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why is it no one is willing to help out someone that is trying to help themselves, but will give everything to someone who sits on their butt all day and reproduces insanely and collects the checks?

2007-12-06 06:52:18 · 14 answers · asked by Kelly 1 in Family & Relationships Other - Family & Relationships

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Society is a little mixed up at times. It doesn't always work out this way. Keep your head up and stay positive and focused and things will turn around. GOod luck

2007-12-06 06:54:58 · answer #1 · answered by ?? yaddajean ?? 6 · 0 0

Because the "government" is trying to weaken the population. The people that try to help themselves are too strong. Those that sit on their butts all day reproducing more lazy morons, are weak.

Do I really believe this?

Not 100%. But I believe it more and more each time I think about this topic.

2007-12-06 14:55:54 · answer #2 · answered by Stephanie 3 · 1 0

It's called being lazy. People who sit on their *** all day guzzling beer, doing drugs, and having children are the scum of the earth. I work my *** off every day and my hard earned taxes are contributed to my ex best friend who had a baby at 19.

I however expect to be living in NY by 27 with my husband and earning 80 grand a year between the two of us. That's called hard work.

Don't let it bother you. There is nothing you can do about it. Just keep your head up.

2007-12-06 14:56:11 · answer #3 · answered by manhattanchicka 3 · 1 0

As insane as it sounds, I believe the rationale is prioritization of NEED.

The person who's not doing anything is in dire straits and will probably be destroyed soon.

While the person trying to help themselves, however bad off they are, will eventually climb out of the hole.

It's not a question of who DESERVES it, or who's worthy, it's only a matter of NEED.

2007-12-06 14:57:08 · answer #4 · answered by thedavecorp 6 · 0 0

Yes, the government and its aged and broken welfare system sucks @$$, but then I work and have lots of toys...

Hang in there, someday you'll be making the big bucks and have so much more than that "baby factory" sitting around collecting checks, and you'll feel much better about yourself!

Good luck!

2007-12-06 15:12:10 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

We live in a confused and bizarre world where we condemn people for a little of nothing. Racism continues to run rampant, anyone who tries to get over on the government is considered a hero and jails are housing innocent people or executing them. Me personally I would stress myself out with this because it's never-ending. My faith is in God who controls my life.

2007-12-06 15:19:34 · answer #6 · answered by uneekqamar2004 4 · 0 0

Maybe they figure that the person who is actually trying is showing that they don't need the help as much as the person who isn't.

If you see two people in the water struggling and one of them is actually managing to stay afloat, then the one you go to rescue is the other one. You simply figure they are in more dire need. That thinking is sometimes messed up but it is usually your first instinct.

2007-12-06 14:55:45 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

u can reproduce and collect checks if u want to so i dont understand what u are talking about.

2007-12-06 14:57:08 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

i have always wondered the same thing, and also wondered why celebrities can go into a resteraunt and get free food but someone who actually cant afford the meal has to pay for it, what do celebrities do thats deserves them a free meal and free stuff all time?? celebrities and welfare people deserve nothing.

2007-12-06 14:55:59 · answer #9 · answered by Lauren 2 · 0 0

Ever hear the phrase,"Life isn't fair"?Well, this is a prime example.Lots of good,honest hard-working proplr get short shrift from those who supposedly know them well.Perhaps if you were more dysfunctional and needy, you'd get their attention,but as it is,I would hold up my head,straighten up and get on with it.It's sure as hell isn't your problem! And it's too often true that"No good deed goes unpunished"
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2007-12-06 14:58:47 · answer #10 · answered by TL 6 · 1 0

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