so i normally fall for the 'hot jerk' well i like this other guy and he's SO nice!! and really cares about me and is cute! the jerk guys use me and he HATES that! we had a sub in the class we have together and we ate lunch together (like always) but we passed notes during class :] (he knows i like him btw) and he told me some REALLY deep and powerful things..hes nice,cute,deep, and is so funny he's perfect...the only problem..he has a girlfriend. she's from columbia and not that pretty!! (overweight, and weird) in the hall today he tapped my shoulder and said heyy and that means SO much to me.....
but im SO confused cause he has a gf so what can i do to make him see me as better than his gf??
and any more advice you have would be GREAT thanks!
2007-12-06 08:18:20 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
make him want
noo nevermind.
make him NEED you.
if you have to, then do it.
you seem like you really like him,
plus it isnt like they will last forever...
long distance relationships are hard
to make work.
flirt your way to his heart, and once your
there. make it so that he feels like HE
needs you, and not that you need him.
make it a chase though.. :]
2007-12-06 08:24:57 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
maybe its best if you didn't get together with him. I mean he has a girlfriend and until they officially break up, you can't be in the way. I mean if he's flirting with other girls behind his girlfriend's back and if he gets together with you, how do you know if he won't do the same to you?
Plus its COLOMBIA not columbia (if your talking about the country) I had to say that since I'm from there.lol.
Also even if she might not have as great looks as you..you have to think that maybe its her personality that drew him to her. Not everything is based on looks. Good luck!
2007-12-06 16:29:44 · answer #2 · answered by r0lling_days 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yea I hate to say it but if he was to dump his gf just cause you're prettier it would make him just as much of a jerk as those other guys. Its the fact that he accepts her for who she is and isn't judgmental on his appearance that makes him such a great and NICE guy. SO its either kind of move on or wait for them to break up over other reasons.
2007-12-06 16:26:22 · answer #3 · answered by Rick F 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Dont let guys like that go away. If you think u deserve him then you should totally go for it.
I was like that too, i used to fall for hot players who just ended up hurting me and decreasing my self confidence until i met this guy who made all the difference. He's so sweet and caring and sincere.
Dont ever let guys like that go... U go and you get him!
Good luck! :)
2007-12-06 16:29:36 · answer #4 · answered by ♥JayJay★♀ 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
So you'd rather be his girlfriend because you think your better because you may seem "prettier"? That just turns the nice guy into the bad guy. There is a reason this other girl is going out with him. It's not just looks hun.
2007-12-06 16:24:37 · answer #5 · answered by lttlbt1442 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Is it just me, or does it even sound like you would deserve such a thoughtful person? "She's not that pretty, over-weight, and weird". One more thing, how are you going to feel if he does this to you with some other girl, think about it.
2007-12-06 16:27:16 · answer #6 · answered by Peanut Gallery 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Be friendly - smile at him. You will have an opportunity soon where it will be ok to say 'you know Ilike you alot". Don't get real serious when you say it - be smiling. Don't let the opportunity pass and then see what happens.
2007-12-06 16:24:27 · answer #7 · answered by misselie1 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Ohhh....so those other guys were jerks and mean to you and dumped you for other girls.
The same thing you want this guy to do to his Columbian girlfriend and date you?
So you'd rather turn this nice guy into a jerk to make yourself happy?
2007-12-06 16:21:36 · answer #8 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 3⤊ 2⤋
He probably already does. Flirt with him and see if you can get him to break up with his present, inferior girlfriend. Good luck!
2007-12-06 16:21:35 · answer #9 · answered by comfort eagle 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you dont need help from ppl what u need is to listen to ur heart.. probably he already sees you as a gf.... maybe he just has a hard time saying it... dont worry... take time and listen to ur heart.. and everything will fall into place...
---- Emerald
2007-12-06 16:27:24 · answer #10 · answered by Emerald_Gomez 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋