ive been dating this one girl at my school. to skip alot of the details, i kissed her for the first time (only lips). this was after many dates, hang outs, and hours on the phone. so tommorow after school, i want to kiss her again. but should i just do it, or say "would it be wrong if i kissed you right now?" or "one for the road". im new at this so,..i need a the pointers i can get.
2007-12-06 08:33:17 · 53 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i got big cahones..j/k
2007-12-06 08:33:36 · update #1
Just go for it man. A lot of girls like it sorta unexpected.
She didnt complain when you did it the first time did she?
So when you see her, just go right up to her, hug her, then look at her pretty face and just kiss her.
:] Goodluck
2007-12-06 08:36:54 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Additional details: big cahones, just means you have a small d!ck.
If you don't think the time is right, just kiss her on the forehead. Women love a kiss on the forehead, after that kiss on the forehead, you might be surprised that she moves in for the kiss.
2007-12-06 08:37:13 · answer #2 · answered by USAGUY 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
boy i did 4 tours in Nam and killed 89 Viet Kong armed with nothin but a salad fork and piece of wax paper. I made love to shaved greased up bear for 6 nights in a row to keep from freezin in the Alaskan Tundra. Just cause you kiss a girl ain't mean you got ballls, boy...them Charlies I kilt? I still got their testicles in a small thermos bottle with formaldahyde i keep under my pickup truck seat. You don't know what balls are boy.
2007-12-06 08:39:17 · answer #3 · answered by Toasty the Baby Seal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Really, it depends on her reaction. If she liked it and was agreeable to it, then kiss her again tomorrow. If she wasn't too agreeable, and seemed to push away from you, then don't try to kiss her tomorrow.
You don't need to ask "would it be wrong if I kissed you right now?" Most girls don't like that kind of question. It puts us on the spot. We prefer to let you know if it's right or wrong with our body language, the way we talk to you, or react to you, etc.
Just do it when the time is right.
2007-12-06 08:37:58 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok when you leave just play it natural.
As you see your ride pull up say, i got to go and lean in but don't touch lips. make her come in to finish the deal. Maybe 1 inch.
This way you didn't just plant one on her it was mutual and she will like that.
As for your balls I don't know nor do i want to. Keep the to yourself.
2007-12-06 08:38:14 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
hey, what if you don't and never know? Imagine the eternity with the question nagging at you? That great big "what if?" question always floating around. I say, go ahead, you've done it once so what's the worst that could happen? She wouldn't've let you if she didn't want you to. So I say good luck dude.
2007-12-06 08:37:38 · answer #6 · answered by ^_^ 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You sound quite shy.... Just be yourself and don't c**kitup through a teenage desire to experiment by taking it further than you need to.
Kissing is fine, just so long as she wants it too. Be natural, and if it doesn't work out, don't worry.
You both have a lot to learn, and that only comes with experience.
2007-12-06 08:41:25 · answer #7 · answered by MikeD2 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
never ever EVER ask "can i kiss you?" or ANYTHING along the lines of that.. that is the ULTIMATE turn-off.. a guy asked me that once that i really liked and once he said that i just wanted to end the date right then and there.
it shows lack of self-confidence and kind of maturity..
just go for the gold-- she's kissed you once and obviously liked it, so she's not going to change her mind over night. i would definitely kiss her tomorrow! i think that would be a pleasant surprise for her :)
2007-12-06 08:37:27 · answer #8 · answered by Meg 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just feel out the situation, you dont want to come on strong. If things seem like are going well just lean in and do it, you showing the intiative will mean a lot to her.
2007-12-06 08:36:06 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Don't ask that makes you look dorky and insecure just lean in 90% and let her go the last 10% (from the movie Hitch) - later tell her you were nervous and she will think it is cute :)
2007-12-06 08:36:38 · answer #10 · answered by Anne 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋