I have a sexy conundrum... In my World Religions class, there's a cute female that sits in the seat directly in front of me. Anyway, just about every time, for the last month or so, I catch a glimpse of the top of her thong, just over her jeans or skirt or whatever - you can't miss it. Now, I'm not sure if she's doing this on purpose or what, since I know that the first thing most ladies check, after they sit down, is if their jeans/skirt is pulled up in the back. This chick just sits down, kinda wiggles around in her chair a little, and then proceeds to do that leaning forward-type sit, for the entire period. We've talked plenty (read: flirted), but I haven't tried getting her number or anything because I can see that she's rockin an engagement ring.
Is there some way I can figure this out without being obvious?
2007-12-06 10:37:18 · 16 answers · asked by Brandon's been a dirty Hore 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Choc - Ooooh, you're goooood.
2007-12-06 13:42:17 · update #1
She is either oblivious to the "showing" or it is deliberate. If it is deliberate, and she is engaged, she might be doing it for attention. Some girls thrive on being the untouchable tease....
Then again, it could be a complete accident.
I would leave the subject alone if I were you and just enjoy the view while you can - look but don't touch....... If you mention it and she is an attention tease, than you could be inviting a temptation that is best left alone........
However, if it is really itching at you to scratch it, then I would go with the good guy approach.... Just let her know gently and politely that her thong often shows.. Then make a statement like, "I'm not trying to be a perv, I just know that if my girl was exposed I would hope a good guy would let her know, so she could prevent the bad guys from getting any bad ideas."
Or you could just reach down one day and give the T and nice tug. ;D
Update:
Why thank you! But please, if you can't control your urge to "tug the T", please do us all a big favor . . . Have someone video it seceretly, then post the aftermath on YouTube! I know I am not the only one who wants to see it! *wink*
Oh and Brooke, hunny . . . . Not all girls " . . .that even wear panties up their butt want everyone to see. That's the whole point of wearing them." I wear them . . . All the time . . . My reasons are because I don't like granny panty lines on my rear! Also, there is some fun in knowing that you have naughty panties on that no one can see - unless you are purposely or accidentally flashing them . . . You should try wearing some naughty (but concealed) panties! It is fun and empowering, to say the least. ;D
2007-12-06 13:09:45 · answer #1 · answered by Chocoholic 4 · 4⤊ 1⤋
Well, it ain't a wedding ring and that's a great indicator...... so I say go for it. There's a good chance this lady is ready to .. you know... have one for the road...
Now whatever you do .. don't mention the thong... and invite her around to your place for some homework ~ a bit of deep research. Use some subtle double messages... with lots of body language.
Or alternatively .... you could just take a pair of scissors.. and snip that thong when she least expects it... exclaiming "woops, I really am a naughty man".
2007-12-06 23:14:39 · answer #2 · answered by Icy Gazpacho 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Well, as a thong wearer (is that a word?) I'd say it was an accident. I agree with the first response that she is probably tired of pulling up her pants. Besides that, if there is a ring on the finger...she is off limits no matter what! I'd say if she is super cute...enjoy the view, but keep your hands to yourself.
2007-12-06 10:46:42 · answer #3 · answered by ldlivengood 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i find it kinda ironic that this is in a religion class, lol. and are you sure it's an engagement ring? it does sound like she is trying to do this for attention. i could understand if it was once or twice, but if it's all the time then she's probably one of those girls who thinks it's sexy to have their underwear hangin out instead of what it really is: classless. just mention it to her. be like, "hey um i think you need to pull your pants up a lil." if she's doin it for you she'll know you noticed, and you will spare her from continuing to look like a hobag if it's been by accident all along.
2007-12-08 13:12:25 · answer #4 · answered by Sasha ♥ 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I catch that happening all the time on accident. It's especially embarrassing when I'm at work, and one of the younger guys comes in my office to show me something (still training). By the time I think about checking my back they've come and gone... and probably got a good peek at it.
You... um... might want to get one of the girls in the class to point it out to her. She might not know she's doing it at all.
2007-12-06 10:45:22 · answer #5 · answered by ? 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
instead of being the "smooth guy" like MIKE Z over there, just realize she got an engagement ring on...she probably thinks ur hott and just wants the attention...she dont want u, just the attention....but try ignoring her, if she really diggs u, it will bother her and she will pursue u, and if she doesnt then theres ur answer...she was not showing her thongs to u
2007-12-06 10:47:51 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ahem (in my best austere teacher's tone) You should be paying more attention to class rather than daydreaming about girls in thongs. I happen to know that Joe F sits right in front of you.
2007-12-06 22:26:49 · answer #7 · answered by Starjumper the R&S Cow 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just ask her if she realizes that her thong is showing. Can't think of a better way to find ouit.
2007-12-06 10:42:12 · answer #8 · answered by Mike Z 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, even engaged women like to know they've still "got it".
Just enjoy the view!
2007-12-06 11:53:55 · answer #9 · answered by I, Sapient 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
She has an engagement ring, I wouldn't even bother. Instead you should reach up and give her a wedgie for giving you no choice but to see it everyday.
2007-12-06 10:50:12 · answer #10 · answered by Danelle 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋