Should I tell him?

Question

My best guy friend is dating one of my best friends. They used to hold hands and stuff but now the seem like they never talk, shes being mean to him. I dont think she likes him anymore but I'm not sure and same with him. What should I do?

Answer 1

NOTHING......LEAVE IT TO THEM.......DON'T GET INVOLVED OR RISK LOSING FRIENDS!

Answer 2

I don't think you should say anything. There are probably a lot of things about their relationship that you don't know. Maybe you should talk to your friend (the girl) and ask her about the relationship and if she still likes him etc. And if she tells you anything that you think he should know, then maybe you should tell him that. But telling him that she doesn't like him anymore without actually knowing everything that's going on doesn't seem wise or right.

Answer 3

As much as you want to say something, just stay out of it. It may ruin the friendship that you have with each of them, and the friendship that they had together. He can probably sense that things aren't the way they were before, but may not know how to deal with ending the relationship. Just leave the two of them to deal with the situation on their own.

Answer 4

These are the types of situations I find it better to simply stay out of, unless someone comes to you for advice. If you tell him something, it might get turned around and your friend will think that u are trying to break them up, and it will create an awkward situation for all three of you. If she does not like him, she will most likely break up with him, and you will have nothing to do with it, and your friendship with both parties will stay intact.

Answer 5

if they're both your friends then your in the best and worst position. i would ask them about it and give advice to express their emotion to each other. but make sure you never tell the other friend what they say about each other be hind their backs because then that starts fights as im sure you know. help them out but keep your opinion to yourself. remember that they are your friends and let them work this out on their own....with just an extra push.

Answer 6

Well, I think he'd be upset if you never told him and you knew, and he IS your best friend, so you do owe it to him. He'd be really hurt if you knew and never told. Maybe you should talk it out with the girl first, and if she really doesn't like him, then just tell him. There's no use for him to stick around when there's no mutual feelings.

Answer 7

Ask if they are going out anymore and if they're not try and stop the tensions between them so they're both friends again which should end the conflict.

Answer 8

approach each of them separately and ask them what is going on. Don't tell one what the other say. After you are done getting your info, arrange a meeting for both of them to meet without them knowing and see if that would solve the problem

Answer 9

It is very hard to stay out of it, especially since both are very close friends of yours. But, it is not really any of ur business, maybe not even if one of them ask ur opinion.
U r betraying one or the other and intefering if u say something.
Be open to listen, but keep ur opinions to ur self.

Answer 10

If she is your friend why not ask her? It doesn't have to be confrontational when you ask her, just bring it up sometime. If she doesn't then she needs to tell him, it will end better than if the couple gets in a huge fight and you end up in the middle.

Answer 11

Keep it to yourself. Someone else's relationship is really not any of your business and if you do butt in, you're just going to really tick off your best guy friend and your other best friend.