help please!!!?

Question

i ahve this friend well she is my best friend really i have know her since i was a little girl but i just found out that she has sleeped with my boyfriend who i have been with 4 years what shall i do
do i forgive her on not she brake my heart

Answer 1

Yes, forgive her. But then forget her.

There is no trust left there. You'll always be suspicious about her.

She betrayed you in one of the most horrible ways a sister girlfriend can betray another sister girlfriend.

Forgive her but don't associate with her any more. That way you know she'll never break your heart ever again.

Answer 2

Forgive her...I know she had to know she was hurting you but everyone makes mistakes now the real question is your boyfriend... Uhh dont forgive him why was he sleeping with your best friend which also means he was sleeping around with other girls too.

Answer 3

What you need to do ask her why??? And ask him why??? If they have no excuse then that's when you whoop both of they a**es. No friend would ever do that. If they were a TRUE friend. Don't bother with her again, because once a back stabber always a backstabber. And same for your boyfriend don't bother with him either. Once a cheater always a cheater. You know what forget what I said about asking why? Just whoop they a**. They BOTH deserve it.

Answer 4

i wouldn't, i didn't, but now she's dead and i kinda wonder if i knocked some sense into her (after many years later) if she would realize that he is a minipulating jerk and that he has ruined alot of relationships(and friendships) if i woulda forgiven her sooner .......then she woulda lived longer and happier. But it's in the past. And you can't change the past. How old are you? If you are still young a teenager, than you can learn from this. You will probably never trust them again.

Answer 5

oh i difficult one. How did you find out?
Did your boyfriend tell you?
If so at least he told you. If i was you i would tell your friend to meet up with you then ask her if she as anything to confess to, see if she can admit it to you if she was a true friend then she would. How ever remember it takes two dont just blame your friend. Does your friend show any remorse is she sorry for it. If she is i am sure you can find it in your self to forgive?
Good luck

Answer 6

She's no REAL FRIEND, get rid of her and your boyfriend. Wise up to life. Try getting your own back, you don't have to sleep with any fella she goes out with, there are other ways of getting revenge. It'll make you feel better. Trust me I know.

Answer 7

wow this is some gossip girl stuff!! Your better off to move on, if not, there is always going to be a big fat elephant on the room when you try to become friends again.

Answer 8

Talk to her ask her why she did it and believe me once your bf cheats he will find it easy to do it again. Dump him and tell her that what she did is unforgivable. then dump her as a friend. believe me the pain now is better then the pain later down the road. there are so many other fish in the sea!!! and far many other girls that you can become friends with.

Answer 9

Forgive her but watch her and drop the guy for coming between you to or he will do it again One thing in life is a true friend you will only have one guys come and go

Answer 10

It all depends on how you found out. Did one of them tell you? If one of them told you, be angry with that one, but forgive them eventually. The other one, you should drop. I really hope things work out ok for you. Chin up. :'}