and fun time show him how you really care for him and love him talk about the futer tell him what are his career plans you know but most of all tell him you will be there when he needs it because you truly have his back and you love him with all your heart....guide him to a good path show him the good in life and tell him to ignore all the things that are problems to him.....but most of all tell him you love and care for him....tell him he is not alone because you are by his side
2007-12-06 12:27:18 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
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Make the subject:My brother wrote a suicide note today!!
2007-12-06 11:57:00 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋
calm down. tell him its just not the answer. tell him its not the only option. tell him people like u love him and couldn't bear to live without him. tell him u guys will get through it together!
2007-12-06 11:57:19 · answer #7 · answered by Erin! 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
talk to him try to get him to talk and say how they feel
2007-12-06 11:56:53 · answer #8 · answered by pain&pleasure 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋