-Me and this guy were friends before
-He told me that he wasn't sure if he was ready for a realtionship but then he asked me out anyway.
-Since we'd been going out we had seen eachother less than before we were going out so I asked him what was wrong
-He said he can't commit right now cos of stress & he's nealry finished uni & wants to wait till it's over.
-Now he wants me to meet up with him this weekend
-He isn't seeing anyone else because I know his friends and he knows some of mine-plus he doesn't sleep around-he's slept with 1 girl & he's 22.
-I think he's afraid to label us boyfriend & girlfriend cos he's scared of it getting serious & he's young & doesn't know what he wants.
-H e sounds confused so shall I just go with the flow cos I never said I wanted anything serious (I haven't slept with him)
2007-12-06 07:07:58 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
It sounds to me like he may be either just trying to get his leg over, or you're his 'reserve' until he finds someone else.
If he doesn't want to get serious now, call his bluff by telling him you only want to be friends until he's ready to commit to being together.
If he means what he says, it'll be worth the wait. If he doesn't, at least you know before you got too far into things.
2007-12-06 07:33:50 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should just keep it just friends and respect the fact that he doesn't want to commit. Taking it further will complicate things and probably lose a good friend.
2007-12-06 07:14:59 · answer #2 · answered by uneekqamar2004 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't meet him this weekend. You'll regret it if you do.
You can still be friends, but just keep your distance a bit. It sounds to me, he just wants to use you. If a man wants to be with you, he won't come up with pathetic excuses.
2007-12-06 07:17:41 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i can understand you coz i had the same experience before. what i did was....i stopped communicating with him coz there is no point of sticking with him. If he really cares he will commit himself to you and not just being around for no assurance.
2007-12-06 20:26:56 · answer #4 · answered by candy3 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's playing you!!!
He doesnt want a relationship with you because he's just not that into you!
Get out of there while you still have your pride!
2007-12-06 07:12:26 · answer #5 · answered by gilly g 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he means alot to you then give him time and space and it will work out!If its just a crush then make your mind up and tell him what YOU want!
2007-12-06 07:13:38 · answer #6 · answered by Matt Y 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you having sex? If you are then he wants a friend with benefits. He is just using you then for sex and does not want any attatchments.
2007-12-06 07:17:44 · answer #7 · answered by kim h 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He wants to sleep with you!!!
2007-12-06 12:36:29 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
get someone else
2007-12-06 07:14:12 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋